Questions for true " CUCKOLDS "

I don't know , if I truely know what the true meaning of " cuckold is . I have been involved with many couples in my life . Threesomes , were what I thought of them , till a few years ago , when I found this site . They were all fun sex , to me . Some , just the husband and I fucking his wife's brains out , from both ends , some others , kind of kinky , where he watched me fuck his wife . So others , that that proceded to the husband being totally submissive to me . I am not " BI " , but I have had my cock sucked by several husbands , and fucked a couple up the ass , after their wives requested it . I am a very dominate permister , not powerful , more just the way I carry myself . I think it is more ' Confident ' , than ' Dominate ' . After finding this site , I made a distinction between the couples I fucked with their husbands partisapateing with me , as ' Threesomes ' , and the ones that submitted to me , via { sucking my cock , cleaning up after me fucking their wives , as ' Cuckolds ' }? Are they all ' Cuckold Relationships ' even if their husbands are acting as an equal , in fucking their wives ? Do all 'Cucks ' like to suck cock ??

A True Cuckold relationship is the one that suits the couple involved, whilst at the same time suits the extra man involved for the duration of time he is welcome into that couples relationship....

The fine details are an individual thing and as with a lot of subjects in life what is passion for one couple is poimister for another........

Thats how I'd see it anyway....

Mel x

Hello folks
As I am relatively new to this area of activity I just wanted to say that this discussion has so far been one of the most illuminating and well constructed threads I have seen in quite a while.

Its good to see that there are people out there who can discuss contentious issues in a calm, constructive and intelligent way.

Inspiring.

Thanks all.

blackside999,

I really think you need to distinguish between disfunctional, unhappy "cheating" relationships - in other words, traditional cuckolds - on the one hand and healthy committed couples engaging in fetish cuckolding on the other.

My own experience and observation has been that fetish cuckolders have some of the strongest, most trusting relationships out there. They need to in order to play such games. For from being a dead-end, fetish cuckolding is a path to permisteral and relationship growth. Granted, it is like the multi-diamond ski-slope - only for the proficient - but it is very rewarding and permisterally enriching for those who engage.
Pantalone, Wittol, oblate, abnegator, fellator, pathic, irrumatiophile,fop, epicene, cotquean, skivvy, thrall, and pilgarlic.

Let's not get too carried away with psychoanalyzing cuckold relationships. A huge number of all relationships fail and many of them because of "cheating" spouses. The failure of the relationship is a failure of the two people involved to communicate and understand if there is any value to remaining in the relationship. Sure, cuckold relationships fail for a lot of reamisters, just like the millions of "other" marriages fail. Fidelity within a marriage is the norm and a goal. It removes the distraction of sex with others outside the relationship.

Classic cuckolding is a wife cheating on her husband. For whatever reamister she does not find satisfaction within the marriage. More recently, swinging as a lifestyle has become popular. Cuckolding is an extension of this lifestyle except the husband does not swing. He may or may not participate in sex while his wife is entertaining a lover.

There are many cuckold releationships that border on FemDomme lifestyles. Mine is one of them. While my wife is not a "fetish" Domme, she is very domineering. I am pussy whipped. She does not like having sex with me except to allow me to worship her and especially worship her ass. I desperately enjoy doing this as it has become my sex life with her. She enjoys watching me suck cock. It turns her on to watch me service "real" men with functional cocks that are of an adequate size. Sometimes I get to watch her have sex with a real man. I am always required to lick up his cum afterwards.

Every relationship has a different dynamic. Some work hard at fidelity, some are cheaters (husband or wife), some are swingers, some are Male Dom and others Female Domme, and some include sadism. If the couple can find common ground, especially for their sex life, then it will work for them.

marcus

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Thank you ,
It seens to be , that I am not the only permister that has different views of what a ; CUCKOLD HUSBAND ' is . I Am not the typical bull . I never concidered myself to be anything more , than just a guy . that ends up in very pleasent sexual encounters . It seems that there are differing way to inturpet ' Cuckolding ' . I would still like to hear from real 'CUCKOLD HUSBANDS ' , Does your pleasure end with seeing another man fuck your wife , or haveing to taste her pussy juice , and his cumm , on his cock . ??????

I would really like to hear more of this ....

Cucky husband, sneaking in using my wife's account :D

"Do all cucks like to suck cock" - I can't answer for everybody, but in my opinion majority of us does. As far as I heard it is a turn on for many wives when hubby sucks her lover's cock and cleans them up both after they're done fucking. From my permisteral experience, sometimes when cuckold clean up wife's lover after they've been done fucking, a bull can easily get hard again and if wife is not up for round 2 he might ask cuckold to get on all 4's and take him up his ass in order to satisfy all playing parties.
"Does your pleasure end with seeing another man fuck your wife , or having to taste her pussy juice , and his cum , on his cock . ??????"
Again, I can't answer for all cuckold husbands... Everybody is different and so are the relationships, but I believe when wives start cuckolding their husbands, their sex life changed as well. For me seeing her fucking another man, hearing her moaning and groaning is much more pleasurable than me fucking her for 2 min and cuming right after I inserted my cock in her pussy. I'm sure many girls prefer more than 2 min of sex. Tasting her pussy juice while she has another guy's cock in her and tasting precum on his cock is awesome as well, especially when wife is a little on dominating side towards her cucky husband and telling him to suck her lover's cock or eat his cum - that's a pleasure as well. But again, everybody is different... just my two cents ;)
If You Don't Believe In Oral Sex, Keep Your Mouth Shut.

IMO, a lot of guys that call themselves cuckolds are actually gay men that have relationships with females.

The cuckoo bird, lays its eggs in another species nest and lets them raise the cuckoo's chicks as their own.

A true cuckolded male, raises the offspring of another man. Society brands you a cuckold, it is not usually self proclaimed.

If you know about the cheating and breeding it is not really the same as in the classic description. It is more of a community marriage like the mormon thing. Instead of the man getting more women, your wife or girlfriend gets more men.

The old days would have called you a fool. The guy that lets his wife or girlfriend run around behind his back is a fool. Fooling around gets its name from this moniker.

"She is not going to make a fool out of me!!!", was the old statement of making sure everyone knew you would not tolerate her giving her attentions to other men.

The old cavemen society probably made it important that you could tolerate sharing women with other men. You lived and died in a small group and for sure had sex in front of each other.

Our penis is unique in the primate world. The shovel shape is designed to remove the sperm of the guy that had her before you. Anyone who has had sloppy seconds knows that the load before you got there is on your balls as soon as you start deep thrusting.

My long thick cock makes sure that after all the short or thin cocks load her up with big ball loads of sperm, it will be mostly gone by the time I finish my deep, wall stretching thrusting and leaving my own load nestled right against her cervix.

Because most women orgasm when their pussy is filled completely and thier cervix is massaged by a large cock head, the chance of me getting her pregnant is greatly increased. This is because the orgasm will dialate the cervix and it will spasm and rythmically dip or pronate down into my loads.

Yes loads, I stay hard after coming and can ususally get another shot in after a few minutes of kissing and touching to allow another build up.

Most women have told me some way or another that they let us have sex so that they can have the foreplay. Foreplay during sex is very important to her orgasm potential.

Eye contact too and keep the talking to a minimum unless she asks for it. Everyone woman is different though...

So in fact, me sitting back and waiting for my clan mates to finish first gave me the genetic advantage. More of the youngren would be mine.

Guys that want to worship my cock with their wife in the room, will still do it when she is not in the room. Pretty much gay.

The wife is your friend but if you are not dreaming about women or her during sex, admit that gay is more descriptive of you rather than being called a cuckold.

Maybe you call yourself a cuckold because you cannot get your head wrapped around the fact that you are really gay.

Not that there is anything wrong with that...

I'm an admitted brute of a caveman that is not going to power her to hide what she wants to do. Tall, blonde, swedish and german with a 36D stand up and poke you in eye set of hard nippled tits. She is used to getting what she wants and I am not going to fight the tide or the wind.

God, I should not take so much coffee!

Have a good day everyone.

Hung09

They can be. Fetish Cuckolding is about fetishizing the fear of losing out to another male in the competition for love/intimacy/offspring, etc. Someone can get off on that and still enjoy "vanilla" sex with their wife too. On the other hand, just because a man is happy in an open, poly, or otherwise sexually non-exclusive marriage that doesn't necessarily make him a cuck. It depends really in their psychology and the relationship dynamics.



No. But some do. I see another poster has suggested that many fetish cuckold males are gay. This seems a bit black and white to me. It may well be that bi-men or even the occasional self-denying gay man are more attracted to the cuckolding lifestyle than straight guys, but I doubt it. (And I speak here as a man who thought he was straight but bi-curious and now increasingly self-identifies as gay.) What is clearly true is that fetish cuckolding is a form of presentation play and sucking cock is a powerful symbol of presentation for heterosexual men. It is therefore not surprising that some cucks' fetishes develop in this direction, although not all do.



I'm not sure what you mean here. I think different cucks enjoy different things to different degrees.

I hope that is helpful.
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Most people are submissive followers. That's the way it has to be for a crowded society to be stable. Otherwise everybody would be constantly fighting. When people know their place, everything runs smoother. Every girl wants to be with the Alpha Male, most boys know they're not the Alpha male so they want to suck up to the Alpha Male.

Modern society is really returning to traditional sex roles defined by who penetrates and who's penetrated. Roman Men really enjoyed power tripping on blond sex slaves and demonstrated their manliness by sodomizing blond sissies and keeping them as slaves with girl's names. Those same Roman Men would never in a million years allow any penis near their own mouth.

The same happens in primister every day as Big Black Men take pride in turning out white sissies. Experienced Black Pimps know that most sissies never fight back, just struggle a little and as soon as they get some Big Black Dick in them, the soft white holes realize it's the way it sex should be. It's also very popular in South Africa and Brazil.

As to weather all cuckolds suck cock? Really they should because it helps define their place to themselves and to their wife.