| Amy221 
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   | For the other women here, or guys.  How can you really humiliate the guy that really gets off on being Humiliated??By Humiliating him, you're giving him what he wants and desires the most.
 This is a serious question.  I just need an answer, if there is one, seriously.
 
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| posarrobba 
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 | By doing it seriously and going all the way. Men perceive when a  woman is just acting, and this transmits a message of "I actually want to please you". We never expect she to ACTUALLY go for it, because we are used to women using sex (including perversions, variations, denial) as currency, not as an aim in itself. It catches us off balance, makes doubts dig in that MAYBE we actually might be inferior material, perish the tought. |