Why does this fascinate me?

My wife and I have been married for about 5 years. She is in her late 30s, and is a very beautiful woman who has been described as stunning by a mutual acquaintance.

Prior to getting married, we had a lot of sex, sometimes multiple times a day. Work, then kids and the usual things took their toll, and our sex life is best described as infrequent.

I have always had a fantasy of her having sex with another man, but lately it has become an even more powerful image. She is tired a lot, and prefers to give me a hand job over regular sex. This sometimes soft, sometimes hard line denial only flames fantasies of her either cheating on me, or reserving her pussy for another man. She is amazing at handjobs, and relies on knowing how much I like them, to make sex even less frequent.

There are other facets of our relationship which may or may not be unusualy, but I wanted to start there. To add, I'm a fairly attractive guy, and never had issues with women.

qwerty, once that seed has been planted, it just keeps on growing. The only way you will ever achieve any relief is by the real thing happening, you being cuckolded. That fact that she's giving you endless hand jobs is in your favour in some ways. She must be getting frustrated to some extent, play on that facet, subtle hints on her playing away might well help too. Slow and steady will wear her down, then she'll actively seek out a suitable stud to fuck.

A few years ago the subject came up subtly, and she thought that the concept was perverted and somewhat dirty. She was raised conservatively, although she can be hot sexually when she wants to be.

I somehow think that she gets a sense of power and control during hand jobs, and she sometimes even cups my balls in control. Or maybe I just image the motivation. She has not fucked me for weeks, so I'm hopi g for some relief tonight.

Take it slowly and encourage her. Best done in the bedroom with role play -reading cuckold stories together, using a dildo (named after someone). Good luck

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Any update? Relief or further discussion with wife?

No sex recently. She did give me a hug, and she smelled great. I jerked off thinking about her giving me a hand job while she denied me her pussy. Strange that this should arouse me more than the thought of fucking my own wife.

Not strange at all. You and wifey have found an effective means of mutual satisfaction. It doesn't get any better than that! The fascinating thing is that both of you are pleased with your current sex life. It works for you!
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I have slowly become quite similar in this way over recent years.
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After days of promises and a long drought, I was looking forward to her pussy last night.

As we were getting in bed, she asked me if I could hand her the lube. Before I could shay anything, she cut me me of and told me to lay back because she was going to give me a handjob. My cock betrayed me and was already getting hard, and her hand was stroking me as soon as I laid back. She got close to me. I touched her ass, and as my breathing quickened she kissed me once suckling on my lip.

I came a few minutes later, and she had me hand her a towel to clean her hands.

Outstanding

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I can attest to the notion that your drive for this does not diminish overtime. It grows more powerful regardless of Her actions. If She doesn't play, you want Her to. If She does play, you want Her too more. It doesn't diminish...at least it hasn't for me for close to a decade now.

She has not gotten me off. It seems like longer than I can remember, although clearly not as long as some others in the same situation.

My cock is not short, yet it's unused by her.

She took care of me. I was really horny, and she finally gave in. My wife had me take my pants off, and stroked me off while she was watching one of her shows on TV.

"Don't kiss me, I'm watching TV. Just focus on whatever you want so you can cum quick. Think about whatever gets you off."

I thrust into her hand, rock hard. After a few minutes, I could feel my orgasm building, and so could she.

"That's it, push, fuck into my hand. Image you are fucking me if you want. That's it, cum for me".

I shot off, getting most of it onto my stomach.

She definitely both owns and controls you!