Boyfriends birthday

My wife's boyfriends birthday is coming up soon (30th!) and I was looking to get him something special for the occasion. The most obvious answer would be some sexy lingerie for my wife, but she already has quite a collection.
I asked my wife if she would consider doing anal for him. She said no, and that would certainly be a present from her, and not from me. She has already decided what she is getting him, but she's keeping it a secret from me for the time being.
A little bit about the relationship, the three of us went on a few dates and had a couple of threesomes two years back, but mostly she goes out with him and has sex with him alone now. I am usually around the house when they have sex and will cuddle with her afterward to show my love and support of her. I'm not known for being well hung or long lasting, but they don't explicitly try to humiliate me. I offer her lots of oral and foreplay, and that keeps her satisfied most of the time, and her boyfriend drops in twice a month for a date an occasionally for a booty call when the mood strikes him.
I was thinking of getting them a weekend romantic trip, because they do enjoy each other's company, but I'm not sure how she would feel about me not being nearby. I could maybe do concert tickets since he is a music lover. I could give my wife a cheerleader outfit or some other role play item, but she's not very submissive so French maid is out.
We're all friends, so this shouldn't be this hard, but I was hoping for something sort of sexual in nature, but not something that would entirely be a gift from my wife, any ideas?

Sounds like a nice laid back setup!

Don't have any suggestions but thanks for sharing...

Thanks for reading somepermister!
I like the idea, ppetermister, I especially like the idea of renting a condo or suite someplace special so that I can make breakfast for them, or serve them takes. That would also make the wife more comfortable about the idea. We were thinking of someplace with nice restaurants like Portland or Austin.

Looking around, I found someone on the site who gave his wife a dildo molded off her lover. More of a gift for a future birthday of her's I'm sure, but maybe he would appreciate the thought of her using it while he was away, or the the sight of a husband/lover's dildo set.

It is very considerate of you to want to get your wife's B/F something special for his birthday. The idea of getting them a room or suite is a good start. You can do all the other things like prepare your wife for him and taking them out to dinner but I think what would make his night special would be if you were to video the night for them and present it to him as a momento of the evening

Perfect suggestion

My wife, like many women, is really into having lots of photos. Now with phone cameras, there are endless opportunities, but many of the photos are less than art. Years ago, when she was really attracted to her then boyfriend, I game them, for his birthday (which was close to hers) a gift certificate for a local boudoir photographer to take a two hour photo shoot of them. His studio had a romantic bedroom set. They started out holding hands and looking lovingly at each other, then kissing, then undressing and, after a very hot scene with her worshipping his big cock, the two of them having sex in several position. There must have been well over a hundred shots and my wife liked having me come with her and pick out forty to be made into larger photos as a book for him and one for her. He really loved the gift and we put several of the larger prints on her bedroom hall.

We have done this quite a few times with subsequent boyfriends and it has always gone over very well. Not as expensive as a weekend away and a wonderful way for the three of you to forever remember her attraction to her virile lover.

Just a thought.

Her watching you give him a Happy Birthday, lovingly swallow every last drop, blowjob sounds like the ideal birthday gift for all 3 of you.
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So Groucho,

What did you finally settle on and how did it go over?
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Yes exactly, what did you get him? Did you consider taking them out to dinner and then a hotel for later?

Perhaps you should consider giving him your wife's pussy, I mean, exclusively. So, after his birthday, your wife's pussy will become the boyfriend's exclusive property, not yours any longer. How does that sound?

TP

Brilliant!
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