Advice for a new Cuckoldress

Hello,
My name is Raven and I need some advice on cuckolding my useless husband. I found out that my husband was cheating on me by posing as a bull over the net and relaxing with a woman he met there. When I confornted him he cried like a little bitch and promised to do anything to make it up. Well, he did and I have the photos to prove it.
Now that I've found out about the cuckolding lifestyle I'm very interested in it but with my husband as a cuckold of course (he will pay dearly for going out behind my back). He tried to act like a big tough bull but he is really a submissive at heart as he has admitted to me. I want to turn him into a completely obedient cuckold slave and I'm looking for advice and ideas that anyone might have. Thanks a bunch.

Raven,

Some thing that can really get intense and give you a ton of control over him depending on the way you combine it with the mental side of cuckolding him is how often you let him cum. Go from one extreme to the other, rob him of his virility by keeping him constantly drained and empty or keep him in chastity, ready to explode and fallowing you around like a puppy dog.
Look around on the internet on how to "milk" him, it's different from just masterbation. It powers him to some what release by massaging his prostate as you milk him and at the same time he doesn't really get the level of pleasure he normally would feel when he cums, you'll see his balls won't even contract. It's not nasty at all, use latex gloves and lube (that even adds to it mentally by making it like a procedure rather than anything sexual for him). Put him on all fours when you do it. If it gets too easy for him to do, use 2 fingers instead of 1. If it gets easy eventually with 2, use 3 and then? Then with the other (gloved) hand you'll drain him like you're emptying a tube of tooth paste. He won't squirt, just drain out. It's like cumming but, with less than 1/4 of the pleasure. Even though it's pleasure, to him it really won't be because, all he'll be thinking and feeling is how much that really sucked compared to what it usually feels like...a dud...rip off.
On the other end, lock him in a chastity device like a cbt 2000 or 3000 (I think that's the new one, I forgot). Look on the web for it. You can literally keep him locked in it for days and he fool around behind your back (without removing the lock, which you will then know about when you see it). He won't even be able to get an erection in it but, he can still urinate with it on and shower even. You can decide when you want to unlock him and let him release himself before locking him back up. You can let him please you orally and then decide not to unlock him (just roll over and fall arelax if you want) and keep frustrated and on edge. He'll behave and treat you like the day after you got married hoping to win points and get unlocked.
If all this is too much for now, keep it in mind further down the road. When done right along with everything else you do to cuck him, it allows you to mentally (which is right the way to do it) really control him. I actually feel sorry for him, lol. Good luck.

Thanks a bunch for the advice Dani, the milking idea is just beautiful. My undergrad degree is in Psychology so that aspect of cuckolding and female domination is what interests me the most. I had seen somehting about milking but I honestly thought that is was just another way for the man to get off and getting my husband (or should I say my slave) off is no longer a concern of mine. I'm looking for ideas that involve pleasure for me and presentation for him. The milking technique is just perfect. The lower amount of pleasure for him and still keeping him unsatisfied is beautiful. Oh, and the gloves are a great idea. I thnk I'm going to design a whole ceremony around it that will emphasize that it is for his offense and presentation and not for his pleasure.
I really like the chastity device idea also but I will wait awhile for that I think. One step at a time but he will eventually have one I'm sure. You might be interested to know that we were over at his parents house all day and he was wearing my panties under his slacks. I think that the offense and domination is really starting to turn him on because he was trying to hide his ercetion the entire day. I dearly love having power over him now. When we got home I had him strip and after I read your message I showed it to him. His little cock got hard. I told him that I thought your ideas sounded very interesting and that I was going to send a reply to your message. I think his cock got even harder after he heard that. So I moved the desk chair aside and I ordered him onto all fours. As I write this I'm using him as my chair and I'm sure he is wondering what my response to you is. He's not going to find out because I have all the computers password protected against him now. I love the feel of him under my ass, it's such a symbol of my new power and his presentation.
Anyway, thanks for the advice and if you were here I'd have my slave kiss your feet and thank you as well. Also (just in case you have any "experience"in this area) I'm wanting to use a strap-on to fuck him and I was wondering if there were any certian brands or techniques that might be used whereby I can get stimulated also while using one. Any thoughts would be most appreciated by me and I'm sure also by the little slave underneath me.
Thanks, Raven

You've got the idea. The milking is to make him as exhausted sexually as possible without the pleasure that should have come along with it so, making it a ritual is the way to do it and doing it as often as you can is your goal. If you can, do it several times a day (if your time and schedule permit...like on the weekends), to the point where he's begging you not to do it (like a young not wanting to take their medicine when they need to). I've seen the technique explained many times on the internet and some really understood the point while others missed it completely and where basically just masterbating him so, research it well when you do.

Keeping him in chastity is just another idea, you don't need to do it at all if you don't want to so, you can certainly put it off until later. This way you can make sure the whole thing really takes off before you spend money on a device. You really need to spend a fair amount too because, you get what you pay for. It needs to be truly functional for him on a 24 hour basis to work right (like the one I mentioned). He needs to be able to wear it under his clothes without it showing and he needs to be able to still use the bathroom without needing to have you take it off (and it needs to truly lock as well). You can spend a lot if you get into the different options that are available for it but, none of that is necessary.

I've seen strap-ons that stimulate your clit while being able to use it at the same time. It's rare but, I've seen them (keep looking on the net for it, you'll find one eventually). Since you're thinking of doing this, when you milk him, you'll be able to give him anal trainning at the same time to prepare for this some day but, don't tell him it's for that (keep it a surprise). Before you start to actually milk him, you have to stretch him open a bit first so, you'll be able to do it then by paying extra attention to doing this each time you milk him (and then using more than one finger, like I suggested). Then when you use the strap-on the first time you can tell him how you've been stretching and trainning all along to take it. BTW, the strap-on will be hitting his prostate as well (when you're in the right position) and it will power him to cum just like when you milked him (especially after it's been a daily ritual for him).

Thanks for the adice Dani. I am going to take my time and stretch him as I get him used to being milked. I love the idea of making him cum through the use of a strap-on. That by itself would probably be enough to put me over the edge. I think that I will work his training towards that goal and when I do make him cum that way I will emphasize to him that it is a symbol of his new submissive nature. I have a feeling that it would greatly humiliate him and make him even more submissive to me.
Last night after I whipped him I had him lick me to a spectacular orgasm and then I rode him to another, all the time warning him that he'd better not cum. After I came I got off him and he went to bed with a raging hard on. This weekend he will have his first milking. Thanks again for the advice. Take care. Raven...

You might also want to try having him clean up his own mess (either from you, the floor or your hand)...

Raven,

I just noticed a post here with an attachment that you have to see, you'll love it. It's on this page:

https://www.cuckoldplace.com/16_10730_1.html

It's at the bottom, the last post on the page and there's an attachment to download labeled "01". If your hubby's cock got hard when you read him what I posted, wait until he sees this!

Follow my profile to my blog if you like. ;)
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He will definately be cleaning up his own mess from now on newbie. I already decided that he will be eating any cum in our house whether it's a future lovers cum directly from my pussy or his own. When I milk him he will be wearing a condom and he will be eating it afterword.

Thanks for the link Dani, you are the best. My slave saw the clip and you wouldn't believe how hard the little bitch got when I told him that it would be happening to him soon. Thanks again. He will be getting something he won't forget this weekend but I will tell everyone about that after it happens.

Thanks for the link Darlene I will check it out when I can.