My wife of 15 years took a chance and let me set her up. Finally came down to a 20 something, 8" (I'm 5.5) Black guy. We met at a local eatery/bar. He asked to kiss her after they sat beside each other for a while. My wife gave him tongue. I tried not to perv and felt aroused and awkward. We all left (they holding hands) I drove.. they were necking and he was fingering her (she wore a skirt) before we left the parking lot. They fucked at a nearby park and have continued for the last 9 months.
Many things worked out differently than He and I (and she and I) had discussed. Instead of a lot of cuckolding 3 threesomes - Its them hanging out (often when I'm not around) and frequently fucking (generally each "session" lasts 2-3 hours. He comes a couple times as does she. She has also found that she squirts - never knew that. He found that out.)
She enjoys pretty much everything sexual better with him: Kissing, Oral (except she LOVES my tongue and has found she likes to put her used womanhood in my face and ride my tongue to more orgasms). She can go weeks and months and not miss my "manhood". She is becoming a bit stretched and tells me she can barely feel me now (can feel my thrusting but not much inside) and that REALLY turns Her On! On some level it does to me too - Seeing my Completely devoted and Faithful Wife now now still loving me but Craving Him. She loves me and wants me to be happy but she absolutely loves her time with Him.
I've even been having "performance anxiety" since this began and while it puzzled her (initially) I could tell she was getting aroused (and wetter) knowing that I wasn't hard enough to continue penetrating her and that He was quickly doing her 20 times (or weeks of continual sexual intercourse) to my one.
I've been having problems adjusting.
She wants to orgasm control me and do more humiliating and for my sake I need her too. She is not entirely comfortable with "Being Mean" but when aroused DOES find it a strong turn on to tell me how much she doesn't miss my Little Dick and that she seriously doesn't think she could ever be sexually happy with just my penis in her world. She would drop her BF if it meant loosing me (She has been emphatic about that) she would be severely unfulfilled (with just my tongue, penis and dildos). I've told her (And Him) that if I ever became selfish enough to try to stop her from feeling that satisfaction that he was to ignore me and satisfy her. I've told her the same. I did say "If I think I will loose Sanity then I will say so, but anything else - you do what you need to do Babe."
SO: If anyone can suggest erotic ways to humiliate me without including feminization and nothing more gay than me eating her VERY messy pussy then we would love to hear it.
Thanks for Reading!!