it_ccm74:
The problem was that my submissiveness is too dependent on her fucking around and not enough on just her authority (after she come back from a good fucking I am as docile as a little puppy) so she is looking for a training technique that could make me obey her unconditionally regardless of anything else.That's why she is toying with the idea of putting me in chastity cage. I am both excited by the idea but also worried on how it would be to lose access to my cock!
Her email reads like the perfect FLR manifesto! She is carrying out her own agenda openly and has you on a tight leash. It seems like the lady has things under control. She is getting hers! You enjoy letting her wipe her extra marital fun off with your ego. Thats the whole idea! The only one bitching is you.
The real problem here is that she had to even write that email in the first place! You are trying to top from the bottom and her letter clearly points out your many errors. She can have fun but she pays dearly because you only behave properly when she does
YOUR will! You are failing to allow her to wear the pants one hundred percent of the time by not being sincerely submissive to her will. Now that she spelled it out for you so well, you still are being obtuse and want an interpreter to come up for a plan for her to rule you. It don't work that way. You will have to fulfill every request in her email on your own. She has spoken and you must obey all of her directions without the slightest aggravation for her! If you refuse to anticipate and fully submit to her wishes at all times it can never work. So far the only thing you are doing is trying to be cute and wishy-washy about the whole FLR thing and her email shows how far off that mark you really are. Do you want her total rule over all aspects of the relationship or not? You must radically change your tune if you do!
Thing she needs to do now is to break you. She can be lazy as she wants and still very easily bring you to heel. It goes like this; You explain to her your need for her to break your spirit and attitude in order to train you to obey her will. Ask her to take your toy away (put your prick in a cage) so it can't distract you from learning how to fit under her thumb.
She is being a perfect Bitch and rubbing it in your face real good. She isn't malicious and don't want to be the bad guy here. So if you want more you'll need to beg her to lock your manhood away and plead with her to be a real Cunt in keeping it locked away. She probaly realizes that now. If she agrees then ask her permission to allow you to cage and lock your dick and give her the key. Now it is fun time for her. She can wear sexy outfits and show sexy looks while constantly reminding you that you won't be getting any more of her goodies. Every time someone hot passes by or comes on TV she can remind you that you'll get no more of any female pleasure. If she will be a real Cunt for you, you will break in short time. Once she has broken you she will lose her respect for your manhood. Done properly, you will become unworthy of her sex and she'll probaly not give you so much as a glimpse of her panties ever again. Sexual respect from her toward your maleness is irretrievable at that point. Her goodies are reserved for other men only!
Remember that the only way it can work is for you to get down on your knees and beg for her strict rule. She must know that you absolutely need her to have total chastity control over you before you can or will reward her by behaving properly!
You will cry, beg and do any other thing she wants to get your relief. This is a great, fun experience for her! You will bare your soul to her and she will get great pleasure fucking with your head. It can last for days and days and when she is done fucking up your sexuality for good she might then give you permission to unlock your cock. Of course she will tell you that she would rather have you keep yourself locked for her anyway and you'll be a pussy and quickly agree! Then she gives you the key, and you unlock the cage and immediately replace it with a numbered plastic tape lock.
She is officially Boss, you officially Bitch and your self-caged sex locked with a plastic tape is testimony that she is not a cruel permister and that you are very eager to learn the most important thing! Her authority is wherever she decides to put her thumb and your duty is to adjust your life so that it always remains under her thumb!
Something like that is one way it may work. If you want to be her slave, you are expected to do all of the work while she enjoys all of the play!
You can't top from the bottom. If you want to be her bitch then its got to be all the way her bitch. Your call.
..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!
