Financial Domination???

Has anyone submit to this form of D/s? There are a lot of woman online who will drain your cc dry through this form of domination. Who are these women? Is it a legit form of cucking or is it cheap/fake? Has anyone submit to this? How was the experience? Would you say it was worth it or do you regret it? Both? Does spoiling your wife with every material thing her heart desires count as Financial Domination?

Discuss.

It legitmate form of domination if you have a relationship, but most online would be scam artisits.

I was once dominated by a female colleague who had access to my wallet in my jacket pocket for lunches, shopping and she used my credit card to book a holiday with her boyfriend.

I cuck should maybe have his salary paid into his wife's account and live of a small allowance.

Many Dominant Women are given control of the financial aspects of managing a household as one part of a clear demonstration of the deference to their Superiority. I'm not sure what you're asking....do you mean to imply that an online Dom has asked you for money, not for services rendered? If not, then I see no problem as long as your relationship is based on a great deal of trust.

Everyone defines their own boundaries within cuckoldry and/or dom/sub relations. Do you work with a contract....there are many good examples in female Domination books out there....

good luck, ~DG~
Loving Female Authority

I am not necessarily asking because I am involved in such a relationship, but because the topic interests me. Do you think those women who have their own sites and assert their domination through your cc are cuckoldresses like one's wife or gf?

Most are just dumbasses trying to cash in on what to them is basically just a new form of phone sex. It's all fantasy, they aren't naturally dominant, just good actresses out to make an easy buck.

A handful of the online financial doms are 100% legit. A few are actual doms, have that type of mentality, either have worked as pro real life doms before or seriously want to in the future. The rest, again, out of this fairly small handful of legit dominant women, are simply powerful, smart, greedy, bitchy, bratty girls.

I don't think any actively cuckold their bf/husbands. Most have boyfriends who are real men, and use that in their clips/postings to humiliate subs. Essentially, you take on the role of the cuckold, at least in a online, financial domination sense.

I've tried this a few times. I'll only do it with ones that live local and are open to meet. We'd go shopping and I'd buy them hot outfits to wear for their boyfriends or just something to wear out in clubs to pick up guys. It's fun I'd do it again if I found the right one.

Its the best sex i have ever had, I love the feeling of being controlled and when I give via credit card, i have intense orgasms. I have had 3 long term financial dommes, and all were good, just different. I like to be humiliated discreetly or where I know no one, and have my woman use me , control e and make me pay $$$ for this exhilaration. it's better than haves and fard more addictive. Once yo have tis there is no way out if th domme does it right. recovery is from rcovering from th debt and then doing it all over again when you get enough mney again. I am a professional software developer and an addict that cannot quit

if you wanna be finandialy dominated and controlled just get married and have kids. Trust me when I say all women end up trying to control men anyway

Great comments.

The idea of being addicted to financial domination isn't very appealing to me. It may be the reality, but i don't buy into this lifestyle as having to be necessarily self destructive.

I've known a Dominant who scratches the sissy itch in me as well as puts me in chastity, but the fact that it cost so much $$$ sours the relationship. However you have to take the bad with the good, don't you?

I was never interested in it really until just recently and it surprised me. This female friend of mine has always been a big spender and we spend a lot of time shopping, mostly for her. One day we where to meet one of her best friends because she was upset about a recent breakup. When we where almost their I was informed that this girl needed a small amount of money just to get her through a day or so since she had nothing. We got their and I was TOLD to give her twenty bucks so she could give it to her friend. I held up a five and said that was all I had on me and I needed to go to the bank. My friend grabbed the five and put it in her bra and said, good but I guess I"m keeping this too. She then turned and walked away to meet her friend. I went and got the money but decided to try something, I put $40 in my wallet and went back. The girls where talking but my friend just held out her hand without a word. I quietly just handed her the wallet which she yanked upen and looked into. A big smile came across her face and she just scooped the $40 without hesitation and handed it to the other girl who thanked her not me and the two of them walked away without a word to me. When we got back in the car the very first thing my friend said was "thanks for the extra money...oh and don't you dare ask me to pay back any of that, if she pays it back...I'm keeping it. For some reamister I was extremely turned on by the way she just took it and didn't care along with the way she just pocketed the $5 right in front of me and demanded the rest. Oh and she did get paid back later on, told me about it and made me take her shopping right away but at the checkout, she said she needed me to pay because she didn't have any money, then turned and walked away.

I like this scenario sum1fun, I would be interested in seeing if this progresses anymore..

I was financialy dominated by my ex wife during years. I did have to pay for everithing she will dress when goinr out with her multiple lovers. This turn me on.

@sum1fun Have you had any more experiences like this since?

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@sum1fun I would be interested in hearing more of your experiences too.

My wife says that the woman is the one who should take care of all money in the family. She owns the house, the cars and everything else. She take care of both our salaries, and only give me small money for permisteral expenses, once a week.

My wife and I will soon be completing the arrangements for my financial domination. She has opened a new bank account in her name, previously all our savings were in joint accounts, we have our own long-term savings accounts for tax reamisters. Then, she is going to change both her password, and also my password, so that I cannot log on to internet banking or access my own accounts. She also will be taking my debit card away, leaving me with a credit card to make day-to-day purchases, for which I have to get her consent. She has told me she will be checking the statements carefully.

She intends to transfer most of the money out of the joint account each month into her new permisteral account, leaving only enough in the joint account to pay bills and so on. We have agreed that money in her permisteral account is strictly HER money, I am not to know how much there is, or question whatever she wants to buy. My access (debit card and passwords) will be put in an envelope in her drawer, for emergencies, together with my chastity key.

On top of this all the cash in the house is to be under her lock and key; and I will be given a small allowance to get by on, but I will be expected to save most of this to buy her presents.

This started when we were on holiday in France once, when I went to pay the bill at a cafe. I had no Euros to pay the bill, and had to ask her for some from her handbag. I went inside to pay, when I came back out she asked for the change, and the receipt, which she checked carefully. I could feel other people looking at us. Next day, we were in a clothes shop, and she baulked at buying an absolutely lovely dress because it was "too expensive", she felt that it was selfish to spend "our" money on such a luxury item.

We had a discussion at the end of last year, I explained that our finances were more robust that she believed. Around Christmas I laid out this scheme to her, saying I'd like her to overcome her reticence about spending, and how I was willing to hand over all the control of the money. Later that night, in bed she asked me what I was thinking about. I said "Being your money slave".
"Oh that" she said, and then told me to go down on her (the only sex I am allowed), and she came in record time. The next day she opened her permisteral account.

I'm not into the online stuff. I really can't see the appeal of handing over my hard-earned money to someone I haven't met nor will ever meet and who probably isn't even a real Domme. But the kind of relationship that @corevalue describes is incredibly hot. I'm a sub, currently single but love to meet a woman who would make me her slave. The financial element is a way of making it real.

Hello, I am one of those Women.

I do not ruin My subs, I build them. They ar usually lost yet talented and intelligent. They just need a Woman such as Myself to motivate them.

I do enjoy it and they do too.

I am a true lifestyle Domme'

Ms Maggie
MsMaggie.com

I haven't been able to find any (good) threads more recent than this one on the subject of financial domination, so replying to this one.

My cuckoldress and I recently started on findom and Wow! It has brought the level of worship and power dynamics to another level. Already, she is free to enjoy her sexuality with any man she wishes, while I remain faithful and devoted only to her vastly superior pleasure. I know my place and while it is always hard to see her kiss and fuck and get so much fulfilment from fucking other men (the classic cuckold torment!), the satisfaction I get from being her dutiful cuck, devoted in the absolute to her female superiority, is worth everything.

But after recently bringing up the topic of financial domination, and her being initially reluctant (we love each other, and she didn't want us to turn into a paid agreement), she tried it and instantly LOVED it and the power she felt surging through her as I handed over cash kneeling at her feet.

Then we were going to a sex party at which she knew she'd get fucked (she did) and she made me pay to get her hair done - pay to make her more attractive to other men!

Now, she has become a hungry findom and now expects tribute, and has warned me that this hunger is growing. So far, she has had her hair done, clothes bought, socialising costs, and she also had me paying €5 for every time I jerked off, warning me that this was a trial run for when she charges me appropriately for my 'pathetic squirts that mean nothing unless tributing to her' (her words, not mine).

It escalated at the weekend when she told me she was going on a shopping trip for make up - and she always buys the good stuff! She browsed the store, chatted to the assistant, had them apply some on her and she then decided to buy it. Without hesitation she said "Give me your bank card and the PIN number". Without hesitation I gave them to her, shocked and rooted to the spot as she strolled over to the cash point, paid with MY card and then just handed it back without even looking at me or saying anything. She felt she was spending HER money and the power just made me go weak at the knees and she confessed later that it made her so wet that it soaked through her panties into her nylons!

I don't know where this is going from here but I am already looking at ways I can save money and cut down on costs so that I can meet her expectations which to date have been modest compared to what I think is coming....

Have any of you experienced such growing findom need in a cuckoldress or are so enthralled to your beloved woman that she can drain your wallet at will??

D.
David in Ireland

We are a cuckold couple for 10 years. My wife is my mistress too. She has different lovers but she has a cohusband from 3years.
we had a company together but this year I gave her my shares for free and now I work for her.

we have a joint bank account where she gives me my salary, but I don't have access to either the account or the debit card.
She can trade on the current account without my permission, while I cannot trade without she signing up.

She has a personal bank account and periodically she transfers the money in the joint current account to her personal bank account.


at the moment only the house is still in my name, but she is working on it

@gogeta2000 That is so hot, and way way beyond the level of control my cuckoldress is exerting on me... so far! Not just your accounts but your company shares too... and possibly soon the house?!! That is true devotion on a scale few women can say they have experienced, yet you are doing this for your cuckoldress and it's just beautiful to know.

Turning over my salary and entire financial control to my cuckoldress sounds like heaven but also terrifying! However, once a cuck accepts his cuckoldress has the financial rights in a relationship, is there any other end result??

We started with me having the gnawing feeling that seeing my beloved pay for night out, tickets to events etc. was so wrong but then extended to me finding it grated when I saw her paying for the dresses, lingerie, heels & make up and beauty salon appointments when she was planning to meet cock (she never, ever dresses up or even shaves her pussy whenever she deems me worthy of giving her an orgasm - I take what I get and am grateful for it).

Once a cuck starts to tribute, and the cuckoldress enjoys and feels comfortable with it, a life of findom making demands of what is now her cash pig does not take long, in my experience. I went from contributing to her nights out to her considering using me as an ATM... 'Revolut me $100 pig' without a please, thank you or reason.

This week, she has asked me to itemise every single thing I spend my money on, no matter how small. She is going to examine my spending habits and said she will take it 'further' soon and I suspect this is where she will deem certain purchases off limits so that I can make more money available to her and her superiority. She even mentioned the word "allowance" a couple of weeks ago, and I know that's not just to control me but to make more funds for her. My money will actually be her money!

How does this feel? Scary! But also thrilling and like a leash is being tightened yet further around my neck as she utterly dominates not only our sex but also our money. The feeling of powerlessness and devotion to her glory is incredibly satisfying, a massive turn on (especially when she spends it on things to be beautiful for other men) but obviously the lack of spending power also very unsettling - which gives her immense power financially but also in our relationship as she knows I'll be unbelievably well behaved and devoted for my allowance if she imposes one.

I wonder where this will go next...!!
David in Ireland