Losing husband's cock?

My husband and I have known and fucked each other since we were teenagers; 18 years ago. And if there was one thing I was always sure of was that his cock was always hungry for me. Whenever we would get together we would always have the most amazingly hot and orgasmic sex. It was with him that I was finally able to be as open and as multi-orgasmic as I am now.

Even since the moment he brought up being a cuckold; Gothicuck; our sex life only got better and better. But since I haven't met anyone that I'm really interested in fucking and the one permister that I did want and wanted me was taken at the moment... I haven't had sex with another man in over a year.

I know that it's getting to both of us but he still masturbates quite frequently and seems to have no trouble getting it up when he's talking about me fucking other guys. And I know that if I just went out a fucked someone else that would solve the problem and he would fuck me like crazy over and over.

The thing is I actually really loved it when he would worship my pussy purely for the fact that it was MINE. Not that it was mine and he knows how good it feels after someone else has fucked it. Just my pussy that he craved and used to enjoy it. Now just recently, we fuck for a little while and then he ends it with him having to fuck my or his own hand. And yes, it's always with him talking about how hot I am and how turned on he is thinking about me falling for someone else and being with him.

Which is hot and a turn-ion for me. Don't get me wrong. I completely enjoy fucking other guys for him and being fucked by other men. I love huge cocks and can't get enough. But I'm not going to fuck some random guy just because he has a cock. If I'm giving it up you and your cock have to be something pretty fucking special. I'm way past wasting my time on things that aren't going to satisfy me.

Has anyone else noticed that their husbands/cucks can only seem to get really excited after you've been with someone else? Is he cutting himself off on purpose? He's talked about that aspect of it and about how it turns him on the thought of me cutting him off for long periods of time. I've always just blown that side off cause I love fucking him so much more than anyone else. No he doesn't have the biggest cock in the world but it's really thick and shaped perfectly; like a little toy you carry with you. So yes, having a huge cock is great but I'm not just going to fuck the first guy that comes along. It's been a good while since we've had the sex life like we used to. Where we could just get off on the fact that we were fucking each other and it had nothing to do with anyone else.

I don't even know if anyone can relate to this part of it. I haven't read anyone else's threads that cover this. If there are would you please link them for me so I can get someone else's perspective on it?
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My own view on this is that a lot of what drives people to a cuckold relationship is the eroticism and taboo of this scene, not the scene itself. There is no doubt in my mind that this statement does not cover all situations but sex is more than just the physical it is also about the psychological, and boy does this lifestyle drive that psychological element - for both the man and woman. So you need to find something else that drives that element. Find something else taboo and erotic and it may become a close substitute. For example, tell him he can only have your pussy if you get to fuck him up the ass once a week. Heck, if you like it you can make it more than once a week. Just do something that makes him have to earn having your pussy and puts you in a sexually dominant position, but make it something he has to work hard at and is taboo. I'd say that with this introduced into your sex life he'll be back to loving your pussy when he gets at it.

Frankly, I do not believe the majority of cuckold relationships have to be cuckold. I think they need to spice up their lives and this works for them, but they could just as easily pick something else.

I wish you the best of luck and hope that you post how successful your attempts are.

interesting post. My girl says the same thing about fucking me and although she loves the idea of sex with others she is afraid of it becoming the mainstay and the only thing that will sexually excite me.
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I went through a phase like this myself at one time when I thought I was interested in being a cuckold and before my tastes evolved in other directions.

As it turned out, what I was really interested in was my wife showing more sexual confidence and attitude. Unfortunately, by pushing her into that role I was unintentionally destroying the same things I was after! I came to my senses after I realized how unfair that was to her, and unsatisfying to me.

Along the way we played some games that satisfied some of those fantasies. These could work for you, too, and satisfy your husband's needs while keeping you from having to compromise your standards.

I suggest that you a) remind him that this is what he asked for, b) leave hints that you have a new "project", c) tease him by not allowing him to ask questions about your "project", and then d) go shopping while he thinks you are out cuckolding him.

To spice this up a little, get some cheap thongs to take off and throw away while you are out. Do some of the rituals of having him watch you dress, and "help" you by pulling your disposable thongs on with his teeth, to make sure he notices they are gone when you get back.

He sounds like a pretty in-control kind of guy, and not at all the genuinely submissive type. Enough cattiness and haughtiness on your part should get him charged up. Let him know that he doesn't own your pussy any more and he may just surprise you by taking it back!

kurliq has some great ideas. Create the illusion of cuckoldry, make him earn it
She left me for another man and
divorced me. Haven't heard from
her since. Would love to know the fun she's having and what she's telling him about me.

Dick Diva listen to her. if she's loving your cock; enjoy that even though the fantasy of being cut off is so hot. she still needs your cock the most. at least that's how i feel.

kurliq i've never had a problem being sexually assertive or sure of what i wanted and when i wanted it. it's actually quite the opposite. i've hardly ever had serious relationships by choice. i've only been in love with one permister and that's my husband. i've never had a problem expressing my sexuality in the slightest. it's always been easy for me to just enjoy sex for sex sake. i've hardly ever attached my emotions to the guy i'm fucking. but he's always been different. better. more than any other guy i've ever fucked.

and while playing the "game" of having projects is a good idea it's very unsatisfying for me and him as well.. i tried that in the beginning when i wasn't sure if this is what he really wanted. and i couldn't lie or make up stories about meeting people or making out with them when i hadn't. especially now... he can always tell when i'm just saying something to please him and i haven't really done it. i'm horrible liar especially when it comes to him. he can always see right through me so i don't think that will work.

i wish i could just find some really hot young white guy with a big thick cock where we live that wasn't so uptight. most guys that i'm interested in are all for getting together until i tell them about our situation and that i'm married. most 20 something guys will just freak out.

but i'm willing to try anything except misleading him. i want to satisfy our kink in the most real and hardcore way possible. i love fucking other guys for him; i really do. it's *******ing me that i'm not able to find that right guy that's just as dirty about this as we are. i just want get fucked so badly. and it wasn't so bad that i had gone so long without doing it before because i always had his cock to fall back on... so to speak. but now it's ***!!!! and it's really affecting the rest of our relationship now as well. we're both on edge and snappy because i'm so frustrated about it all.


maybe he's punishing me by not giving it to me so that it will motivate me to go out and get some elsewhere. i just want to fuck him the way we used to just a few months ago.
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Montreal Dom i really like some of your ideas about finding different kinks for us to share along with this one. the fact that it's become the main focus of our sex life is starting to wear out.

i know that he is one of the kinkiest guys i've ever known (thank goodness) so i'm sure there's something else i can control his cock with.

thanks.
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It's alway my pleasure to help out a beautiful woman. Wishing the two of you the best!

thanks again Montreal Dom i've already put some of your ideas in play and they are working out great!!!!!

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Just my 2 cents, but if you tease and deny him orgasms, he will
be a lot more turned on and the stimulation he will recieve through
intercourse with you will bring him back to what you had from the beginning. In any relationship, things change over time and if he has to
use his or your hand to ejaculate he may have become desensitized.
Do some research into controlling his orgasms and he will become much
more responsive. Like I said just my 2 cents.

monstrol


again great advice!!!!! i'm actually studying up on how to milk his prostate and training him on controlling his orgasms when i'm not around.
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I allways find it so disturbing. You hear these stories. She cucked me so well. It was hot for both of us. Best sex of our lives. Then you hear, she's gone now and he can't get it up now with out the thought of another guy fucking his wife.

I'd say some retraining is in order cuz it sounds like you may of done just a bit too good of a job on him.

Best of luck

hello cuckysgirl
i hope things have improved for you.














thats how i read it..
sounds like you truly love him,you must be such a beutifull permister.





no no no
not until after you are pleased... Y?...because

and he has

just keep talking

and you






but dont give it to him ,give him what he wants here




and now he is over fed and he needs to go on a diet.....

......starve him untill he is begging for it.