I'm not a bull, but I would say it's more about your attitude and the way you dress when you're out in public.
The best things that come to mind are:
1- Flaunt what you've got without looking trashy
2- Never go out in public without looking your best/sexiest.
3- Make excuses to talk to guys you think are attractive
4- Make eye contact and smile at guys in passing
5- Don't be afraid to flirt, regardless of who's around.
There's nothing stopping you from leaving your hubby sitting at the table in a mall food court so that you can go chat up a cute stud.

Hope that helps! Good luck!