Convincing My Husband

How can I convince my husband that it would turn him on to watch me have sex with other men? All I know is that his cock gets like a rock when we discuss this during foreplay.

It sounds like it turns him on already.....do you talk about it during intercourse or just foreplay.

Are you using toys? while you talk about it? have you given a toy a male name?

Ask him to create a story fantasy to relate to you while you use a larger toy. etc

Stop letting him fuck you and tell him he can only fuck you again after you`ve fucked another guy.

If he only gets to come after you`ve met your lover, pretty soon he`ll be begging you to.

If you need any help drop me a line

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Exactly, you tell him if he loves you and wants to make you happy, then...


start with easy things, a step at a time.

reward w/ his fav sex

You're all telling me to exercise tough love! I'm not sure I want to corner him without it being his excitement that's driving his request to watch.

Try this.

If it turns him on to talk about it during foreplay, try some pretend cucking.

1) When he is eating your pussy, tell him to pretend you just fucked another guy.
2) Try jerking him off and saving his semen. Refrigerate it in a little jar. Tell him that the next time you fool around, you are going to pretend that it is another man's semen. Pour it on your pussy and ask him to lick it up.
3) During foreplay, while you are kissing, ask him if it would turn him on to think that you had just sucked another man's cock.
4) Teasing and denial is exciting in Cucking. Try a little orgasm denial game where he is not allowed to come until after doing something special for you. Try telling him to jerk himself off while only being allowed to look at you. Then tease him about being with other men while he is doing it.
5) Ask him if it has ever been a fantasy of his to see you with another man. If he says yes, try to persuade him to describe the scene in detail. Then reward him for telling you by jerking him off.

I also liked the previous suggestion that you threaten him with no more intercourse until you have been allowed to have another man. You can agree with him in advance that it is just a game, for the sake of safety. But even as a game, it will turn him on if he is into it.

Try copying and printing out some of the postings here which describe cuckolding. I suggest choosing the mildest ones from here or other sites. (The raunchier ones might be too much at the beginning) Present them to him as merely "interesting". You can ask him what he thinks of them. Sort of like its not really your idea, just something interesting from the internet.

On this forum, many people have described how the man was not into it. How he did not have cuckold feelings or desires before the woman brought it out in him. It is as if all men have the potential to be excited by cuckolding.

Let us know how it goes.
I will make you crazy.

Let him catch you masturbating with a big dildo ... and whispering the name of some well-known stud, then having a strong, long orgasm.

I bought my wife a large dildo that she instantly fell in love with. She is now beginning to share her fantasy fucks. I don't think she realizes how much it turns me on to hear about who she wants to fuck. I'm not into the sissy thing at all, but it really gets me pumped to think of her getting well... pumped by some other guy. This didn't happen overnight though. We are moving slowly. Who knows if it will ever progress to something real, but for now we are just enjoying the fantasy. Take it slow with your husband and let him feel comfortable at each step along the way.
fender

and dont forget to keep us informed of how you get on.

If you ease him into it, he won't freak out. And if you only talk about it during sex, then he will associate it with sex and get excited by it.

Get a realistic dildo that's bigger than him. Amazon.com has them and they ship in the same boxes their books and DVDs and everything else comes in. You can even shop for it in front of him. When you get it, you can put on a real show, but don't let him jump you until after you've used the dildo and made him admit how hot it is.

I agree with most of the above posts but I don't think there is any reamister to denie sex. Sounds lie he's already into it. Try some video's to watch when you are nude with him. The dildo idea is great too, try sharing it with him.
My wife has been fucking other men for 2 years and with her steady I suck his cock every time we get together and she odten shares the cocksucking with e. It is a very beautiful & erotic sign of my acceptance adn presentation to them both.

i am in the position of you ,.. but the difference is that ; iam husband that asking her to do that , and she agreed to mention the name of of some guys durring fucking.
turanter66

Oh, one more thing, be honest with him...

paytoithurts Start by telling him how another man was flirting with you today. Then tell him how "good looking" that man was, and how "if you weren't married, you probably would of gone to bed with him" When the two of you go out, try dancing with another man, and when you come back to the table with your husband, check to see if he has a hard-on. If he does, ask him if it turned him on to see you dance with another man, , , and just take it from there. Good Luck! If I was your husband, you wouldn't need to try very hard at all! [email protected]

So how about an update?

at a social or party event,without him knowing it ask another guy to dance with you. weddings are great,even if the guy is just an old man,if he is takes im sure he will sneek in a grope or 2.see how hubby responds to it,it might turn him on and open it up for more
gigelo2000

Simple answer -

Dominate him. Get him into you being his dominatrix and eventually you can incorporate the fantasy of you having sex with another man while he watches. Eventually, he will become addicted to both your domination and the thought of you having sex with another.

SO how is this progressing?

I know your husband is in for a real treat no matter what....usually it is the husband who has to convince the wife. In your case you've won the battle already as you (the wife) are the one who wants to do it.

You could blow his mind (as my wife did me!) by just acting on it one day without warning. Call him and tell him you're about to enter a motel with a guy and hang up quick...don't give him a chance to make you change your mind.

After much convincing on my part, when my wife was finally ready to take the plunge she picked up a guy and fucked his brains out. I found out about it as it was about to happen and I wasn't given the opportunity to back out of the actual reality of her going through with it. I've not been sorry and I have loved her for it ever since she made me a cuck. It's been a pleasure trip from day one!!

JUANITO


I like that plan!

Domination, of course, sort of thought you were already in that situation. A combination of positive and negitave incentives will help shae the experience you want.

I think the best for you to convince your husband is to make love with him and to watch a porn film, and with time include cheating's fantasies when you'll do that.

Hope it will help you

sillyfemdude


Simple, She's taking the lead, creating (she hopes) the space she wants..........she is dominate

Here's the same stock answer I give to this question that is asked almost every day on here:

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My advice is to go slowly and introduce everything and feel him out in stages.

Be nice to him for a week or so, give him good sex and spoil him a little. Take him out, have fun together. When he's in a great mood watch the movie Animal Instincts with him. (be sure to get the first one, the one with David Carradine - the other ones suck) Here's a preview:

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Watching this will totally bring up the subject of him watching and swinging in general. It's not a porn movie but a mainstream movie that deals directly with a man watching his wife have sex with other men. Chances are, he will probably deny that it would turn him on even though it does. You will have to take a chance and confess to him that it's something that does turn you on and something that you fantasize about. Even if you have to say that you'll probably never do it but that it's fun to fantasize. That might get him to loosen up and talk more about the fantasy and his feelings if he feels it's not going to lead anywhere.

Depending upon what he says, you might then have to bring it up over the next few weeks or months, especially when you're having sex. Watch the movie again and have sex during the sexy parts when the husband is watching. Show him that it turns you on. Let it develop slowly. Introduce more games and fun into your sex with him. Get more lingerie to turn him on and show him that you're having fun.

When the time is right, I recommend that you find a stranger to meet with, have him come over and then agree for you to just give him a handjob. Nothing more. That way, if it's too much for your husband, it was only a handjob and you can stop. No harm done. Don't go all the way and don't kiss him or his dick. If it's just a hand job and your husband totally gets jealous, you can stop the games and you didn't go too far. On the other hand, if it does turn him on, it will leave him wanting more.

Put an ad on Craig's List or something, find a guy that you like and who would be willing to play along and meet him for coffee or a take. You should do most of the talking, have your husband stay a little out of the way. Then have your husband sit off in the corner, out of the way, turn down the lights, put on something sexy and give the other guy a little massage and hand job. Make things light and fun, sexy and non threatening. When the guy cums and leaves, be sure to have sex with your husband, GOOD sex. And then stay close to him over the next few days and be nice. Reassure him that the other guy is just a sex toy, nothing more. A 'walking dildo'. Once he sees that you are not falling in love with these other guys and that you don't leave him after and in fact, you are happier and the sex is better, he will warm up to the idea of swinging. (don't call it cuckolding at this point).

Be sure to talk to him about his feelings and how he felt while watching. Keep him excited and horny. Then have the guy come over again and give him a handjob but this time, you lick his dick a little bit.

And the next time, you suck it a little and so on.

You get the idea.

That is exactly what happened between my wife and I and everything worked out wonderfully. She now regularly has sex with another guy while I watch and we both enjoy it.

jamesriske

smooth approach. I like it.

What a great thread we started off by pretending and it was great for our sex life then it finally progressed to the real thing just always be honest I think is the main thing, and thats the only thing we have ever had a issue with, I did not really find it much of a turn on when I found out my wife fucked a guy she was working with and I knew him and we live in a small town.. always pays to check first

jamesriske


It occurs to me that you can change the he's to she's and you have an answer for all the wanna be cucks..........

my wife knew from our fantasies years ago that i loved the thought of other men fucking her. I always got a hard on in a bar watching her dance with other guys,kiss them ,make out with them,and sure enough she fucked her fist man 11 years ago and I was out of my mind with lust for her. We havn't stopped since.
Sunni

I notice that all these beginners who ask advice never follow up. They always disappear.