7 years of begging is finally about too pay off

Go slow if you are still having such strong reservations and difficulty with it all.

Meeting might be fine but just like BDSM you gotta have some call signs to know both of you are comfortable. If either one of you want to stop, your wishes should be respected by your partner.

We use a blinking technique by her... when i give her a sign if she's ok or enjoying it she blinks very deliberately rapidly. If she blinks deliberately slowly, it means she's not comfortable and we should wrap it up.

If she signs me, then either i smile if i'm good or stern look if i'm not and that means wrap it up too.

The sign changes but typically, it simply an OK sign that either of us show with are hand as a question. i.e. i'll show sign her "OK" and she'll either blink fast or slow.. and vise versa.

It's really important that in the beginning, you're both on the same page and able to deal with your emotions. After a few times, you'll know if you are up for letting her enjoying herself and provide her with sexual freedom. But in case your not, its important that it go no further then you are comfortable with or else .. your relationship could be in jeopardy.

I've heard of men freaking out even after a few times watching .. one guy freaked the first time a bull gave his wife an orgasim even though they had encounteres several times before that, she just never got off etc.

Oh yeah,

Nothing hotter though then your wife/girl getting it hard from someone else and looking at your straight in the eye and saying .. i love you and kissing you deeply while you hold her sweaty hand.

Or..

You lying on your back, her on her back between your legs and you watching as some other guy goes down on her or does her missionary.. while you play with her stroke her hair.

Hopefully, you can get over your fears and get to take part in your wife's sexual desires and be an active part in it. Nothing like it.

One last thing i guess i should mention, we setup ground rules everytime. Sometimes they are more relaxed sometimes they are more strict. Depending on the situation we're going in to.

For example.
Kissing between them: Sometimes it's ok, sometimes it's not.
Anal: never allowed
Safe sex: sometimes yes, sometimes no.
Where does he cum: sometimes she decides, sometimes I decide, sometimes he decides..
Level of activity: sometimes it's just a bj, sometimes just oral for both, sometimes no holds barred
etc.

Just make sure you talk to your wife about everything up front, talk about different scenario`s of how things would happen and make sure you`re comfortable with all of them together.

The 1st time you see your wife kiss someone else, blow somone else, and have sex with someone else it`s natural to go through a range of emotions and a bit of jealously. after all she is your girl not his but after that, it can be an awesome experience watching your partner allow you to be a part of something so intimate. Taking part is even better or just being support of by holding her hand.

Wow, great advice from some great people. Agree with everything that has been said. Ive been a wanna be for quite a while and only recently started talking to a guy whos willing to work with me to acheive my cuckolding fantasies. My wife isnt on board yet (unlike yours), but the conversations I have been having with this guy is causing me to rethink and reevaluate what I really want. So I understand, at some level, the feelings you are having.

Good luck and stay cool. I appreciate your posts.

Just wonder why she didn't give you a third option.

Really appreciate all the words of encouragement and advice from everyone it really helps. Well, I texted Eddy today to confirm our meet and we've got in down to Wednesday night before his shift jeez wonder if he'll show up in his cop uniform now that would be intimidating LOL We made some small talk about weekend and from what I can tell he does seem like an okay guy but who knows how seeing him face to face will be. I'm self employed and I'm use to interviewing people for positions in my company without being nervous but this seems like I'm interviewing a guy for the position of fucking my wife and that's making me really nervous!! I told him my wife let me know he was researching cuckolding so to help him along I told him to check out cuckshare.com for some visual research It's a site the wife and I visit often for our cuckolding movie fix. Wife doesn't know I contacted him today or that the meet is confirmed but I'll tell her when she gets home from work. I'll update again if anything comes up before Wednesday night.

Here's a toon I made my wife a few years back wonder if this scenario is going to be actually playing out soon

I went to my wife’s work this afternoon to pick up her car and take it to get washed and cleaned inside and out as her car lease is almost up and they are coming too inspect car tomorrow. I never told her I was coming and when I got there her car wasn’t in her spot. I started calling her office line and cell phone but just got her answering machines. To be honest I started panicking a bit wondering if she might of left work to meet with Eddy. I started driving around to all restaurants in area and even a hotel to see if I could spot her car. I had no luck so I decided to just head back to her workplace and park off to the side and wait for her return. She pulls in 1/2hr later and I call her cell and this time she answers I start asking her questions about her whereabouts but she was being very vague and says she was at McDonalds having a salad. I have to admit I never checked the McDonalds parking lot because she never eats there which was another flag!! She could sense something was up and asked where I was I told her I was behind her in the parking lot. She seemed shocked which again worried me. I pulled up and we got out of vehicles. She asked why I was there and I told her. I than started asking more questions about where she was, than after a few minutes of interrogation out of no where she stunned me and said what does it matter anyway? I didn’t know what to say!! What are you talking about of course it matters I replied. She said really should it? I mean soon I’m going to be going out on dates with other men anyway aren’t I? On top of that you are going to be encouraging me too aren’t you? Ahhh I was frozen but my cock grew instantly and was rock hard. I couldn’t answer and she said that’s what I thought. How does one go from being so jealous to instantly turned on?? Oh and one more thing she says. She goes back into car and pulls out what looks to be a prescription. I said what’s this? She replies well I was going to surprise you later but I also went to the Dr and that’s a prescription for the pill! WTF? She said I asked Eddy and he’s not fixed like you are sweetie and we shouldn’t take any chances. He said he has been considering it but until than I think I should be on the pill because I want him to do me bareback and not with a condom. I didn’t think my cock could get harder but it was so hard it was hurting me but also I was in shock, confused and jealous! It was an incredible rush of emotions than she said now run along get my car cleaned also there’s a pharmacy up the street please drop off the prescription for me and I’ll pick it up on the way home after work. She leaned in and gave me a huge deep kiss and slid her hand down the front of my pants to feel how hard I was. She just gave me a very sexy little smile and than said oh one more thing. I said what’s that sexy? She replied, never question my whereabouts again is that understood? I replied yes sorry won’t happen again and I love you so much. Good she said now go run my errands for me. I’m now just waiting for her to get home and am rock hard , have been all day!! I know I said she wasn’t pushing me over the cliff but I think knowing I’m meeting Eddy tomorrow has excited her so much that she’s now got me dangling over the edge.

Wow, sounds like she is really taking control on this.

What a great update. I know its hard, but keep cotrol of yourself, and continue letting her take charge. This is getting easier for her, probably harder for you, but in the end...oh so worth it.

My meeting with Eddy had to be rescheduled too Friday night same time before his shift. Wife asked if she could come along now since it's on a Friday night and we don't have the kids. She's giving me the you don't want to leave me at home all alone on a Friday night speech LOL I'm not sure if that's a good idea or not was hoping to meet him myself first. I just think if she's there I'll be obligate into something I'm not ready for. I also worried I might feel like I'm being pressured with the 2 of them tag teaming me on the benefits of going through with it. I don't want to cave to the pressure!! I know I'm weak and especially after a few takes I'll be putty in their hands. One thing I know for sure is that if she shows up with me Eddy will be pleasently suprised as they havn't spoke in a week and he hasn't seen her since their initial first meeting weeks ago. Will update before the meet with my decision on if she's joining Eddy and I for takes on Friday night. What do you guys think?

I was thinking about your story last night, and thought a good scenario if you had met Eddy alone, was that Eddy would have taken control of the meeting and rather than asking you things he would be telling you what was going to happen.
Anyway, the way I was imaging it (it it was me in your situation) was that before the meeting was finished, Eddy was pulling my head down onto his cock to give him a blowjob.
His dominance of the meeting would have been that his dick was going to be in my wife pretty soon anyway, and she would soon be taking his cream up her pussy once she is on the pill for a little longer.
So Eddy was just taking advantage of the situation of making me (you) become used to the idea of becoming a cuckold and eating creampies.
Permisterally i think the quicker you get used to the fact you are going to become a cuckold and a creampie eater the better it will be for you.

Meeting him 1on1 is odd.. are they planning on being a couple, more then a 1x time thing.. either way. Seems kind of odd.

I permisterally prefer to trust my partner then "interview" him.

Have you thought about the boundries around what you are looking for you?
Do you want to be a complete sub to her? Are you ok with her dom. you and potential of humilation?
Are you looking for a hotwife or are you looking to be a full cuck?
Are you ok with having a "dating relationship" with someone else vs. just men that are part of her life to have sex with???
Do you want to be an active part in and also be there or do you want her doing it all on her own?

Sounds as though she is ready and knows what she wants but you haven't dealt yet with what you are looking for with her? Also, do you have any desire to be with other women? 1:1 or in 4-some, group etc.

Are you ready for her or to cage you as she sounds like she might be a dom now that she has felt a bit of freedom.

I think you have some issues to sort through and understand "who" you are in this relationship and what you are comfortable with and wanting...

Meeting her partner alone i find very odd... not sure what you are hoping to get of the meeting...

so you wanna fuck my wife..
yeah..
why..
cause she's hot or cause that's what i do.. and what she wants..
oh...

I agree that it sounds like you need to decide what the two of you want and set some boundaries. You and your wife need to sit down and sort this out or it could end up badly. Maybe you can initiate by writing down a "contract" for her with what you want and expect. Then the two of you can negotiate any changes until you are in agreement. Writing it down is important because over time memory can fade.

But I disagree with what the others said about meeting this guy 1:1. It doesnt have to be a big deal. Just meet with him and tell him that you want to come to an understanding with him. Tell him that you want him to respect your wife and your marriage. If he can do that, then you will allow her to have some fun with him. Bring it all out on the table.

After what happened the day she clearly lied to you about her whereabouts, I'd say the whole meeting is a sham and they've gone through with it already... I could be wrong, but I point this I because I've been extremely naive in the past.

Well, I have no intentions to actually ask him if he wants to fuck my wife as I already know the answer to that. I basically wanted to meet him alone first so I can have a man to man basically tell him our boundries , what we expect, find out what he expects and like iwmwtcm says make sure he understands he needs to respect my wife and our marriage and any rules my wife and I set forth. Hoping it actually makes me more comfortable with the whole thing aswell once I put a face to the name.
I've thought of this but like everyone posting has been telling me I have to trust my wife so I'm putting all my faith in her that she's been telling me the truth and will continue too. We have been communicating alot about everything which really helps. Could be me being naive but if I don't trust her this will never happen.
We've discussed this in the past and have both found it erotic when reading other couples contracts online so having one ourself maybe just be the ticket. I like the fact things could be written down so if there is an issue we can refer to the contract to resolve it. Will discuss with wife and post our contract here for all to see once we get it done
Now too tonight still havn't decided if the wife will join us I keep flip flopping on the issue. I can see this decision is going to go right down to the wire for me. The good thing is I know either way his shift starts at 11pm so I don't have worries of anything happening tonight if the meeting does go smoothly and she's there. Although, there is a hotel attached to the restaurant/bar where the meet is taking place I'll try to post before meet to let everyone know if the wife is joining us. Just thought of something maybe an interesting idea would be me going alone and asking my wife if she would come on here. While I'm out meeting Eddy she can post her feelings , what's she's thinking about her husband being out talking to another man about the potential of her being fucked by him You guys wouldn't mind keeping her company for a bit tonight would you?

Okay, I'm leaning toward her coming. She emailed me and said we can go early, have dinner and wait for him. I'm now contemplating texting him letting him know we'll be there for dinner and ask if he would like to join us. I think it would be a nice suprise for the wife. I would love to see the look on her face when the hostess asks table for 2 and I say no we're meeting someone for dinner table for 3 please

I've been working from home today just thought I wouldn't be able to concentrate much at the office with my mind on this meet tonight. Unfortunately, I haven’t been able to concentrate on work at home either. The wife and I have been emailing each other all day discussing the situation, rules, boundaries and ways to maybe start off slowly with Eddy. We’re thinking maybe no full penetration first few times. We can ease into it slowly by us hanging out more them kissing and some oral play? Especially with wife not starting pill until Sunday it takes a good month for it too kick in fully. I must admit I see the tide changing and I have a feeling everyone here is right I might just have to come to grips that I'm going to be a cum eating cock sucking wife worshiping sissy cuckold husband soon enough

Okay not sure what's going on but I've been super horny all day. The wife and I have been emailing each other scenarios . Here's an example of one. This was mine needless to say she just absolutely loved it Eddy comes to our house in his uniform, parks his cruiser on the street right in front off our house. He knocks on the door and no matter how i'm dressed even in boxers (well hopefully not in winter) LOL he begins to pretend I’m under arrest and handcuffs me. He than leads me out to his cruiser and puts me in handcuffs in the back seat. Hopefully, some of the neighbours are out so they can see this and than see me sitting in back of cruiser as he comes back in house. He than proceeds to fuck you good!! When he’s done he comes out while still buckling up his belt and takes me out of car unhand cuffs me and says your lucky this time your wife saved you a trip to the slammer. Now go back in your house and he just drives off and I come up stairs or wherever you are and lick your pussy clean of this cops cum and thank you for preventing me from going to jail. Wonder what the neighbours will think?

Eddy just text me asking if we're still on for tonight. I told him we are and that my wife will be joining us for takes so decision made. Sorry for all the posts today. Will update everyone on how the meeting went either tonight or tomorrow morning.

Good luck mate!

Now that's my kind of sexual fantasy.
More like that, please. There are lurkers who are really getting off on this. Believe it.
And thanks!

On my iphone. Wife and I are here having takes. Eddy just texted me 10 mins away we've ordered him a take. OH GOD this is crazy never thought we'd get to this point.

how did it go?

This is fantastic. I have this topic bookmarked on my phone so I can check for updates all day. Thanks for sharing.

Outstanding!!! Looking forward to your update.

Sorry all for taking long to update but was hung over this morning and than had to go buy my wife a new vehicle Anyway, the takes were flowing last night even our waitress had a shot with the 3 of us. The meet went well and he seems like an okay guy. When he first walked in I shook his hand and he greeted my wife with a big hug and kiss on check (standard stuff). He's tall; I believe 6'4 which is weird for me being 6'3 I usually don't meet many guys taller than me. However, there was no awkwardness and the conversation flowed smoothly all night but there was a nervousness from everyone in the air. We got a private round booth and it worked out well that the bar wasn't too busy so we had lots of privacy to talk. The wife made sure we sat in a position where there would be no choice for her to be between us. It's hard to describe how I was feeling talking to another man about wanting him to fuck my wife, especially with her right there. She was just looking right in my eyes as I was talking to him and smiling with her hand under the table rubbing my cock keeping it nice and hard. I did notice her staring at him 90% of the time it was kind if weird but I guess I have to get use to that from here on in. Most of the night was uneventful just the standard meet and greet stuff except for a couple things one which my wife doesn't think I saw. It was about 3 quarters through the evening when all the holy water told me nature was calling. I really was scared to leave them alone but just couldn't hold off nature any longer. I excused myself and left I took a bit extra time just to give them some time alone. When I came back I stood by the corner where I could peek at them and I noticed her hand under the table near his lap with arm moving back and forth I knew right away she was rubbing his cock. What a site it was!! I was rock hard!! When I finally stepped out she quickly snapped it back and I just went along pretending not too notice. The other thing came when Eddy had to leave for his shift. The waitress came over with a separate tab for his takes and was about to hand it too him when my wife said oh no my boyfriend never pays for his own takes give that too my husband!! OMG The look on the waitress face she was in complete shock, I shrivelled up like I was wearing a pink dress and became beat red. I've never been so embarrassed in my life!! Eddy was smiling and wife had a grin from ear to ear. He than left but this time when leaving he gave my wife a kiss on the lips. Nothing crazy but I didn't expect it. Wife and I stayed for a bit longer to discuss the nights events and man oh man was all the bar staff staring at me the rest of the night She's super excited and ready to fuck him!! He's never done anything like this but is totally into the idea and is really looking forward to getting started. We tried to set something up for tonight but he was working so we're going to try and schedule something shortly. To be honest the way my wife has been talking today and pushing last night I don't think I'm going to have much more say in the way things play out but we did all agree to start slow. I'll update as soon as events call for one...

Very great story !
I wish you to be soon the cuckold you wish to be.
And it may be for very soon as the rythme seems to accelerate very very "dramaticaly" ...
Your wife is funny. When you talked about the affair, did she indicate that she would like it to be publically known.
Well, not all the town knows now, but the waitress sure does !
Have you been surprised at this very moment ? What were your feelings.
demimolle,
voyeur-branleur inoffensif et respectueux

Not sure if congrats are in order after that meeting ?????? Best of luck the next couple of weeks. Sounds like you're in for a lot! Hope your ready.