Ideas to excite a husband SHORT of having sex with another man?

For wives not yet ready to take the step of having sex with another man, what kinds of things can a wife to do keep her cuck-wannabe husband excited? Any ideas? Any suggestions appreciated!

BTW- I am asking as a husband who wants to see my wife sexually thrilled by another man, not as a husband who wants to be humiliated, not as a husband who has any desire to engage in bi-sexual acts, and I have ZERO interest in tasting anyone's cream pies! I am mainly excited by the idea of her having awesome sex with a guy who can thrill her with his size or technique in ways I cannot. I say this because it seems many here are excited more by these things than by their wives having sex with another guy, so I just want to clarify what interests me.
Thanks for any ideas that my wife might be willing to do, say, pretend to do, etc... while she works up her nerve to take the next step.
Many thanks!
Jim

have her pleasure herself with a very large dildo as you watch, and as she verbalizes how much she wants and needs a huge cock to please her properly.

5 years or so ago, when we were at that stage, I bought a large dildo for my wife to play with while showing her pictures of nude males from porno mags; from there we progressed to videotapes/movies and I gradually left her alone in the bed while she watched them. She seemed to get more interested in things after she became used to playing that way. Sometimes I used the dildo on her, but mostly I just encouraged her to use it alone while looking at the men.

Make that 25 years or so ago )

My suggestions is for you both to explore your mixed emotions, kinks, fantasies, and cuckold rituals and protocols in the safety and privacy of a cyber chatroom, with an experienced Bull. It is a nice way to discretely break the ice, test emotions, and explore things privately, without there being any real skin-top-skin contact. A nice first step.

Remember that in learning to walk baby steps were first, then you graduated to big steps. Sex with strangers works much the same. My wife's start was with her 10" dildo which we affectionately named after her very well hung previous boyfriend before she married me. I would play 'Please Fuck My Wife" (real life couples in cuckold videos) DVD's for her while she used the dildo on herself. I would encourage her by telling her how beautifully she looked with that big cock inside her and how I would just love to see her in real action. I would also lick her clit while she did herself with the dildo and I would tell her that I would have no problem if the cock next to my tongue was the real thing. All this planted the seeds that would eventually develop into my wife being at ease with picking up men at bars and bringing them home to fuck in my presence. Baby steps can lead to wonderful things later on!

JUANITO
Wow it sounds like you have the perfect situation! I've yet to watch or recieve any pics or vids from the in-person encounters that my girl has had with other men. She's gone for guys who just dont happen to understand why I find it hot that they're banging my girl. Perhaps I need to suggest some changes to how she describes our relationship to her other boyfriends. Anyway, thats for a different thread.

Now her online sessions are different... since the other guy doesn't need to know I'm watching the computer screen, she lets me be in the same room most of the time. I have plenty of awesome videos from those encounters... footage with her and approximately 10 different boys/men.

But to help the OP with his problem, I suggest you have a sexy photo shoot with your wife and then get her permission to blank her face and to share the pics in communities such as this one ;) It will surely give you a nice thrill to read all the comments and to receive tributes etc., and your wife may be fine with it too if you are liberal with the censoring...

I'd tell her to secretly get one of those handy velcro contraptions that go under the mattress and enable a woman to quickly and easily restrain a man by all fours on the bed.

When you least expect it, she'd tell you she wants to try something a little different and direct you to lie back on the bed and close your eyes. I can assure you from personal experience that a woman who has practiced with the velcro restraint system can have you completely helpless very, very quickly. It's very erotic and intimidating to suddenly find yourself entirely helpless, trusting your partner to be gentle.

Then, put a pillow beneath your head, ask coyly if you're "comfy" and then leave the room and close the door. I'd tell her to leave you there for fifteen minutes at least, and to deliberately make some racket outside the locked door.

Then, when you can't stand it anymore she comes back in wearing spike heeled boots and something sexy and skin tight.

Then she proceeds to give you a merciless, teasing handjob/blowjob as she describes in excruciating detail a former (or even imagined) sexual experience with another man. If she's good, she'll bring you right to the edge of orgasm repeatedly and then stop. She can use a mixture of her hand, her mouth, and riding you until you're literally begging for relief.

I'm sure there's lots of teasing things she can do to other body parts when you're flat on your back and helpless.

When she finally lets you cum, you'll explode like a keg of dynamite and be relentlessly fantasizing about watching some stud fuck her brains out for the next month.