Needing female advice please

Hello...my gf and I (in our early 40's) like to talk dirty while having sex. When having sex we have discussed being watched by a group of men while her and I have sex...leading to guys touching themselves and eventually coming closer. Before it was just looking...now in our dirty talk she is allowed to take them in her mouth. She has strong orgasm when we talk like this. Is the only fantasy dirty talk or something she might really be open to??? This is a sincere post and your feedback is appreciated. Thanks

sounds great...but I don't believe there to be a specific "guy" to involve. Also, it does not seem wise to live out our fantasy with someone we/she knows...seems better suited for a stranger. But how and where do we find the right guy that want's to get involved in the situation? I would think many men if approached would think mfm is a bi sexual situation....and I have no interest in bi...but all the same it seems it would spook many guys. Can't really go to a bar/club and have her try to pick up a guy and say my husband wants to watch....can you? I also am not sure if this is something she really wants or is she just teasing my sexual fantasy in the bedroom through imagination only?

If she's turned on by the fantasy she definitely has the potential of going through with it!...and quite probably would enjoy it...so would you, or you would not be bringing it up!! You could run an ad in ADULT FRIEND FINDERS, being very specific about your fantasies and wanting to experiment into reality with it. Run a picture of your wife with her face obscured in the ad. You can then meet potential bulls in neutral places such as a mall or lounge, and then decide if he's the one you want. If more than one is your thing, then you could arrange an actual sex meet in a hotel room with them. It's the ultimate HOTT sexual experience of your life (and hers!)...you'll see.

And by the way, as to not being sure if she really wants it, as you are making the actual arrangements, showing her pictures of the 'applicants' etc. she will see that it's about to become reality...one of two things will happen, she will act as though she's 'willing to try it once', which is what many wives say because they don't want to be perceived as total sluts, or she will totally stop the proceeds...if she stops them you know you cannot proceed, but if she says 'just this once' I'll try it 'just to please you', then you know you struck gold! Good luck.