the diary of the wife that finally decides to take control

Jeanne and girlfriend Jess
Jess put the bitch's suitcase on the the side walk and move on!.
No sex is not healthy.

I have absolutely no idea what you meant by that comment, but I assure you I get tons and tons of sex, both from my husband and my boyfriends.....


Oh I see you were commenting on their post, not mine. Well whatever works for people, all the better for them. I for one like having my cake and eating it too. Having sex with my husband keeps me close to him and then I also am able to enjoy my boyfriends more, because they are so much bigger. I get the best of both worlds.

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Keep up the good work, or should I say pleasure. God, I wish my wife was more like you. More demanding of me.
Sissy Cynthia

Angel

WOW thanks for posting this thread. I am so glad for you that you had your dream wedding. I really enjoyed your comments about having both your hubby and your B/Fs the best of both. WOW you seem to sum up this life.

54 yr old hubby with a 53 yr old wife here. She does not date that is my wish dream goal. To see her become all that she can be.

NOO thanks for you comments. I pulled up the "Woman do not do house work" site. I would enjoy hearing more about your situation and seeing if you have any clues hints for me.

WOW, SOfT what a great comment. That sounds so hot so erotic. Hope you can share with me/ us more about your expierences.

Angel Thank you for sharing the lovley photos and allowing us to share in your life. My best to your hubby and please please keep posting.

Meijer

PS your are a beautiful Bride!!!

You are so kind Meijer. I find my life at times like a rolercoaster. It all depends on how horny I am and how horny my husband is. At the moment we are not really playing with my controling him much, but I'm sure ready to meet up with one of my boyfriends again.

Thinking about what could have been if all those guys would have actually showed turns me on a lot. But I guess guys will be guys, and so many of them are hard to trust. Glad I can trust mine.... Its just intersting though because the bad boys usually can rock my world in the sack....lol I guess that's how they become bad boys.

Here are some shots the night of our wedding. Sorry still no new ones of me and other guys, but maybe soon..;)

Angel,
In your second message, you wrote the message below. This is exactly what is prescribed at "Real Women Don't Do Housework" website. Have you seen that? How did you think to use this method?
sillyfemdude

May 12th, 2009
Today I started my control. After a long days of work I came home and went to bed. We laid there and I knew exactly what to do. I flew one leg aross my hisband's legs and stradled them so he couldn't more. I used the hot body oil I had on the bed side and started massaging his manhood. I knew he loved it and was wanting to join in on the fun but with me in that position he couldn't really move. I started in on with asking him about his day. he struggled but answered. we sat there for a few minutes talking about his day as I strocked his cock gently. Finally I went on with my demands. I explained to him that I wanted him to do all the laundry by the time I came home tomorrow. he started to protest and as he did I slowed my stroking way down and was almost bearly touching him. his noticed the change in strokes and a look of dissapointment drew across his face. once again I asked him if he would do all the laundry. He strated to protest but as I went to remove my hand and get off he quickly changed his mind and said ok. for the next 4 or 5 minutes I spent the time talking about what I wanted him to do and stroking him. speeding up when he did what i wanted and slowed when he protested. He didn't protest much though and each time I made him repeat it to me he got it straight each time. " hey I did good for a first timer" i thought. And as I wanted to see I came home to a clean home and clean clothes....... I like this game

sillyfemdude: I made a post here and someone suggested that site so I read the site. I still enjoy keeping him in line when he needs it...;) , but as long as he is doing everything I want, I don't need to.

glad to know u felt good at wedding Angel_love , pity u didnt get any cock one after the other but hey....... u can always try try try try again lol, thats the beauty of hot sex there is one on the way from somewhere. Hot pics babe keep the coming and ill keep my fingers crossed for you that you will get lots of different hot cock one after the other for breeding ...... luv soft

Thank you soft.. I would like to experience what you described your wife had. Although I have had guys that can last for hours, and I did have 3 other guys once, they weren't very impressive and didn't turn me on that much. I would love to have several hot guys focused exclusively on me.

In time I guess...

I love it your an inspiration to all

Well I guess all the planning my husband did, wasn't a total waste. We are going to meet the cutest of the four tomorrow. He was also the nicest in his appoligy and showed the most interest all along, so I hope it will work out.

Oh.... He also was the biggest ... but that wouldn't have anything to do with my decision.....lol

Well turns out people don't always send up to date pictures of themselves. .... We went 2 1/2 hours to meet him and he was totally different than his pictures, and I wasn't turned on, so I backed out. I hate it when people try to hide their real self.

However my husband and I turned the night into a fun one by staying at the casino there and doing some gambling. I almost picked up one of the guys at the tables, but I find it dificult introducing all of this face to face. Its much easier for me if the guys know all up front like from an online add that my husband will be there and everything.

I might be meeting one of my boyfriends this weekend. I'll let you guys know if I do.

So I statyed over at a girl friends house on Thursday night and evidently my husband spent the entire night playing with himself because last night he wasn't even able to keep it up... God I need to see one of my boyfriends...lol How should I punish him for cumming so much?

lol I've done that on many occasions.



If it wasn't for you women being so unpredictable about when you want it though we could abstain for a few hours beforehand!

As Ive told my wife on many occasions I only wank to save her from being pestered by me for sex when she doesn't feel like it.

Also to save myself from rejection when I try it on with her, and she then comes out with her many rehearsed excuses of, too tired, feel too fat, too full, too hot, too hungry, too sore, too takes, feel sick, my boyfriend is coming tomorrow...the list is endless lol

lol.... well Vigo I can understand if it was about him, however its about pleasing me. I already let him play with himself whenever he wants, and I use to let him decide when he would cum, but now he will need my permission. ;)

hi angel_love sorry i have been busy out and about just caught up with your diary entries, (i know im bad ,need a good spanking i do)ahhh, the dont look like Brad Pitt picture huh, oh and the so called" i have 15 inches of cock to satisfy ya wife"quote ......yeah right,so many of em out there say it and never see em again.its like loaning money to someone you do it and funny ya never see em again.I think its not so much looks though it helps but attitude permisterality and a certain amount of respect for eveyone involved that helps and that aint always easy to find.As for hubby playing with himself oh my god what else has he got left but to do that as he thinks of your body titts ass mouth and luv tube being filled by cock.Its so horny knowing u getting it and the frustration and anguish if he not there getting to watch.Mind you there is always the taunting teasing cb lock u could make him aquire and lock him into to increase his frustration .....but that is so nasty a thing to do(just an idea) so i can relate to him very well. any time ya wanna chat girl send us a pvte here love to hear how ya going take care luv soft

Yeah great idea, lock him in a CB.

Im going to talk to my wife about it.

Think there is some fun to be had there, that we have not tried yet.

I'm just worried it will be such a wast of money after I get fed up with it and cut it off!

Well, I thought about using a CB, but I like watching him play with himself, so it would get in the way of that. Right now it is working my telling him not to cum until I let him. If he can't get hard it is a tell tell sign that he did.

Still trying to hook up with one of my boyfriends. I really need it.

angel_love u can still play with him and watch him play with himself its at the one minute before he really starts enjoying that u stand up with the cb, walk over to him slowly looking into his eyes deeply. talking sexy dirty at him that u slip the cb on and snap and lock and lift the weight of his cock and plastic up together and let them drop and sexily walk away ......... hmmmmmm just an idea

.... I'll have to think about that.... because I need to do something. the other night we were having sex and I was telling him how I wished he was bigger and could fuck me faster like my boyfriends and instead of saying he would set up a date for me he started fucking me faster until he came. .... He wasn't suppose to.

I had him do his chores that he hadn't done in awhile, but I'm going to need to punish him more.

ohhhhh Angel_love silly you, lol u excited him by talking dirty to him during sex.Any good cucks dream you are turning into.Now i know you love your hubby and thats a good thing but you gave into him then by letting him hear all the things he loves to hear whilst you were having sex with him and boom......he cums,lol and you wonder why? you control his mind body and cock by what you do say and react you let him off didnt you?......sending u a pvte message see if we can get u more in control .... if ya want to .... luv soft

I enjoy watching my husband become more excited by the things I say or do. That is one of the reamisters I like fucking others in front of him, he goes nuts with jealousy and excitement. Ofcourse, I get benefites as well....;)

The weather was in the 100's so we went camping this week. We stayed near a lake and just about swam non stop the whole time. The lake felt good during this horrible heat wave.
I have been trying so hard to get my roommate out of my house. seems like we havent been able to do anything with her here and also this heat has made it uncomfortable and I haven't had sex for two weeks now.
While we were camping there were several hot guys walking around and I couldn't help but constantly look. My husband laughed everytime a hot guy would walk by and I would practically fall out of my seat. I wish I could have grabbed any of them and had fun in our tent
I only have two weeks left till my roommate moves out. then you better believe I am inviting as many guys as I can to catch me up
Anyways I am sorry I dont have much to report. With this heat I haven't even felt like doing much with my husband.... Ahhhh poor him....lol well you can say this is his punishment for the day he played to much and didn't satisfy me
night people! kisses- Angel

No responses... I was hoping someone was interested in my life.

Anyway, I'll try another post:
Last night my husband and I went to a bar with some friends of ours. About 11, in walks this knock down gorgeous guy, and he walks up to our table and sits down. Turns out he was the mister of our friends, but he was almost my age. I tried flirting like crazy with him, but as soon as he found out I was married he ignored me. It really frustrated me, because I couldn't stop stairing at him and thinking about what he would be like.

About an hour later, however up walks this other guy and he sits down next to me. He was a friend of our friends. He was definatly cute and I texted my husband (who was siting right next to me lol) that I thought he was cute and I would like to stay as long as he continues to talk with us. He did keep talking and flirting with me, for like an hour or so and I was trying so hard to let him know I was interested in him.

As the place was closing down, he walked to the bar to try to meet up with someone he thought he could take home. I followed him and gave him my email address in permister. He asked if my husband was ok with that, and I told him he was fine. Then this girl warns me to stop flirting with him, because he was hers... He and I look at each other and say right... I told her that was fine because I'm married, which was probably my mistake, I really really wish I had told him my husband is fine with a lot more, but I just couldn't. My husband told me later, that he almost told him, but he chickened out as well. Its so much easier meeting guys from the internet that already know the entire situation.

So maybe he will email me.

I was so takes and horny on the way home I texted 3 of my boyfriends to see if we could meet. None of them responded... it was 3:30 am... but I asked two of them if they wanted to meet tonight, so I'll see.

It has been so long and I'm so horny and having sex with my husband is just a tease, so I get hornier. I hope I can hook up soon.

If you guys are still interested I'll let you know how it goes.

keep at it angel it will happen ..... luv soft

fantastic thread angel, you are one hot lady !

I just found your posts and love it, please continue Angel

I agree please do update (and post pics :-P). I spend so many weekend evenings wanking 2 u while my slut fiancee is out at club and bar getting picked up by strangers behind my back.