A question for the ladies...How did you feel when you first found out?

I was surprised at first. and a bit shocked I think. nick asked me for about two years if I would have sex with another man, i always said no, we talked about it in bed quite a bit. Then after we had been out for a boozy evening him with his brother and me on a hen-night, we met back at our house and his brother was going to spend the night on our sofa.
I ended up having sex with nicks brother while he watched. then we had an AMAZING threesum. this happened a few times over the next few weeks. then it stopped and nothing happened for a few years, Then nick asked me about going to a club ("La Chambra") that is quite close to us. I decided to go and humor him. the first night we only watched and i felt a little uncomfortable to be honest, we went back a few weeks later as he was constantly asking, this time I meant to surprise him. I had my sexy underwear on and when we got there. i was as nervous as hell but decided to go for it and we went to the locker room and he was very happy when i stripped to my underwear. after a few takes to help with my dutch courage I asked him to show me round. I knew he didn't know the place any better than i did but it got us up . We walked round a bit looking in the various rooms and as th Brandy and lemons went down i got more and more relaxed, I suggested we tried the sauna first to help us get settled as we sat in the steam I looked round and noticed I was the only woman sat with five nude guys and three of them were hard.Anyway we wondered round a bit more and i decided to grab the bull by the horns and dragged my hubby into a darkened alcove ( purposely made for the exact reamister we were there ) and we started to get down to it. He had me bent over and was having sex with me from behind, the bead curtain parted and one of the guys from the sauna was stood there in only a towel. he looked round in both directions and dropped his towel. and took a step inside. Hubby just said " do whatever you feel comfortable with " so I reached out and grabbed his cock. as it grew in my hand i sucked him. all the time other guys were walking past and could see everything. a few stopped to watch and i got a bit overwhelmed and asked hubby if we could stop. The guy was very understanding. and said t look for him if i changed my mind. When i had settled a bit decided to to try again but just with hubby. I knelt in the same alcove and sucked hubby's cock and soon had a crowd watching. but they knew i was nervous and kept a respectful distance. and just watched. As I settled in i got more confident.and was turning nick ( hubby) by his hips so they got a different view some were wanking but none of them made a move in our direction.when we had done we just stood up and walked past them to the bar for more "courage" a few of the guys who were still stood thanked me as I walked past and a few told me how lucky Nick was and i was pretty etc etc I felt quite good and started to enjoy the attention. while we were sat in the bar area and nick was at the bar getting the second round of takes in. The same guy I had been sucking off came and sat by me. it turned out he was there alone. he was very polite and asked me if he should leave when we saw Nick on his way back, but I said he could stay. after we had been chatting for a while ( all three of us ) he said i was gorgeous and he would love to fuck me but understood if I wasn't into that. i decided it was time to bite the bullet. I asked nick if it was O.K if he wasn't there for my first time he said O.k and agreed to wait in the Bar while the guy took me up to one of only two private rooms. My heart was beating like a trip hammer as we climbed the stairs. but he put me at ease. was very gentle and nice we had amazing sex, twice. then I returned to Nick who was still sat in the bar. I told him what had happened what we had done , he had to ask questions as i found it a bit strange telling him i had been up having sex with another guy while he waited it seemed so surreal. we stayed in the bar a bit longer then me and my hubby went back up to the "play" rooms where I had sex with him in a room with about twenty other couples also having sex. I had a bit of a fumble wit another guy but nothing to hard just fondling and caressing really, We went home and i was surprised with myself I had had sex three times in one night with two different men ( hubby twice and the sauna guy) and played with another big cock. and i decided i had liked it.
the next time we went I was more relaxed, I threw myself into it quicker. and i had full sex with four guys. hubby joined in with one and watched the other three ( separate). since then we have never looked back. and are also members of the 101 club in Doncaster and have had some good nights there including my very first multi partner sex with about six guys and one woman all seeing to me at once again while hubby sat and watched.

Sorry I know you didn't ask for first time experience but it seemed appropriate to put it down here.