When is He a Cuckold

I am having a bebate with a friend

When is the hubby a cuckold

1. When the wife has phone sex and is "fucked" on the phone with the hubby there listening and wanking?

2. When the wife goes on a date?

3. When the wife goes on date and kiss's her date?

4. When the wife goes on a date kiss's and gives her date head?

5. When the wife is actually fucked by her bull?

At which one is the hubby a actual Cuckold

When the wife is dating her lover with out her husbands presence. Otherwise she is a hotwife and probably doing it for her husband and not just for her pleasure.

5) The act of fucking creates the state of cuckoldry

does not the act of a having a cock in her mouth larger then her husband when he is a cuckold.........

depends on the definition of sex, for me its penetration. sucking cock is nothing.

I would say if the guy is fucking your mouth any time he wants it, and you are allowing him to, no matter what your husband says, then he is a cuckold.

cuckold is defined as a man with an unfaithfull wife period

Unfaithful is the key. She is doing for herself and not to please her husband. Then she is a cuckoldress and not a hotwife.

It doesn't really matter if you get to be unfaithful with just your mouth out with your mouth and your pussy, once you have been unfaithful--that is nonmonogamous physically, your husband is a cuckold.

While this room processes many different definitions that is the real definition of cuckoldry.

At what stage are you?
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When another mans cock enters her pussy, then he is a cuckold

Given the definition of a cuckold as a man who allows his wife to be unfaithful, he's a cuckold when he acknowledges the fact and agrees with it.

When the wife/gf is fucking behind his back, without his knowledge or consent, he's just half-cuckold.

And when he provides the guy who'll fuck her, arranges the date and the place, serves the takes, watches it all and films it, he's a complete cuck!

Now, if he engages in sexual activities with his wife's lover, he's more than a cuck: he's gay! (they're both homossexuals, for this matter)

all of tjhe above
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As a cuck myself I can say with authority that a husband does not officially become a cuckold until he has eaten you’re hung lovers cum from your pussy. When a woman allows a man to cum in her pussy she is fully submitting herself to him. When he empties his balls into your pussy he is staking claim to you as his female. So in that respect you and he are in mutual accord. However, when the husband submits himself to getting between your legs after you have been thoroughly fucked by your hung boyfriend and he see's your pussy red, swollen, and all stretched out and he proceeds to eat the bigger, better alpha males sperm from your pussy, he is truly admitting and accepting his place in his relationship with you.

I am at this point with my wife where I truly know my place and I routinely consume her hung lovers cum from her pussy. I am her cuckold because I have accepted my defeat by the bigger better man!

Well, in my particular case, my wife says she loves me, but prefers to be fucked by her black lover because she feels more like a real female in his arms. She says all my sweet talk and good manners lower her instincts, while his black lover's assertive (and sometimes rough) manly treatment when they're having sex, or even out of bed, is what turns her on the most - not to say that he is much hunger than me and black. In a word, life and sex with him are more natural and wilder. I represent the safety of a good home and salary and her familiar standards. I'm now just a silent witness of their acts. Of course, being her longtime friend and confident, I also must have some 'bonuses' like watching and hearing her impressions, in exchange of my previous marital priviledges. Watching them having sex and jerking off while they are reaching climax together is my assumption that the guy's sperm, hormones and sexual s*******s are far stronger and better than mine. I guess that accepting that condition without fight and being virtually addicted to it is what makes me a cuckold.

I guess I escaped a little the subject, but that's how I feel about it ... a little humiliated, all right, but greatly aroused by this unusual life style.

I would say you hit it on the head cuckyboy. I think our women love to have both types of guys. The bad ones that can rock their world in the sack, then the reliable ones that can love them and be there for them. It's natural, and I love my role as my wife's cuckold.

IMO being a cuckold is a blend of the things mentioned here but two factors are key and required for cuckoldry.

1) The husband must be submissive

There is no such thing as a dominant cuckold. If he is dominant then the wife is a hotwife that fucks other men for his pleasure.

2) Cuckoldry is a state of mind.

A man can be a cuckold if his wife is dating and kissing other men. Sex is the consummation of the relationship but the reality is that if a man's wife is openly dating and kissing other men with his knowledge and against his desires then he is already cuckolded. Sex is the final physical stage of cuckoldry but it begins with his knowledge and understanding that sex can and will happen when she wants it to.

3) He must be aware that she is fucking other men AND aware that it will occur with or without his consent.

A true cuck understands that he cannot satisfy his woman and understands that his relationship with her is based on the factor that she finds sexual satisfaction with other men. He understands that she loves him but that he would probably lose her if he tried to stop her from fucking other men.
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Thank you all for this feed back...........I especially agree with cuckyboy and Stubbyhubby36.....

When I started on this journey with Lee it was a fantasy.....which over time has turned to a reality......

I have done all of the above....Organised the motel rooms .....poured or bull a wine before he fucked her ...watched them make passionate sex...he is a better fuck then i as Lee says....but my thoughts are that if I was to go and fuck another mans wife and i would fuck her a lot better then my "normal fuck" you pull out all your stoops so to speak....

I have eaten 2 cream pies from Lee as she has pushed oput his cum into my mouth

So i would say i am a cuckold....

I even gave Lee my wedding ring today which i do not wear ....but she wants me to wear it ..so i gave it to her today and said i will wear it if she gets the word cuckold engraved on the inside

So I can comfortable say I have become a cockold...............but when does come to terms with it ..........when does the jealousily go.........when does it stop pulling you apart.....the lows of being a cockold are very low ....but the other side of this coin is the highs are fucking amazing.......

On one hand i luv it and it is better then i could of imagined.......but........the other side of the coin is amazingly gut wrenching.....

How do you other cuckold deal with it................HELP

Simple, when the hot wife decides it so....

I doubt the lows every totally go away. They havn't for me, but I justify it by enjoying the positives. As long as your over all happier then you have it made. The other choice is to go back to a traditional relationship.

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am trying to go back to a traditional marriage but i fear it is too late..

i have asked lee to give him up as of last tuesday as i am one really fucked up puppy. she said she would

we even booked in and saw a relationship counsellor on Friday night and she agreed there....to

But i have her mobile phone through my company and today.....i could not help myself and rang them and had them check her details......basically she either text him or spoke to him every day except sunday last week....

plus i think she has a "hidden" email account....which makes sense with when she has been turning on the computer.

i think i am fucked.....have i ruined a good marriage

i think she is hooked on the way he fucks her....

advice...........i am thinking of going back to the lifestyle

Just a thought, but given how she has agreed and in light of how erratic you have been, it seems to me likely that she is willing to go back to a traditional monogamous marriage but is skeptical that you really do. She is supportive of you in it, but keeping the guy around just in case you suddenly do another 180.

Seems wise to me. Fetishes are notoriously hard to swear off (and your stressing about it here and spying on her suggests that you aren't serious about giving it up) and guys willing to date married women who the woman is interest in not so easy either. Her behavior is about creating an insurance policy. Instead of spying on her, why don't you put your energy into making the relationship strong by being so pleasant and loving that she wants to spend all her time with you and being so confident (like stop stressing and spying on her) that she believes you really have walked away from all the fetish cuckold behavior.

Good luck.
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Wow..... I hate it when relationships end up where your at. MrsBlackBlowupDoll is exactly correct, you need to put your energy into making the relaionship strong, whatever that takes!!!!

I wish everyone would read your post, because it shows the true double edged sword cuckolding is. I keep recomending to people that if they decide to get into this to do it all as a couple with both parties being part of everything from finding the guy, to texting the guy to being there through everything. Unfortunately for you, it has gone to such an extreme that your wife is doing what she wants without you and it sounds like your relationship is having issues and you think your screwed up.

You started this post as: "When is he a Cuckold" Many of the things people recomend are required to be a true cuckold ultimately in a lot of cases lead to problems in their marriages. Just like yours Leatc.

Botom line, Your a cuckold when you think your a cuckold, because the only people's opinion that should matter should be your wives and yours.

Remember, it doesn't matter what others tell you to do, only what you and your wife decide will work for the two of you. If she isn't able to do everything with you, then I would suggest you ask her to stop. As I'm sure you have figured out these emotions can destroy you if not controled.

In any case, I would have her dump the guy she has right now. The bull's job, is to provide sexual pleasure to the wife period, and it sounds to me that your wife is way to atached to her boyfriend for her to work seriously on your guys relationship. Doesn't matter if you guys decide to get back into it. Your wife can find some new, and should.

Good Luck!!!!! I hope you guys can fix any issues you may have.

Sorry, I missed seeing that she already said she broke things off, but you found out she had still been communicating with him.

At this point it does sound like she is addicted to him. MrsBlackBlowupDoll is correct here as well, you need to find a way to stop spying on her, but at this point I recommend you be honest and let her know you did, but make sure NOT to attack her with it. Let her know your just trying to work on your marriage and ask her if the two of you can check those things together in the future to work together to get past this. Let her know that you want to be able to trust her, and you understand and take responsiblity that you use to get turned on by her doing that, and may still get turned on by it, but you want to be a part of anything like that in the future.

At this point since you guys decided she would break things off, and she didn't, she is essentially cheating on you, but don't ever put it that way to her. You deserve to have a truthfull, trusting marriage by both of you, and just like you have issues, your wife does as well. Try to work on them together.

Like I said in my last post, only you and your wife can figure out what works for you, but for now at least, I hope you guys avoid the cuckolding for awhile.

Good Luck.

i think it all starts out between the ears. it has a lot to do with the make up of the man and woman themselves. when a woman either decides that she is going to exert her power and right to do what she pleases to no longer accepting any limitations by society on her happiness and regardless of her hubby or boyfriends opinions declares her own permisteral freedom it is at that point that the act of sex outside her permisteral relationship is only a natural development either at that specific period in time or at some point in the future and there is nothing that the husband or boyfriend presently involved in a relationship with her can do about it. it simply is going to be inevitable.

There is many different levels of Cuckold. It comes from the fact that for as many different people there are in this world there is just as many KINKS.
Now if a couple is married and she's fucking someone in front of him and he is just watching .. If nothing else that is a form or if you like a first step in cuckolding.

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My wife went out with a few guys before she finally cucked me (fucked another guy), and after that night everything changed. She has cucked me with 5 other guys since March of this year and now is seeing a guy that will probably be a long term thing. My wife, now Mistress, has told me that I will not get to fucker her until her current BF is out of the picture, which will probably be a long time! My Wife / Mistress has tied me up several times under the bed or in the closet and I've had to listen to them fuck, and I loved every minute of it! Soon they will have me watching them while tied up in a chair, and I can't wait!

To answer the question, when she starts fucking other guys you are a cuck.
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