I have a question

First off let me say I am not judging you or putting any of you down but I just don't get it. How can some of you guys actually be happy that you will never fuck your woman again or have her suck you off? How can pulling you own pud be as exciting or rewarding as cuming in a warm tight pussy or mouth? I'll admit it's exciting to watch your woman get horny and filled up with cum and to see her cum with some one else once in a while but if she ever told me I was never fucking her again and it was his pussy now she would be booted out the door on her ass! So can anyone explain to me why you 'want' to never fuck again?

The difference is sensation versus emotion.

The *sensation* of penetration & oral is awesome. There's nothing I could ever do solo that would compare to getting a blow job or coming inside a pussy.

For me, though, the *emotional* experience of being cut off from sex is very intense and feels very right. Sacrificing myself for my wife is what makes it work, and it works for both of us.

My wife told me last week that I will never penetrate her again. I will miss that warm wet feeling, but the thought of never doing that again is so powerful and so erotic that I am happy although a bit nrevous about it all.

It sounds like a masochistic thing, where you want (or need) to feel punished which would explain the offense part too. Is that right or am I off base? To each his own and if it works for you then more power to you. Thanks for explaining it.

There is, for a lot of guys, a masochistic element to hearing about your wife's sex life with other men, or watching her come with another man inside her. Being denied sex entirely is just like that, only more so. Humiliation, punishment, sacrifice, pain: good times!

stangman54

We can't understand it either and agree with you!

stangman54
People see cuckolding as one category
but it covers a whole rainbow of wants and needs.
I, for my sins am a cheating bull, I am
married and I cheat on my wife with other mens wives.
I cannot understand why some ( not many ) husbands permit me anywhere near their wife with their knowledge.
However I do try to benefit from it.
Just look at all the different forums here.
If it does not turn me on, I do not look at it or read it. I do not even try to understand it, also I would never dream of flaming at a desire I did not understand.
'whatever' turns you on, eh!!!!!.

I totally agree that there are lots of categories of cuckolding. When I was married and we swapped a few times it was a huge turn on watching her fuck and seeing her cum as some guy filled her pussy with sperm. Even now with my GF one of my favorite fantasies is her fucking a well hung black man and I don't understand why I love it. Just picturing her stuffing a huge black cock in her pussy and pulling him in deep while he fills her up makes me blow my wad every time. If she really did it I still might be turned on but I would never settle for jerking off the rest of my life. If I'm with a woman I better the be the one getting the majority of pussy or out she will go. So would I be a cuckold or voyeur? Thanks guys

A cuckold - a man whose wife cheats on him

end of definition.
ANY variation of that is "cuckolding"

what percentage of men do you really think never have sex with their wives and only watch them with others?
REALLY...

it's a tiny, tiny, number.
for most , it's a fantasy

It is interesting to see how many people make up the group that we call normal. What turns some people on....is what turns other people off....that is what makes for horse races....a difference of opinion. Glad to see all you men are so concerned about the welfare of your ladies. Makes me proud.....anyway.....very interesting read in here.....enjoy....such as it is....Missy