If your girlfriend or wife asks you - does it excite you?

So I'm officially cuckolded by my future wife. She's an old high-school girlfriend who's since been with tens of guys. We were on/off several times over the past 10 years. She sees me more as the cute, sweet, stable husband and that's why she'd choose me for marriage.


Our situation is a little different to normal cuckold relationships. We haven't even called it a cuckold relationship.

And it started differently. We live in different continents so all this has been decided over distance, but we talk daily and marriage will happen (we visit each other on occasions and will move in together). Basically she wanted to marry me (cute, sweet, caring, handsome guy who respects her), however I said I could not be exclusive as I get bored after having sex with the same permister over and over again, and this could happen as early as from the 2nd date [this is a great way to get your gf/wife to cuckold you btw]. So we could even have an open relationship, or this. She didn't want an open relationship as she wants me exclusive to her, so the only other option was that she'd see other men, whilst me being exclusive to her. At first she couldn't believe I wouldn't mind but I know how to convince a woman I'm not jealous, so after a few days/weeks of talking about this (not all the time), we decided to make it happen.

One thing that she does know from me is that I also do get off from her 'teasing' me and not letting me see all her goodies. I told her in a way this was necessary as if she'd give me sex every day I'd get bored.
Even though I'll 'beg her' for sex - but I want her to be strong enough to deny me as long as possible - but I kinda of secretly want that - 'officially' to her I say its cos of getting bored and all that, and that she can choose everything related to us sexually..

I'm also not great in bed or sexually and my penis is on the small side so that's another reamister.

Anyways, she's continuing to see her 'lovers' that she was seeing before we got more serious (about marriage and our type of relationship), and she does tell me she's been on a date, but asks herself and me how I can't bbe bothered - in most because I ask her about her dates. She's apprehensive to tell me info and doesn't believe its out of curiosity or that it's out of me wanting to know that she's having pleasure (which is what I always say) - and now she's asked me if it excites me.

Now I don't really want to say yes.. that would take away some of the fantasy..I would prefer her to continue having her affairs, denying me (once a month), and simply not being with me because of my sexual inadequacy. If I'd tell her it excites me that kinda takes away from the above fantasy... I prefer real genuine denial and her having affairs cos she needs to/wants to entirely for her, and not for me.

How would you deal with this?

I tell her this image of this strong powerful dominant alpha woman really attracts me...and that it kinda gets reinpowerd when she tells me about her dates.. But then she asks why I need to know more with who/what/when...and/or that she tells me every time she's been on a date..

Thoughts?

tell her you are a cuckold...that it turns you on to hear her tell...not so difficult if she already is fucking around...I guess...or...?
A cuck to my GF - A bull to all other women

Her behavior and reactions to your cuckolding ideas are the normal responses of the majority of women.

Not every wife will cheat on her husband. A wife that does cheat does so for HER particular feelings and reamisters. She chooses to share her experiences - if at all - with friends or people other than her husband.

I suggest that you consider dating or marrying a prostitute or town pump instead. You'll give her the stability and freedom she needs and she'll cheerfully pay your lusty desires back right out of her wazoo!

Otherwise, I sure wish that you folk would please stop pressing the wife by attempting to involve her in your masturbation fueled fantasies!

I'm not trying to be an asshole or buzz ******* about this. Please understand that ladies feel very uncomfortable and insecure when a hubby powers her on other men! If she wants anything, she knows how to get it herself and on her own terms.
..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!

It is so true about the fact that a cuckold should just marry a whore to start with!! I unfortunately did not know just how much I would love being cuckolded by my wife when I first married. I thought I wanted a good girl that would be true to only me. What an idiot I was!! It took me years before I finally got her to open up to cuckolding me when I realized it was what I wanted!. Had I just even suspected that I was a potential cuckold waiting for the chance I would have married one of the whores I had dated in the past, but instead I followed my lady's advise and married what she considered a 'good girl'...thankfully I was able to change her eventually, but I could have saved me a lot of effort, red, sweat & tears if I could have just married a seamistered slut instead!!