Cuckold induced ED?

So I have herd about porn induced ED where a guy has spent so much time conditioning his body to using porn to get off that he can't perform during sex with a women. Whether it's because sexual gratification is experienced with using porn to such an extent that mentally it is required to get off, or porn creating a unrealistic expectation for most normal sexual relations, these guys can't get fully hard and perform.

I think in my case it has been taking to an equal but different level. First a little history. My sex drive is unusually high and about 14 years ago I started swinging with my first wife. After a few years it evolved to mainly her with other guys or threesomes. On the the cuckolding level I would say it was on the low end, she wasn't into the *********** or really exploring it further then just sex with other guys. There was still some swinging sprinkled in with couples but I started having issues getting hard for other women. Fast forward through a divorce and now I'm engaged again. She's a slut at heart and once I explained my fetish she was all in. It started with watching her with another guy, then creampies, then cleaning, then throwing BBC parties, and has peaked with running a amateur porn site with me as camera man/editor/producer. Weekends are spent at Saunas, or gloryholes, or adult theaters. My fiancée has become my ultimate fantasy. She knows exactly how to humiliate me, what to say, what I like, what really get me off.

Over the past 3 years our experiences have gotten us into a few situations swinging with "vanilla" couples. I can't do it. I can't get hard for another women. It's almost as if I have Cuckold induced ED. I have a women who is my ultimate fantasy and even if another women is attractive, it's like there is just a piece missing that I need to get off. I have been conditioned to need someone who just gets it, who is into cuckolding and understand the mental mindfuck it gives. I need that mindfuck and without it, I simply can't perform.

Has anyone else encountered this?

pag,
I've wondered about the subject myself! For whatever reason, My wife and I both get off with her going out alone and even when I'm with her she will flirt and ignore me.(I love it!) But recently I've experienced ED over and over again! I'm thinking that my mind keeps thinking about my cock instead of her pussy. My mine is thinking about other men (Alpha males in particular) instead of just relaxing and letting it happen. I've tried 100mg of viagra to no avail. Wife has been masturbating a lot and using a dildo....let me know your thoughts....david

I have the same

Cuckolding totally made me realise my place in life, I soon started getting erectile dysfunction when my first wife cuckolded me, up to then I had been a horny very erect if very small sissy transvestite but the hurricane of a wife becoming a cuckoldress is mind blowing and takes over your whole life, emotions feelings everything. for me it was like my penis gave up trying to compete when I saw the sheer size of her boyfriend. between marriages things did improve slightly but I was then already addicted to porn I had also undergone a few sissy to sissy sexual experiences which were very exciting so when it came to women the few I dated I had to think hard about cuckold stuff to achieve an erection!
Then came wife number 2 and the ****** and non stop cuckoldress she was along with her career as a chat line dominatrix, professional dominatrix and then a prostitute, my whole life was surrounded with sex and my status in that as her sissy cuckold maid, slave and dogs body. I tell you chastity seemed a great option as my penis was totally dysfunctional, I could still cum by watching Tania getting fucked hands free and flaccid or by having dildo's in my anus but any form of intercourse would see me premature as soon as I got near her shaven pussy so she soon put a stop to that nonsense for good.
To this day my penis is now useless what with my kinks and fetishes, my sissy cuckold life my addiction to porn and a few health issues as I have got older?? I am actually a proud sissy cuckold and take pride in my ability to be able to have a sissygasm through anal stimulation without getting erect and my deeper needs crave to undergo a full penectomy to remove my penis altogether.

Well I don't have any issues getting hard for her. She gets me rock hard. Anytime in a situation with another women or even guy, I just can't get hard. I simply cant get hard for anyone but her.

There could be several things going on. How old are you? As we age, the angle of your erection drops each decade, so that is going on, with all men. Porn can create ED, for the reasons you said, Paq, and because the excitement gets 'extinguished' over time. There is a process in Scientology, among other therapies, of "auditing" or reliving negative experiences, over and over again, until they are extinguished. When they are extinguished, they no longer effect you. This is good if you are trying to eliminate PTSD or trauma from your life. But, you might be auditing away the erotic part of the experience and therefore it loses its effect. It also might be your body and mind's way of saying this isn't worthwhile.

You need to go further out on the edge to get excited. I wouldn't advocate going further out with getting into beasiality or *****, (unless you see that as a new, exciting venue), but u know what I mean. Also, some men get sexually excited by ***********. Some do not. In fact, a lot of them do not. The ones who do not truly love *********** report ED as one of the effects. And we change over time, in a lot of ways. It could be that your values and needs are changing and what made you hard before doesn't get it done now.

Finally, if you have a porn site it may be that all of the work you do is the new 'normal' . And it doesnt have a special niche for you. Women are lucky in that regard, all they need to do to perform is show up. And it sounds like your fiancé shows up and enjoys it immensely.
Lukie

Porn is not the problem. Laziness and masturbation is the problem. It is far easier to jerk off to porn fueled fantasies than actually devote the time and energy required to satisfy a real woman. Jerk off today and then what sex will you have remaining to give her tonight? A flaccid penis is able to penetrate an open fist far better than it can enter a fuck ready vagina!


Happens to the best of us. It is hard to get hard for the wife of the man who is giving your own wife 35 solid minutes of the best fuck of her life! His wife cuck sits you with heart to heart conversation to help divert your attention while her husband drives your wife out of her head with hot sex! As soon as her hubby fills your wife's cunt and slides out, his wife slips right in and eats her pie to mind blowing ecstasy! You get to wank yourself. Let's face facts: The cuckold's cock is the lowest one on everybody's totem pole.
..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!

Sounds like what 90% of the men in this lifestyle want! To your quote I say, EXCELLENT!


And your problem is??? Your description makes it sound like the IDEAL situation for you. This keeps you loyal and exclusive to her sexual need (completely appropriate) while allowing her to be spread her legs to anyone and EVERYONE she wants. It's a match made in heaven. Sorry, but I can't see the problem. ENJOY it!
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paq130
paq130
The biggest sex organ we have is our brain. FANTASIZE,FANTASIZE,FANTASIZE! My mind and cialis works for me. And I'm 77. Be well.
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True.

However, I soon discovered that it is not possible for me to entertain cuckold fantasies and/or accept being a cuckold without suffering ED. Sexual fantasies change once you see and hear your woman writhing in absolute ecstasy on her lover's virile cock. His cock and balls excite both you and your wife. His manhood looks so delicious as it satisfies her hungry cunt. Your voyeuristic masochism is fueled by hopes of bi pleasure for yourself............ Things like that tend to color my fantasy with homosexual thoughts. What else says "bi bottom bitch" more than happily cleaning off his prick and then sucking his scum out of your girl? Cuckold fantasies enhance nothing but your own impotence. Her lover's expertise fills her cunt with hot sex as it drains the cuckold's ball sack of its masculinity. Every single cuckold fantasy revolves around a situation where his wife gives her sexual pleasures to other men. She receives her sexual pleasure from other men. Hubby's portion subsists of hum1liation, subm1ssion, total denial of pussy.......... In short, cuckold fantasy is: A husband joyfully accepting a wife's lover at his own expense of intimacy. A husband embracing his own emasculation as he acknowledges its masochistic, impotent thrill! A very powerful fantasy for the right man!

There are too many legitimate reas0ns men become impotent. This post is not meant for any man that becomes impotent because of injury, disease or any other legitmate cause.

Otherwise, impotence can be an ideal cuckold's quest. It is a perfect way for a man to impose severe, strict, masochistic punishments on himself. Or, allow his wife to administer his impotent joy. Impotence can get many guys off the hook at least until his wife takes control. She punishes him good! Then many guys might get a thrill as their wives increasingly emasculate them! Some cuckolds get great pleasure locked in chastity. His cock may be locked up but his huge black dildo provides him with great pleasures as he fucks his own ass with it! Meanwhile his wife is at her lover's place being reamed with the potent cock of a real man! Some even bigger than his own big dildo! Erectile Dysfunction is the cuckold's reward!

The conundrum and crux of a cuckold's crotch is: It is very hard for a cuckold to get very hard!
..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!

paq130
1. I'm there with you!
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