Well I just told my sexy wife to have fun on her first date with an old friend of hers. She's known him from before we met, and they spent a little time together back then, but it never really developed into anything more than a casual friendship. When I told her how exciting I thought it would be for her to start seeing someone on the side, she thought of him. It took some convincing to get her to believe that I was really ok with it, and that it didn't at all mean that I love her any less. I explained that it's just something that's such a turn on for me that I can't resist suggesting it. So she sent him a note asking how he was doing these days and eventually they decided to get together for a couple takes. When she told him she was married now, and that I approved and encouraged her to see other men, he was surprised and said that if he were married, he wouldn't want his wife doing that, but as long as I'm not going to be a problem, he'd be happy to get together with her. I told her how wonderful I thought it would be for her to meet a man that she could date regularly, and how I'd always be waiting eagerly at home for her to return and tell me all about her dates. She seems to find the whole idea amusing and interesting, and I'm hopeful that this blossoms into the delightful lifestyle that I long for so much. I feel so lucky that I'm with a beautiful woman who isn't afraid to explore alternative arrangements in a relationship. I know you all understand what joy I'm feeling right now, knowing she's on her way to meet with him, hoping for the best between them.