Women Cuckolding Then Dumping Their Partners

5 years ago, I met this 50-something lady, not a breath-taking looker, but definitely beautiful nonetheless, and very pleasantly round-ish (not plump-ish, mind you) in all the right places, and started a relationship with her. A relationship I tried from the very start to steer towards F/D, but without much success. The most I ever managed to get was to have her indulge my fantasies in bed (allowing me to lick her arse, pretending to be her slave, to be her cuckold and to be beaten by her AND her lover, etc.). Well. I also managed to have her tell me about her sexual fantasy (singular, as she only had one apparently), i.e.: having someone watching her make love with her man.

I'll cut a long story short. After several months spent complaining about her heavy work-schedule, and claiming she was too stressed and worn out to spend even just one night together (let alone a whole week-end), a few weeks ago she broke up with me. Well, what do you know? it turned out "stress" and "tiredness" had a name after all: John, a colleague of hers.
While the break-up was indeed painful because I still love her very much, I must admit that finding out I had been a cuckold for the past 12 months or so was humiliating, shameful, but also ... deliciously exciting. And without much thinking, out of the blue, I told her I would now be in a position to fulfil her sexual fantasy: all she had to do was lock me in her bedroom closet and allow me to watch them. I'm sure this was the absolute last thing she was expecting to hear from me at that moment. She froze, stared at me for a couple of seconds, then slapped me twice (back-hand included), very hard. Then she composed herself, and got out of my car. Before closing the door behind her, she turned around and hissed, "... and maybe later I should also ask my man to whip you, right? God, you disgust me!"

I know I’ll suffer like hell for months or maybe even years to come because, as I’ve said, I still love her. But I also know her parting words - spiteful, hateful, sarcastic – will be a very powerful amplifier of the excitement I’ll experience whenever I’ll imagine her making love to her new man.

Well, this loooong winded narration, basically just to say that I am desperately looking for stories revolving around women (girlfriends, fiancées, wives … anything!) cuckolding and then dumping their partners.

Any help would be GREATLY appreciated!

she left you for a reamister...either she found a better man and didn't really love you...or you pushed too hard...some women may be in to cuck you...most are not...

I also feel that you somehow is a little too high on yourself...the way you open the treat saying she is a little bit big here and there...it is like you make some excuse being with her..??? What did you think..?? because she is a little big here and there - that you are better than her somehow..???

I don't know...she had found a better man...and you are out...forget her...and treat the next woman with more respect...some men never will find a woman capable or interested in the life style...lets be honest...

Just my advice...
A cuck to my GF - A bull to all other women

Afraid you didn't catch my drift ... I simply meant she was "normal" looking, not a ravishing beauty --but I never meant to imply I was better than her, or that she was less than adorable. Likewise, I don't know whether John is a better man than I am, but frankly that's kind of a moot point now: he's in, I'm out. Just as simple as that.
All I'm saying is that I am expecting several months (years?) of emotional turmoil: on the one hand, the pain of having lost her, on the other the wild excitement of picturing her in my mind making love to her new man. And since the excitement will somehow have to compensate for the pain, I am hoping to find abundant material on the subject of dumped and cuckolded men still lusting after ther ex'es in order, precisely, to keep fuelling the excitement side of the equation.

chiappeviola: I just absolutely LOVE your symbol with the symbolic 5 BBC's entering the limpy white cuckold's wife! Where did you get it from? I wish they made jewelry with such symbols. Very graphic and straight to the point of what some of us are about!

Juanito,
I honestly can't remember where I got it from, but I do remember it was for the exact same reamisters you mention that I liked it so much ,,,

The vast majority of women do not seek or desire this kind of man. Go figure.
..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!

... you don't say ...

Interesting! Well i believe too that vast majority of women arent into this kind of males or lifestyle.

Dont forget cuckolding is something that comes from a very strong relationship between cuckoldress and cuck.
Its a lifestyle they both agree with.
Both see fullfill their own sexual needs.

When a woman wants to break up a relationship its pretty normal she does everything but becoming a cuckoldress.
femmed hubby by wife who is interested in cuckolding (she likes the idea)

Mmmm ... sounds like I didn't make myself clear. I do realise that the vast majority of women (probably ALL of them, in fact) would NOT be interested in the kind of man I described, and that is precisely why I mentioned the DUMPING bit after the cuckolding bit. I am not interested in stories where a woman would entertain a relationship with a man she despises, inasmuch as that would be science-fictionally unbelievable.

What I'm interested in are stories where a woman gradually loses respect for her man, starts cuckolding him, and ultimately dumps him. And needless to say, I'm particularly interested in the dynamics taking place DURING the CUCKOLDING bit (also because there really wouldn't be much to say about the dumping bit, would there?). I mean, the dumping bit is just the final 'frosting on the cake', certainly not the hub around which the whole story would revolve.

As for the nature of the cuckolding relationship I have in mind, there shouldn't be ANY kind of strong, mutually respectful relationship between cuckold and cuckoldress. In my scenario:

a) the cuckold would be a perverted loser, smart enough to seduce a woman presenting himself like Mr. Right at first, but ultimately showing his true colours over time (a not too unusual male specimen, really),

b) cuckolding would simply start off as the quest, on the part of the cuckoldress, of something missing in her sentimental/sexual life, eventually evolving in the gradual but inevitable loss of respect for her official partner (the perverted loser). MIND YOU -- I am NOT, repeat NOT, envisaging a situation where a woman would deliberately decide to break up her relationship through cuckolding, because I agree with Cucksissy on this one that any (normal) woman would resort to anything BUT cuckolding to break up a relationship. In my mind, she would be DRAWN into cuckolding, almost certainly feeling uncomfortable about it at first, and yet unable to stop. Gradually, she would start to feel less and less uncomfortable as she (likewise gradually) discovers what kind of a fake her partner is.

c) The epilogue being the moment she finally decides to tell him that she loves someone else and that their relationship is over, while the perverted loser tells her he would be very happy to be cuckolded on and humiliated by both her and her lover. And, her being a 'normal' woman, she would at this stage inevitably dump the pathetic loser. Really, an epilogue that wouldn't take up much more than a paragraph of the whole story.

As you can see, the bulk of the story would revolve around points a) and b), with point c) mentioned at the very end, very briefly, and avoiding all that (hardly believable) crap about the cuckoldress turning nasty and enslaving the loser.

NOW, as I mentioned in my first post, this is the kind of storyline I am looking for.

Have a good WE everybody.

Very interesting points. I have at one time been cuckolded, at the time unfamiliar with the lifestyle or even word cuckold, and eventually dumped. At first I was a dominant male would throw her on the bed and have my way with her. We both cheated early on in our relationship but chose to move on and get passed it. Then my submissive desires began in our sexual activities. Now I'm licking her feet, sniffing panties, having her whip me, etc,. It's at that point when she started wanting to have her girls night out more often. I had a problem (insecurity) with that. We would fight and take breaks from our relationship. She told me she fucked a guy I didn't take it well at the time and we drifted further apart. For some reamister she would always reach out to me and rekindle our relationship. We did this for a couple years. Then we were really growing stronger and I had gone off on a vacation. When I came back she had broken up with me and when we met to talk about it she said it was over and her new lover is what she wanted. What I'll never forget is she spent one more night with me. She wouldn't let me fuck her but I could do anything else. Maybe the act of me tongueing her ass finally did it but that morning was the last time I ever had her in my arms.
I think about her more than my own wife sometimes. Never really got closure and its almost been 10 years since that night.
I agree totally that unless u r in the strongest and secure relationship that you should not consider this lifestyle or you will as sure as your born get dumped.
Ronald Curry

chiappeviola, I agree with you that these scenarios are very hot and would also LOVE to get referrals to stories like this.

I'm not at all sure why everybody missed your point and chose to wander off on tangental comments, but maybe you should repeat your appeal (and very articulate description) on the stories thread. (And thank you Ronald for getting it and sharing your own story!)

Either way, I'd be very appreciative if you share with us any such stories you come across and will be happy to do the same.
Pantalone, Wittol, oblate, abnegator, fellator, pathic, irrumatiophile,fop, epicene, cotquean, skivvy, thrall, and pilgarlic.

Ronald Curry: I feel really sorry to know about your story and how it ended. Everybody deserves closure! Even cuckolds or wannabe cuckolds like us. I too feel sometimes that it's so easy to get carried away with our primal desires.
All the best to you mate! Just one thing - count your blessings. I'm sure you have good things in life to look up to. This is one thing that gives me ultimate peace - recognizing and appreciating the good things in my life. And if the 'law of attraction' is true, good things are more likely to keep coming one's way if only one knows how to appreciate them. Sorry for my advise of it is out of line

this is an interesting thread. I have a strong desire, a need, to take my relationships down a path that usually ends up with the woman leaving me for another, falling in love with a better man.

I go out of the way, after a few months of normalcy, to lead my love into role-playing, games, and movies that emphasis female supremacy to the point of treating me like a slave.

these games are exciting at first for them but evolve into a total lack of respect for me.

why do I do this knowing she will break my heart, crush my ego and trample on my self-respect? I guess it is because, even though it kills me emotionally, I need, want and crave that outcome.
J

The main problem here, my friend, is that you must understand that you are being very insincere and selfish with the ladies in your life. This attitude is guaranteed to boomerang on me, you and/or any 10 guys we pick.

You play normal for a short time but don't ever really establish anything because your ulterior motive quickly blows your cover. The poor girl tries to humor you for a bit but I am certain that your incessant push for her to compromise her values to satisfy your cravings soon drives her away.

I suggest that you level with a woman from day one about your hopes for her. Lay it all out and allow her to decide if she needs this excrement. (Hint: 99.99% of ladies do not) Seek out ladies who are into this activity. Please stop pushing normal women into uncomfortable situations! How many times do you intend to continue this before you realize it will never work?
..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!

Maybe I am taking the simple view here.
Your lady having an affair with a colleague does not make her a cuckoldress. Just a cheater.

YOU were not cuckolded....... Because cuckolding has to have the suggestion even that you are aware of what is going on...... If it is behind your back. You didn't.

She just dumped you for someone else.

Also this fantasy you say she had...... Of being watched.

The vast majority of people's fantasies are just that. Dreams that will never come true. Mostly because the fantasy is best kept at that. The reality being something that will never be that good.
stevensmiles