Our New Contract

As we feel we have reached a higher level of cuckolding recently, we felt it necessary to rewrite our agreement. We certainly feel we are at the advance stage. I am presenting our new draft contract and would be grateful for any constructive comments.


Our Cuckolding Contract DRAFT

This is an agreement between us as husband and wife. This
agreement lays out the terms, responsibilities and commitment as they pertain to the cuckolding aspect of our marriage. Essentially all rules in this contract apply solely to the cuckold so that his wife has freedom over her sexuality.

Lifestyle Arrangements

As your cuckold I understand and accept that:

*You will have sexual relationships with other men of your choosing at your sole discretion and without input from me.
*You have no restrictions on how you you enjoy your partners. That is up to you.
*In your own time you are encouraged to contribute to my angst, submissiveness and *********** by telling me the intimate details of your encounters.
*I must help facilitate your liaisons in any way you request, mainly assisting with practical matters such as transport, personal preparations etc.
*You will predominately engage with your partner(s) and not me for your sexual pleasure. I must not make any advances towards you for my sexual pleasure. On the other hand, you may use my body as you feel fit and I must submit, on demand, to any form of sexual activity requested by you, including intercourse.
*I may only ejaculate with your consent. At times when you have no need for sexual activity with me for a while and you are feeling generous you may permit me to ejaculate in a manner of your choice (preferably in a humiliating way) but in no circumstances do I ejaculate in you.
*I do not engage in any sexual activity with anyone else.

Punishment

(Sorry that this section is fairly wordy. I am hoping this will assist in understanding and it basically summarizes my readings on the topic. We can shorten it after discussions.)

Punishment of a submissive cuckold is an integral part of the scene. Its purpose is twofold.

Firstly, when your cuckold transgresses the above rules in any way punishment is always required. Only you decide if a transgression has occurred, though sometimes it may be necessary to extract a confession from your cuckold first.

Secondly, punishment is essential for cementing into the cuckold's mind his submissive status and allows him to surrender to you thus enabling you to continue to enjoy your unrestricted sexual freedom. Occasionally, you may feel your cuckold needs a reminder of this or you may just be feeling particularly empowered and wish to demonstrate it to your cuckold.

Your cuckold must fully cooperate with you regarding his punishment. It is up to you whether you explain the reason for the punishment.

In our relationship, corporal punishment is to be used, involving flogging the buttocks. When punishment is required, you should inform him in advance of the time that the punishment will be administered. About 20- 30 minutes prior to this time your cuckold should prepare all equipment and then lie in readiness.

Though your cuckold is entirely willing and grateful to receive punishment, he should understand that it will be always be similarly severe no matter the reason. He must expect at least bruising, welts and cuts and a numbing soreness that lasts several days. In fact your cuckold must be totally fearful of being punished for the objectives to work. This is real punishment, not a sexual fantasy.

The punishment process usually involves an initial warm up stage using a small paddle. The second stage employs a larger paddle and/or cane. The severity and frequency of strokes is gradually increased becoming very painful for your cuckold. He will try to cope by being brave and manly and by resisting yelling, writhing and possibly begging you to stop. The third stage occurs when this resistance stops and your cuckold gives in and surrenders to you and just lies there is his subspace fully accepting the punishment. It is during this latter stage when you administer the final series of strokes that the punishment message is driven home. Tears may flow. When finished the cuckold will need to lie for some time in a recovery phase.

Afterwards he will be all yours.


Appendix

Some specific examples of punishable offences, although implicit in the above rules, include:

Controlling behaviour
Topping from the bottom
Disrespect for your sexual desires and arrangements
Unauthorised ejaculation
Unauthorised sexual advances towards you
Untruthfulness regarding transgressions
Not acting immediately in meeting your sexual demands
Jg

I suggest you write the conract in a form of a handwritten letter to your wife. It's a good way to mention possible ways on how it could be and/or will be, but make sure, it leaves all choices to your wife. Especially the punishment section is very restrictive. you may evolve very quickly and require further possibilities of punishment. On the duties side is all open, that's how it should be. Though you could mention house chores, that you will take care of, just as a reminder for yourself, when you go through the letter and read it out loud as your daily routine.

I am happy to read it, once you have written it down and taken a picture of it.
it might be painful

Nowhere in the proposed contract does it mention anything about the benefits of enf0rced male chastity. My f/b has used this with good effect on her husband/cuck and it has sharpened his focus on fulfilling his side of the marriage.

erosduo

Pretty good rough outline. Keep in mind that this trip is one way. No backsies! Ladies do not kid around once she officially declares herself the one wearing the pants. Her rule will increasingly become more strict. Her bitching will also continually become more frequent and much louder. She has absolute freedom to behave and change the rules however way she'll choose! She retains the right to unilaterally alter the contract that you sign whenever she pleases. A few things that you might consider: In your relationship you will now officially be the Bitch, the whole Bitch, and nothing but the Bitch.


Like kennyboy82 says. You forfeit the right to a free swinging cock. The only way to signify your wife's total authority over you is to render yourself virtually cockless. It doesn't challenge her dominance and her rule over all aspects of your life. Also, walking around with no control over your penis insures that you maintain the correct attitude and frame of mind toward your wife at all times. Remember that a volunteer prickless man cannot be a proud man! Obsequiousness is the word!

If she chooses to have a female family member, friend or female lover move in, these women will wear the pants whenever she is not around. Not you.

Another thing you may want to keep in mind: Never act like you are enjoying her treatment of you! She will stop it immediately if she sees your pleasure from her efforts! You are supposed to be very uncomfortable underneath her strict thumb at all times! Don't ruin her fun!
..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!