Linda38DD

Amen!

All of us are lucky and thankful that you share your beauty with us! Fact is that you would be equally attractive to me with a 34A breast and 40 more pounds! I like you for many real reasons. You have an engaging pers0nality and this entire thread proves that your characteristic of presence is notable and solid. You share interesting experiences. You consider your actions and aren't afraid to admit a mistake, learn from it, pick yourself up and parlay this talent by helping others deal with similar issues. You can stand your ground, take a hit, get back up and win with dignity. Many beta males on here need a woman to explain the reality of what a lady truly desires in a man compared to a doormat. You are she, they seek your advice and are answering to you! You tell males to grow a pair and actually provide good advice to help them become more appealing to women! I could go on and on about your valuable contributions to us...

This post sounds like I'm blowing smoke and very insincere. I apologize but can't come up with a better plan to show you that Linda38DD is so much more a human being! Albeit one with an awesome rack! Let us just call this post a well deserved, Loving Lick for Linda!
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I_A_S_P.... You know what I like in a man,well several things, 1...srong fingers and forearms..why? I have no idea but it turns me on... 2...Confidence a man who projects this is HOT.!!!!! While a nice sizze dick is great the really big ones are very uncomfortable..Who wants their insides poked really hard..not me.no give me a confident man with strong fingers and forearmsa and color me happy..
My husband is a great ****** (not biologically) a good provider.But in bed only good at one thing..performing outstanding oral on me..Plus he is a wimp....

******= ******

All realistic desires. You are a very intelligent cuckolding wife. You call the shots. Things go your way. There is no arguing with success! I am very happy that you are here!
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Thank you, you know when I started all this stuff,you know cuckolding my husband,I was wooried about divorce (silly me we had a prenupt) worried about what people thought,worried about a lot of things..You know what it was silly,some people hate me,some love me but that would have been so in any case so I just live my life..I aam sorry about certain things in my marriage but the hell with it.From quiet church mouse to a screaming slut.What the heck..

Every cuckold wife can agree with those words! Quiet church mouse to high strung bitch I can understand. I have no problem dealing with either one. You are absolutely NOT a slut! Screamer? Oh yes! I consider you a Hot Wife rather than a cuckoldress. We need to factor hormonal swings into your mood problems. You seem to be getting a good handle on things. Bitchiness is an essential necessity for any woman to cope in a cuckold marriage. Yeah, she may be in the driver's seat but hubby's ass is the one that always takes every bump in the road. She is boss but if she had a real man to provide for her, she wouldn't have to deal with road bumps. Hubby pays by having to endure almost continual bitching. Serving hubby a good, loud, scathing bitching session helps any lady keep her sanity.

You don't really need much advice. You seem to be getting your head together very well! We can stop this "slut" foolishness. That word does not apply to you in any way! Your self esteem has been beaten enough! Time to look into the mirror and see the true and dignified Linda that I (and the many people who understand you) see.

A woman is human and can become overwhelmed and lost. Yet, she often needs only a hug, a word, a bit of sympathy to revive her soul! A lady always carries her own weight and often much of her husband's, with dignity.
You are going to be all right!
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A lot of that is true, now I define a slut as a woman with the morals of a man..by that understanding I am a slut,slut not a whore.. I carry a goodly amount of guilt and I am dealing with it.. I do see a shrink,not for cheating but other things.I do go to group and that has been the best for me..My shrink is a woman so she understands some thing of what I am going through.. Not a nut case just a ordinary woman with guilt.But its understanding souls like you that help me..Maybe we could chat some time on twitter..

Linda38DD
I'd say that organ between your ears is your best asset .
I don't mean that sarcastically or facetiously. Your body is way above average but with th the brains you make others look like they're tied to a post! Thanks for sharing the ride with us.
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Few are rained out

Got your message. I'm not currently on twitter but definitely have the info! Thanks!

Let's see...... You seek counsel..... You are part of a group that helps you share and feel less alone...... You have found counsel that you are comfortable with and who understands your situation......... You carry your fair share of guilt and are facing and dealing with it...... You feel helped by these actions and feel and see progress from your efforts! I must agree that you are not a nut case. You are an ordinary woman with guilt. I have some good news and some bad news for you. The good news is that you are doing everything correctly! This is the proper way to face and cope with issues. It works! I've seen many ladies get back into life this way! I can't think of a lady that didn't succeed (unless she refuses to stop any substance @buse she may be doing)! The bad news is: You are not a slut. Unfortunately, we just can't be everything we want to be. The error in your reas0ning is in thinking that a slut is a woman with the morals of a man. Sluts have no morals. The ship of sluts sailed away on you as soon as you declared "morals"! Win some, lose some.

I was just looking at your pictures and an idea came into my head. I saw two pictures, yes and true, side by side and it clicked. The first "yes" picture had "hubby" in chastity, "you" as center of attraction and your lover. The second "yes" picture features "you" dressed in full party mode, "lover" as center of attention and "hubby" in chastity and kneeling at heel while leashed to your lover. I don't know if you drew those pictures or found them on the net and added them because they reflect your feelings. They seem to show an uncanny resemblance to your life! Also where things went totally awry. The first "yes" picture shows "you" in complete control with "hubby" in chastity on one side and "lover" on your other side. I assume things went pretty smooth for you in that setup. The second "yes" picture has "lover" in control with "you" and "hubby" both subservient to his overbearing rule. I'm guessing this is where everything turned to sh1t for you these past few years.

The "true" picture shows what I believe to be an ideal "Linda" scenario! A happy, dominant, real Linda in control of her considerate, capable lover and supported by a devoted, loving, castrate hubby! I do not know if any of this is a million miles from the reality but I hope you can see how I inferred your artwork.

Linda on top and running the show, is the only way its going to go!
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Hi,hey thats a first my brains not my boobs..Thank you kind sir..

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Few are rained out

Went fishing in mexico last week end,Shawn,Max and I went to Encinada last weekend and the boys took me on a charter,I didnt think it would be fun but OMG it was I caught Halibut and a grouper..Didnt know what they were but crew told me..

Hey Linda, my guess is that if you went with both Shawn and Max to Encinada then you did a lot more things than just catching fish! Never believe you're anything but the most perfect cuckolding wife to Billy.

Your right Kenny lots happened,but it was the fishing I was talking about..Billy wanted to come along but we couldnt get a sitter for the weekend plus it would have been a waste of his time,he gets so sea sick..

My, you're such a bad girl, Linda! I guess that's what makes you so fuckin' desirable! xx

You maybe right Kenny,I do like to be bad,I just have to watch myself with Billy,tend to get carried away..

Linda, we both know that Billy wouldn't still be there if he didn't have strong feelings for you, and that he actually likes what you're doing to him. xx

maybe kenny,do you remember Michael (asshole) my boyfriend years ago and ****** of my 15 year old..Well he talked me into a punishment room a attitude adjustment place.Well we had one built in the basement..I take Billy there from time to time,thats what I worry about, going to far in my punishment of him..

Linda, you are super hot. Billy is such a lucky Person to have you, even if sometimes you may seem cruel. I'm sure he loves you so much.
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Linda, think about it for a moment.....
How big is Billy? Well over 6' and well built? If he wasn't a willing partner to what you're doing to him then he just wouldn't go along with you, under normal circumstances there's no way you could make him go in the room, he has to cooperate and show willing. I bet at the end of the punishment regime your cute pussy is tingling and wet!
I love the thought! xx

Billy is 6ft5 and 230..played guard and tight end in college. He says at that time if you were a lineman you played and knew all the positions,you even hiked the ball (did I say that right hike ) Yes he is over a foot taller than me and 100lbs heavier.I realize if he didnt go along with all this he wouldnt have too. We have this room in the basement,we call it the attitude adjustment room.Its what 14x20 I think its fairly large,we have my crops and paddles in a cabinet ,we have a extralarge padded saw horse with eye bolts in the base (is eyebolts the right word?) I put cuffs on Billy bend him over the bench,faaten him to those bolt things, get my paddles and let it all go. Here is what bothers me I LIKE IT..I really get into it.I have this leather bustier.panties and boots..the whole scene..If he is really bad I can hoist him up to hang by his wrists or elbows..I paddle him till he pee's..this all bothers me a day or so later,he likes it but I worry I will go to far and really hurt him..

Married couple you are the sweetest,thanks

Linda38DD
If this, like both of these, is not a perversion.Perhaps Billy like it too?

Linda, if you're worried that you may really hurt him, you might want to get some resources from the BDSM community. It's been years for me, but there was a great book called SM 101 by Jay Wiseman that was excellent. Or perhaps The Topping Book, by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy.

These three people are all reputable authors in the BDSM world, and you won't get any dumber if you read what they're written.

If you really do want to do a great job on your husband, while making the risks minimal or zero, look into it. You can thank me later.

xoxoxo

Christine

Christine I will do that,I want to continue this line,but its like some thing overtakes me sometimes,not every time but when it does I cant controll it,Billy doesnt complain but....

Linda, you worry way too much, girl. Billy's ok with this, he know's up front what's going to happen in there, it's not like it's his first time, is it? it's a form of you getting sexually excited, and I doubt very much you're going to be able to inflict any real lasting damage. You're both getting off on it, so let it ride. My guess is that immediately after you've done it, you're tingling all over, desperate to fuck Shawn or Max or whoever's available at the time!

Your more or less right Kenny,I have called a halt for the time being,as I dont like what Ifeel once we are done or what I feel like when I doing the punishment.I was making up reasons to beat him.Their has to be a real reason for me to do this.So a step back and think about this.. ..I went to Belize for a week or so, I was looking at houses on the beach..Its a nice culture down there..

Which lucky guy did you take along with you Linda? xx

I took my girl friend and hubby (Billy)..We were looking for a house at the beach. Billy takes care of our money and he is good at property..We were there 6 days,Karen and I saw the sites did lunch while Billy got a idea for what we want.I saw a couple houses.We are looking at what I want have a nice selection.Billy rolled over the money from the sale of the Costa Rica condo. It will be awhile but I loved the place..

Linda, I hope you are not on your little island during all the hurricane activity.
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