How to convince wy wife to fuck another guy.

With my wife we've talked a lot about her fucking another guy with me present or alone. We've advertised in a site and she's gotten several bulls intersted. She is a beautiful, fit blonde in her 50s. But she refuses. She might resent my pressuring her but i've said that cuckolding is my thing. I'd love to watch her suck another man dry and open her legs for a bigger cock. What to do?, that is the question. Any advise would be appreciated.

What worked for me

We are 46, together since high school, 29 years now. We talked many times over the years about me getting to watch her with another guy but nothing ever became of it. I ran a few ads, got lots of interest, but couldn't convince her to go through with it.

I finally took it upon my self to see if I could make something happen. I ran an ad looking for someone to seduce my wife. I got tons of replies, mostly from assholes, but I narrowed it down to one guy. I met with him and made sure we were both on the same page. His job was to try and seduce her and not expect anything right off the bat. He knew his chances of anything happening were less than 25%. We would meet at a local bar and our cover story was that we were old business acquaintances.

I took my wife for an evening out to the bar and met up with my "old friend" as planned. They hit it of great, talked, laughed, and got along great. He moved in between us and paid her all kinds of attention. After a few takes, they were soon dancing and flirting, all the time she kept looking back to me to see if it was OK. He finally talked her into a kiss on the dance floor to "see how I'd react" and she let him. She had a great time and he instinctively knew that was as far as she could go that night. He left us, at the perfect point in the evening, where she had a great time but wasn't pushed to far.

I had him email me a couple of days later, saying he had a great time, giving her all kinds of sexy compliments, and asking if we'd like to go out again. This really allowed us to have "the "talk" and really think about it. A few emails later, I had him ask my wife specific question to get her involved in the conversation. It took about a month of talking, me encouraging her, and rewarding her ( flowers, compliments, attention, etc) before she was ready to go out again with the distinct intention of fucking him. The rest is history now !!!!

That was a tough/slow work. My doubt would be that women are smart and can realize they are being set up. But it's worth a try. She actually liked the profiles of a couple of bulls who wrote to her and sent sexy pictures, but the moment of making themove she didnt go through. Thanks for your story.

Fuck.....it took me 24 years to convince mine and we had a mmf threesome b4 we married...but just once. I had to convince her I had no hidden agenda, wasn't using this as an excuse so I could go fuck some other gal. We've role played about this going way back in our marriage, even have realistic dildo's she plays with and we both pretend to suck while we fuck. Once I had her 100% convinced I had no agenda, that seeing her get fucked by someone else wouldn't change my feelings/love for her, I wouldn't have 2nd thoughts and possibly leave her......after lots and lots of convincing and reassuring she finally caved in. We were out for dinner one night, she was a little tipsy, we started talking sex, I mentioned how hot it would be to watch her getting fucked. She said, you really want to see that don't you! I said, oh hell yes, I would give my right nut to watch you get fucked! she said, I'll do it for u-I made her do a pinky promise with me that night that she would fuck someone else while I watched. The next day, we started looking and found a great permister. Within a week of the pinky promise, we met our new friend at a bar, talked and worked things out, I got a room at a nearby hotel, we met there and away we went. I was super attentive to her after we did this. The next week I spoiled her rotten, had flowers delivered to work saying what an awesome weekend you gave me, thanks babe, I LOVE YOU.....I really pampered her. All this worked as we now do this regularly and don't plan to stop anytime soon. I never really begged, just talked about it and how hot it would be and how sexy she was. I also told her I didn't want her doing this solely for me, she had to want to do this a little also because I didn't want to talk her into doing something she was totally against just for me and it kinda had that feel going into the first time. She admitted the first time was really just for me and was going in hoping to do it once and get it out of my system or was hoping I wouldn't like it and bring it up again..........but.........afterwards-after kissing, making out and removing another man's clothes piece by piece, feeling new hands all over her body, feeling someone else unbutton her bra and remove it, kissing someone else while they slipped there hand inside her panties and stroked her pussy, reaching down and feeling a hot throbbing cock that wasn't mine......all this and knowing I was watching-she said had her so turned on she couldn't stand it. She told me when I joined in and kissed her while he was eating her pussy, she let go, knew I was ok with this, enjoyed what was happening and things changed then. I also made sure the first time, when he was ready to enter her, I got beside her and kissed her as he slipped his cock in and reached down and stroked her clit. I'm a very, very lucky man and I tell her this every day....I've always spoiled her but since we've started this I've turned it up a notch, not trying to but I stay so turned on with it on my mind I want her happy as hell so we can keep this up. The last few months have been some of the best times of my life!

THE END JUSTIFIES THE MEANS!! For many of us it has been baby steps before we could get into full fledged cuckolded by our wife! Many of us have had to sort of set things up for her to be encouraged. Above all, no matter whatever small the level is (even if it's just him holding her ass on the dance floor, or kissing, etc.) never forget to encourage her by telling her how beautiful she looked to you at that moment and how much more you love her for making it happen. Eventually she will get braver and braver. My wife once lied to me and told me she had been with a guy at work just to see my reaction. My enthusiasm and praise for her made her decide that cuckolding me for real would be a good thing, and we have been at it ever since....many times with me being the one who finds her bulls for her. And remember, all is welll that ends well! This lifestyle has been the greatest sexual pleasure I could ever find and I wish I had discovered it when I was much younger....I am just glad I did when I did and never been sorry for one minute!