beginer wife with a question for the ladies

Hey, Im new to the site and this is my first post. Im looking for advice from women who have made their husbands a cuckold.I had to look the word up(Lol). My husband has a cuckold fetish about watching me with a blackman with a big cock. He knows when i was in college i dated a black guy that was very large. Over the years ive told him some of the stories about "Mike" and how good the sex was. I have noticed as i'm getting older (39) i am feeling more sexually assertive. I told my husband the other day that I am noticing myself seeing goodlooking black guys when im out and about. I also notice that Im not really attracted to the good looking white guys i see. I know its the "sexual prower" that black men put off. I used to be about 30/70 to the idea of fucking a black guy while the hubby watches but now its like 50/50. Only real holdbacks are pregnant/moral issues. So my question is: for the ladies that have entered this lifestyle, how did you start? My husband and i still have great sex, but this is really a turn on for him and its getting that way for me as well. Any help?
hotwifeDD

I'm a husband that got into the lifestyle. My wife has lovers but I do not watch. She dated, fucks and comes home to me. I clean her when she returns while she tells me the details. I absolutely love it!

Its not so much talking him into it, as much as you being comfortable with it. Join As hley M adimister and you will find a suitable partner. Communication with your partner is essential. Good luck and as always we want all the details!!

well I am not a lady - but I have been to swinger clubs where women enjoy a total abandon - with absolutely no strings attached and virtually no recognition (except from those that are there, with the same mentality). This atmosphere of total lust is in my opinion the best beginning (and you don;t have to do anything you don't like)

Now that I am considering entering into this exploration with my husband - how do I set limits with the bull, find an appropriate bull, a "clean" bull etc. This seems to be one of my biggest hang ups. The thought of being with another man while my hubby watches is exciting - but that seems to be deflated when I then think of my fears of disease, pregnancy, someone being too "rough" .... How do I manage these things. I'm not into humiliating my husband and he isn't the sissy that I have read about - but the thought of fucking someone while he watches with a stiff hard dick definately makes me wet. Just many qestions and I don't really know how to start the process. Monstrol - you mentioned joining Ashley Madimister - has this worked well for you? Hubby is completely comfortable with it - eager for it - yearning for it . . . . it's me that has the questions. haha
hotwifeDD

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Hi Zppy3 here you go sweetie xxxxx/oooo sorry about being so long winded
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you asked these questions
Hey, Im new to the site and this is my first post. Im looking for advice from women who have made their husbands a cuckold.I had to look the word up(Lol).
Only real holdbacks are pregnant/moral issues.
how did you start

Now that I am considering entering into this exploration with my husband - how do I set limits with the bull, find an appropriate bull, a "clean" bull etc.

All good questions and important ones
#1 well you looked up cuckold so you know that what is here is a big difference tan the definition lol

As far as the pregnant issue goes I would keep that in your power and control so if you don’t want to get pregnant than use condoms or the pill
STDS are a big concern and finding the right bull is a must if you plan on going bareback don’t rush into things take your time and find the one whom you are comfortable with and trust , I would also suggest that you look for a long term situation
This will also take some of the risk out of the equation.
You can always start with condoms and go bareback after he is tested

Okay well those are the easy questions lol

These are the hard ones If you are going to go through with this PLEASE TAKE MY ADVISE you and your husband have to sit down and talk about everything and set your boundaries if you don’t it will turn into a nightmare { I know this from experience}
This means what you are both comfortable with as far as your roles and what you both are expecting for your bull { not fantasy this is real and emotions will take over }
I would suggest you set your limits to the minimum and grow from there
But again I can not stress enough you both have to agree and be honest when it comes to this talk other wise it will get bad quick.

{{{{ Note …… I am a husband I am liaded back and very open to most things when it comes to sex but I was still blind sided by the highs and lows of what happened with my wife and I its something that cant be explained as far as the emotions you go though

I am the one who messed things up :{ and now I don’t think she will ever go down that road again. So this is why I am telling you so you two can get it right
And not go down that road. We are good now but it was pretty hard and a lot of marriages don’t last if the communication is not your first priority.


As far as setting limits with the Bull
After you and your hubby have talked, and set your limits
You will have what you need to find your bull.
Again don’t rush into it ,take the time and look for the one that will respect you and the limits you have set.
I hope this has helped Please keep us informed and let us know how things turn out
Good luck have fun and play play play
Xxxxx/ooooo for now Tara

just was wondering how things are going

Heck, just put on spiked heels and get him a take and tell him you will do things .. that's enough

You sound so HOT! I've told my wife of my own fantasy, which is her having sex with someone else (preferably a big black man) then coming home to me and making me clean her. She just isn't into it. The fact that you are entertaining this idea, and it's making you hot, makes me hot to imagine my wife in your shoes. My suggestion, is to find your man, make a date with him on a Friday evening. Don't tell your husband just yet. On Wednesday morning hit him up for the money to get waxed after work. On Thursday evening take him out lingerie shopping for some sexy panties and bras. Then on Friday after work take a nice shower and get dressed in your new sexy undies. Then tell him you're going out, and he'll get a special treat when you're home. I forgot to mention to not have sex with him during the week. He'll be so horny and ready, you'll both have a blast.