Cuckold Ceremony... NEed help!

My wife and I have decided to have a ceremony to affirm our places in our relationship, kind of an addendum to our wedding vows. It will likely be private between us, as we don't advertise our sexuality to our friends. There has been discussion of an exchange of jewelry, her anklet or something similar (possibly a charm for her belly ring) and possibly an ear piercing for me, as a representation (and something for her to pull on, I'm sure)
Maybe a ceremonial locking of my chastity cage, although I'm already in it permanately. Some type of vows...

Other than that, we are completely unsure as to what to do.

I'd like to have her consummate the vows by having her relax with a stranger.

So, we're looking for (realistic) ideas, and are open to suggestions!

Have you figured out the wording of the addendum?

Is she dominant towards you? There are a lot of acts you could do in a ceremony that would reflect presentation to her. You kneeling in front of her, for instance.

You could turn it sexual as well, unless you feel that would mess up the seriousness of the ceremony. You could give her oral while on your knees to show submissiveness; she could use a strap-on on you to show dominance...it all depends on what you like and would find fitting. You could do it after the ceremony, or during the saying of vows (I guess giving oral would be somewhat a hindrance of speaking vows, tho - "I swear to you to always ummfffg gmfft!").

I can keep coming up with ideas, but it depends on what you like, really.

How about giving some information about how your relationship works? I assume that you are an ultimate cuckold having posted your idea in this section. I'd like to hear how you do it and what you do.

FIRST: To the one that sent me the cuckold ceremony, THANK YOU!!! However, it got cut off! Can you contact me through PM again?

we have tried many times in the past, but seem to truly be on track now.
Essentially, she is the Mommy, and the one in charge of any sexual situations. I do not get orgasms at any time, and essentially am permanently in my chastity cage. We are equals in the house and marriage, but that's it. It finally came out that she's not happy with me in bed in any way... not just playing a fantasy, but is completely unhappy with any sex life between us, so the only sexual contact we may have is for me to perform oral on her. Since I am selfish in bed, and small and very fast to finish, I've finished. I've been told I no longer get sex in this form.
Almost every night, when I come to bed, after we read and lights go out, she draws me to her and I suckle at her breast until I get erect in the cage (which hurts a good bit), and she holds me until I'm done wiggling and whining and calm down and finally go to relax at her breast.

She is actively searching for men to date now. We have discussed some rules/vows... masturbation is completely outlawed for me, and the cage stays unless for cleanup or punishment. Little boys don't need to come. I've not orgasmed since late october, and that was a very short handjob. Another is that she decides who she dates/fucks, and I am to be supportive to him as well as to her, and when they are at our home, to serve as houseboy. I likely will only be watching at times... this is her private, permisteral time to have actual sex.

Sex in our house is her using a strap-on. Just recently I begged her to let me out of the cage, and she obliged... and then rubbed my erection and balls with what I thought was lube, but turned out to be hot-sauce and wasabi paste mixed together. She laughed and laughed as I yelled and actually cried, and then scolded me as I later soaked in a cold tub, telling me that I was to expect the same if I had the nerve to ask out. She also uses a hairbrush when needed, and a cane. in 2006, she tied me to our bed and caned me for over 20 minutes on the morning of our wedding day.

She is actually very loving as mommy, and very supportive, but is ready to have real sex, and is excited about being supportive to me, as long as she gets what she wants too. So in short: She gets sex, I don't...she cums, I don't. I get private mommy time at bedtime after being put into panties and pajamas. She dates, I don't. I stay in chastity and become a born-again virgin, except for when she takes me from behind, and we've discussed that I will be getting it from her boyfriends if they wish.
So, there you go.

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MakeThisBoyCry: WOW!! Your details sound like a super-kinky relationship between you and your wife...I would love to be the one officiating over your vows to each other! Sounds like about as kinky as a marriage can get!! That's one lucky woman to have you!! You remind me of a misterg that goes something like: "...make it hurt so good...sometimes love don't feel like it should, but it hurts so good!"

OK, here's a suggestion:

You, her and 'a stranger' (I would suggest it would be more appropriate if you or she found someone who was willing to play along in this ceremony, which would require something else than a complete random stranger) participate in this ceremony, with third guy as ceremony master.

I'm not going to write your vows for you or anything, but the action might include the following:

1. She is dressed in some sexy outfit, preferrably something all three of you find hot, with heels, and allowing for easy access. You're dressed in a pajama top and nothing else. You're handcuffed with your hands on your back. You should not be in chastity, and you should be hard at this point.

2. She takes your arm, and you walk into the ceremony room (perhaps the wedding suite at a hotel?) together, if necessary preserving your hard-on with touching through-out, but not allowing you to cum. You walk up to the ceremony master, she stands before him, you are made to kneel in front of him by her.

3. The ceremony master asks your wife if she is satisfied with your marriage. She denies this. He asks her why. She lists all your failings as a lover. The ceremony then judges you to be in forfeit of any right to penetrate a woman with your member or ejaculation in any way. He points at your small erect member and judges it removed!

4. At this point your wife reaches for a (prepared beforehand) suitably big container of icy cold water and pours it all over you, in order to make you lose your erection. The ceremony master then push you down on the floor, on your back. Your wife move up between your legs, and symbolically steps (gently or hard, depending on what you prefer) on your cold-shriveled penis, as were it a cigarette butt she wanted to extinguish.

5. The ceremony master holds you down by your shoulders as your wife fits you with a chastity device. You can squirm a little, prompting your wife to make small soothing shushing noises and tell you that Mommy knows what's best for you, and that it is good for you to lose control over your little pee-pee.

6. Afterwards, they will lay you down on the bed (you may need some drying first), and your wife puts on her favourite strap-on. She can use it on you while you're on your back, or doggie-style, depending on whether you want to look into each other's eyes at this point.

This is a good time for vows, where the ceremony master asks you to repeat after him, whatever you want to say at this point. Making you admit how useless you are in bed, that it is right for you to lose sexual rights, etc., or for her to assert control of you, and vowing to have sex with better men, that she'll be your Mommy forever....I dunno. You'll figure it out. The longer the vows, the longer she can fuck you in the ass while you recite your vows.

7. After the vows are finished, she pulls out of you, and takes off the strap-on. You're moved out of the bed and put on your knees beside it. Your wife asks you if you love Mommy more than anything. You say yes, and she asks you to prove it by keeping the used strap-on inside your mouth while Mommy enjoys herself.

8. While you stand kneeling beside the bed with a strap-on in your mouth, Mommy enjoys herself in the bed with the ceremony master for a few hours. How much you'd like to communicate at this point is up to you of course. She can completely ignore you, or you can look into eachothers eyes when she gets it doggiestyle and hear her tell how much Mommy loves her little boy.

9. Afterwards, the ceremony master leaves, and Mommy takes you up in the bed and allows you some nursing action while stroking your head and telling you what a good little boy you are.


Does that work for you?

print this off to be signed at the ceremony, then frame it up and hang it somewhere prominent in the bedroom, should make it very clear who has the right to fuck her !

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