Hi Mrs. Took,
I haven't actually seen my wife be fucked by her lover yet. He lives in another city, so the times they can get together are not that often.
The first time they got together he came to our city and I dropped her off at his hotel. She stayed the night with him and I picked her up in the morning. That time was the hardest for me - I had visions of me having a hard-on all night and jacking off thinking about what she was doing. The reality was that I had a huge knot in my stomach all night, couldn't relax, and made up my mind that when I went to pick her up, I would admit it wasn't a good idea (as she had been a bit reluctant to go through with it - she really only did it that first time to shut me up about it. I think she was curious but it was definitely for my benefit that first time) and we wouldn't do it again.
Anyway, it turned out that she had a nice night. She ended up with his cock inside her, but for various reamisters, they didn't actually have full sex. My wife and I had a good long talk about it, and we agreed to let her try it again if she wanted. Well, she definitely wanted, and so did her lover.
The second time, he again came to our city, and this time they had sex in our marital bed (not actually at our house though, as we were renting at the time). Again though, for various reamisters (flight delays, kids to pick up from school, lack of time) neither of them climaxed, so again, it was a good experience for her, but not mind-blowing.
The thrid time, my wife flew to his city and spent the weekend with him. This time she got it all. Great sex, multiple orgasms, him cumming inside her, going to dinner with him pantie-less. Total lack of inhibition on her part. Now she was definitely hooked. Each time too, I have become more comfortable with her being away from me. I have found that for me, the payoff is after she has been with her lover, and we are reliving her experiences while having our own sex. It really turns me on to hear her tell me how slutty she has been behind my back while I am fucking her. It is a huge turn on for her as well.
The last time they got together, he again came to our city. He stayed in a hotel in the inner city, and my wife went out at night and visited him in his hotel room. She got him to lick her pussy to orgasm - no sex - and then came home to me so I could feel her wet cunt. She wouldn't let me fuck her either. The next day, I went off to work, and she went and picked him up from his hotel, brought him back to our house, and proceeded to spend a few leisurely hours fucking him in our bed !! She looked like the cat that had got the cream when I came home from work, and we had a great session ourselves reliving her day.
It is our fantasy to have me watch her being fucked by another man, but as yet that hasn't happened. I am sure though it is only a matter of time
tobecucked - It took me a long, long time to convince my wife that this fantasy of mine for her to fuck someone else wasn't to do with me being bored with her, or falling out of love with her, or anything like that. We have been together for 25 years, married for 19 of those, and have (until now) had only each other a sexual partners. Part of me wanting her to have sex with another man, was to actually giver her the freedom to experience a different kind of sex. We aren't into the offense / sissy side of things - our sex life has always been very good, and I have to say, is even better now.
I told my wife about this site (I think at the time I was following a thread by Allen - "neighbours hot tub") and let her read some of the posts on here. I think then she realised that I hadn't gone totally loopy and that it was actually a common fantasy amongst a lot of men. We actually made contact with her lover through this site, and then just took things from there. At first there was a lot of texting and emailing between them which I used to get a bit jealous about, but now she has her own blog (sorry, it's a private one) which all three of us contribute to and share fantasies and real experiences.
Definitely I think communication is a must - you have to be open with each other about your feelings towards a cuckolding / hotwife lifestyle, and also patience - you have to let your wife move at her own pace, don't power her to do something she is not ready to do.
Just to fully answer Mrs. Tooks question. Yes, I am glad she actually did it. She is revelling in her permistera as a hotwife. She is so much more self-confident and assured. Oh, and she is constantly updating her lingerie collection too, which is something we both get a huge kick out of
