Question for other husband and/or wife's who have a "hotwife"

My wife and I are closing in on a year of her being a hotwife. We don't get into any offense of me, I just really love to watch her getting fucked and can emotionally handle it so long as she doesn't get emotionally involved with any of our "friends" which is the main rule we have. I enjoy her going out and having fun alone while I wait at home, I enjoy going with her and just watching, I enjoy going with her and participating. She tell's me she what she likes about it, #1 is how horny it makes me, she said it's added a big sparke and she love's how I just go crazy on her when she get's home or looking over at me while I'm watching and I'm sitting there not touching myself but sporting a rock hard cock. She also has said she likes how much I trust her to allow her to do this, she likes that I'm allowing her sexual freedom within our "rules", she has admitted she loves the attention, both from her lovers and especially me. One night recently we were a little tipsy and talking about it and she told me she didn't think she could go back. I asked her, go back, to what? which she replied she would have a hard time giving up our current lifestyle and that she found it addictive.

So, my question is for those longer term people in the "hotwifing" or "cuckold" lifestyle.

1. What changes, if anything, farther down the line in the relationship as this progresses?

2. For me, everytime is still like the first, I get so turned on I can't stand it, being there or waiting at home, both make me so horny for her, has this faded for anybody after years of doing it?

3. I really, really want to see her even if it's just one time, with a BBC....she has been reluctant but I know her and I honestly think she will go crazy once she gives in. She has agreed to try it for me once and we are looking. For those with white wife's that had never been with a black male before, what was it like for both of you and did she want more of it or go back to just white cock?

4. Lastly, I love creampies, never thought I would but I've missed out for years on something I find absolutely great and wonderful. My wife absolutely goes crazy, I mean bucking around, moaning and cumming super hard as soon as I start to lick her after someone else has fucked her. She said it really turns her on knowing I'm licking her pussy after another cock has cum inside her. Do your wife's or if your a wife, do you really get off on this too? She will text me now on the way home and tell me to get ready, she has a nice big suprise for me when she gets home and is sure to let me know as she crawls up on my face to 69 that it's been thoroughly and freshly fucked and is full of another man's cum and wants me to tell her how much I like it, she will want me to tell her how great it tastes and that I want more. Nothing about it grosses her out at all, it's the opposite, she says it's her favorite thing about doing this now......she get's off on the fact I'm either licking her fresh fucked creampied pussy or if I'm there, she will get me to lick his cum of her face, tit's, ass, wherever he cum's, even will scoop it up on her fingers and have me suck it off....She goes absolutely crazy when we do this, I mean, out of her mind crazy.....Does this turn your wife on too? Has anyone else become addicted to craving being fed creampies by your wife?

I've never been allowed to watch my hotwife with a b/f, but i would love to.
Just like you, i like to drop her off and go back home waiting and wondering what she's doing, whether she's just giving him a handjob or fucking him and what positions they are doing it in.
She's had a black guy and a pakistani guy as well as white guys, she loves the attention and to know that i am at home thinking about it locked in my cock cage, not able to wank.
As for creampies, i had the black guy's cum one time and didnt even know till she told me days after i didnt realise, i just thought she was wet and horny, i have no problem with creampies and often made to lick up my own. Just like you she likes to reach high up into her pussy with her fingers and feed the cum to me, it does taste different from really high up.

I think my wife would stop playing if I asked her to.... But I haven't tried it took me a long time to get her to play. Everytime is is very hot for me but also I get all nervous when I am not there, my wife plays maybe once every couple months I have been there watching or joining, I have waited , I have been out of town for work and had to wait to see her for a week.
She has recently tried BBC about a year ago, she makes incredable nosie when she is getting the BBC (he is huge) she tells me though that it is just like white except it is black.
My wife loves me to eat her after.

While the feeling you got waiting on her to get home after that first cuckolding date was quite probably about the most intense erotic thing you ever felt, the excitement of it has never gone away for me. Each time my wife is out on a date with a bull I find it an incredible turn on! I particularly love it when she texts me telling me that she's in the bathroom and about to get in bed with him in just a minute. I can imagine them and my cock becomes immediately rock hard. Although I hate to waste the load, many times I just have to jack off and get some relief since I can think of nothing else but the two of them together fucking each other's brains out. While I go through a lot of anxiety, I would not trade the feeling for anything, except the times when I have been able to actually witness them fucking in front of me. My mouth starts to salivate when I think about her coming home well used with a wet pussy from her night of cuckold fun. I would never want to give up this lifestyle!

Yes I must say it's very addictive. My wife had her first play about 5 months ago and now averages 1-2 "dates" a week. I've watched, joined in and not been present. Each time I've been probably more nervous and excited then she has. When I haven't been there I've set up something to record the sounds of them fucking to listen to later. i have also snuck into the house a couple of times to hear her playing. I am not into the offense aspect and we have a great relationship with this activity bringing us even closer. She likes "being my slut" and also gets off watching video we have made of some of the plays. Unsure how long this adventure will continue for though at this stage it appears it will be part of our everyday life indefinitely

That is hot you eating your wifes fucked pussy, when we started this, it took a long time to talk my wife Donna into trying another man and she still after 10 years tells me she does this only for me, "Yeah Right".
It was part of the original deal that I would lick or suck each and every load of cum from her pussy after she got fucked and we have stuck to that since the beginning. That is the main turn on for us both whether she goes on a date and comes home and climbs up on my face or if I am there, after the man pumps his load into her I lick and suck it out, and I have had alot of loads. We are both very happy doing this, she tried a BBC once and it was so good for her she ****** for a few minutes, she awoke while I licked and sucked her pussy, had to suck that pussy three times that day, made us both very happy.

Dear kregory:

I think that sharing your wife with other people is fine as long as you BOTH enjoy it AND that you continue to have a meaningful sexual relationship with her. I simply do not understand why some guys (husbands) like to be humiliated by their wives and/or the so called bull. To me, been humiliated is NOT EROTIC at all. However been able to share your wife say in a threesome certainly is! I have read enough permisteral stories posted here and I feel sad for those husbands who have essentially lost the respect of their wives and have been physically and emotionally castrated by the permister they love.

At the moment I am divorced and occasionally have the pleasure to have a sexual relationship with a local couple. Her husband enjoys watching her been "fucked by me" but he actively participates - and I love to watch him penetrate her while I enjoy a blowjob from her. Our relationship is based on mutual respect and I can say that I would NEVER participate in a relationship where offense of one of the parties is an important element.

So Mr. Kregory, I hope you and your wife continue to share sexually with others BUT do not fall into the trap I have seen other husbands here fall - some of them like to be "ruined" as men - that I simply will never understand.

Good luck,

latin
jvh

This is an old posting but the questions he asked are still as valid today as yesterday