Has anyone else moved to this level

I’m curious how many others have moved on to the level of my wife and I. It started in 1997 when I was joking with my wife about her wanting to relax with another guy and I could tell that she wasn’t completely against the idea. After we talked about it for a while she agreed to me finding another guy to try a 3some with. At the time Yahoo IM was popular and much easier to find local people on so I set up a name and managed to find a much younger guy who was interested to meet the next weekend.

That meeting went well after some initial nervousness by the other guy and to my surprise my wife jumped right in and had a ball, pun intended. From that point on we continued to have 3somes, occasionally swapping with other couples and eventually she started to see other guys by herself. We both found it hugely satisfying and we never got into the degrading side of cuckolding although we didn’t hold much back.

Recently, within the last 7 months, we have started seeing one guy exclusively and it has developed into more than just a fun thing to do and she has admitted having deep feelings for him. The 3 of us spend most of the weekends together and she sees him often by herself and he and I also do things together besides sex. We have discussed getting just one place but feel it would be better to keep our two separate houses for the appearance of our families. The 3 of us often share the same bed and we have all become very comfortable with each other and often spend the night all 3 together.

Have any others found their cuckolding lives moving in this direction?

Yes.

It's fun on the short term. but outright dangerous on the long run.

Seriously, think before you proceed. Whatever you decide is fine, so long as you have thought about possible consequences and chose.

I've thought about the possible consequences of our lifestyle since shortly after starting and finding out she loved fucking other guys. I enjoy her being happy and that is what is most important.

Sounds too risky. Find another bull.

We have no desire to move on right now and I'm the one with the least power to do anything about stopping it even if I wanted. If either of them wish to end it they can, I can only take myself out of the group but they could still continue. I'm in the same position as all cuckolds, I have the least power to control the situation.

Pcol, Your last paragraph is my fantasy. But we haven't yet because of obvious family complications. Further, the idea of my wife "falling" for another man is beyond what I want for us. That is exactly what I'm afraid of.

[i][/i] Billy and I have been married 20 years now, its the second marriage for both of us..my first husband was a great lover and really hung but a miseable human being and violent..We got a divorce so the kids and I made do.then I met Billy he was all I wanted ,a great and kind man..But a little short in equiptment dept. i was ready to be satisfied with oral..Till one night at a christmas party at work..I got takes and this fellow worker named Marcus took me home..In front of the house in his car we did it and it was wonderful. that began the cuckold life style for me.

Seeing how quickly she bonds with the new man pops one testicle. Speedily realizing that, from now on, you are a distant second in her sexual pecking order pops the other one. P(ie OR ea)ce.
..............PSEUDO PERSON...YMMV!

I'm not sure I'm a distant second, but she certainly likes to have more than one guy in her life at a time. It works well since I've enjoyed being one of them for quit some time now.

My wife and I have discussed a similar scenario many times and find it very kinky and exciting. wether we would actually go through with it another matter. We both love each other incredibly but wonder if such a lifestyle would seriously hurt the longtime realtionship as a lot of jealosy can develop over "everyday things".
I wish you all the best and will follow your situation closely, I really hope it works out for you.

pcolacuck,

WOW! That is a very exciting situation indeed! In fact, that is just what my wife and i are hoping to have one day.

She loves having sex with other guys, and has done it a few times now. but she has never had a regular lover. We both think that she is ready for one-- she says she would be able to love two men at the same time, and she thinks our union would survive her love affair. She has never had feelings for any of those she has had sex with, but she says she would be able to, and would like to. For my part, i get amazingly turned on to imagine her with another man, not only having sex (I still have never been able to watch or listen to them together-- she has told me about it after the fact), but also cuddling, kissing, holding hands, doing romantic things together. I would LOVE that!

Both of us talk and fantasise about her finding a lover and spending more and more time with him, until he moves in with us. I don't know if this would really work out, practically, but I do think it is possible, if everyone gets along well and everyone really WANTS that sort of relationship.

Please keep us updated how it turns out!

My wife has to be in love with her lovers because it doesn't work for her if ther are no emotions. Sure it is dangerous and when she is deeply involved I don't get much of a look in but it remains incredible horny and at the same time deeply satisfying for both of us.

It is the danger we all are exposed to with this lifestyle! When first getting into this lifestyle we used to have her fuck younger studs because of they have more stamina and ability to cum multiple times to satisfy my wife...the danger was that some of those younger guys began falling inlove with my wife, and one even tried to get her to leave me and marry him. For that reamister we had to sacrifice youth for experience and we began to pick her bulls from a more mature group of guys...many times we now pick guys who are married and just out for the excitement of cheating on their wife. In this manner we know they probably value their marriage, don't want to screw it up, and are just out for a purely sexual fling...a sexual fling is all this cuckolding is supposed to be. Too much emotional involvement leads to many complications for the cuckolding couple and their immediate family...can also lead to the destruction of the marriage between the cuckold hubby and his cuckoldress wife. Better to play it safe and keep the wife's escapades purely sexual. Just my 2 cents worth from experience!