Atlanta, Ga Married Couple - Seeking Advice

Hot4uBull

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#1

Ok. So have you two every been to a swing club? Or have you played any BDSM games at home where she ties you up and denies you sex.. while she plays with herself? After such games you may understand and have part of the answers to your own questions.

watcherdoit4fun

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#3

sorry you didn't get better responses to your thread. i knowwhat you are going through my wife and i recently started into the life style.

we were extremely lucky to meet up with a very nice guy that helped us explore our fantasies without any of the negitives. he is ten years older than my wife but is in better shape than me and 99 percent of the men his age. we did email and chat with a number of other men before we finally decided to meet with him.

we were not worried about what we would do during the first meeting because my wife was in the middle of her period so i knew we wouldn't be pressured into sex.

FIRST , YOUR WIFES TITS ARE GREAAAT!. I thought my wifes were the best but she has some competition. I would like to address your comments by telling you a bit about me and the wife and our start into the lifestyle

We met out friend at a resturant and had dinner. My wife liked his southern drawal and his comfortable conversation so he didn't seem to be a serial *******er or a perv. ( our first worry).

I had to go to the bathroom so I left my wife with him and knew she could handle him until I returned. As we were dropping him off to his hotel he invited us up to his room. I figured he was just being polite and wanted to talk to us some more. I was right, we talked some more and he talked about the moving process and everything that had to be done before he would be a bit more settled in. ( he was moving to our area from back east for a new assignment with his company). so we could see that he was a regular guy meeting a regular couple to discuss our common interests.

I think it is really important that you communicate what you and your wife are looking for and then make sure that your new friend is on the same page. I am guessing that some would say about anything to meet you and your wife including not disclosing the other interests that they may have.

Our friendship has been going on for the past year and a half and seems like all partners are getting what they were hoping out of the deal. He will be moving on in another couple of years and we may move on or decide to get out while we are still batting 1000.
watcherdoit4fun

tinycock4or5

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#5

drop a line to me on yahoo sometime... ( [email protected])