Question to wives: Do the cuckold should stop having sex at all?

What is your opinion? When you have cuckold lifestyle relationships, does it mean that cuckold should not have sex at all? I mean penetration, blowjobs… Should he forget about entering pussy and having penetrative sex ever again?
Cucks are welcomed to reply also

If you ask my wife-- YES! She has stopped havig sex with me about 21 months ago now. She has no lover at the moment, but has had a few (3) for one night stands. Even without another cock, she says she does not want my small, thin dick in her, mainy because i simply cum too fast every time, and it's only got worse lately. So, no sex at all for me; that means-- no blowjobs (she says it's boring to give on to a small dick, i guess i can believe her), no penetration of her pussy, and vertainly no anal penatration (she NEVER let me in there, though she has had it with 2 of 3 lovers!). FOr me, sex is licking her pussy, kissing her, usin ga dildo on her. She enjoys this much more, she tells me again and again, and i also am happy with it. When she is finished, she just goes to relax. she says sex is for HER pleasure, not mine.

But donT get it wrong-- we still really love each other, she just knows i am happy and turned on with this situation. She occassoinally gives me a handjob, but not very often. About once a month (though no one is keeping track in that way). She does, however, ntoe down how many tiems she has cum until i get one. Usually it is several for her before i get one.

We're happy!

I haven't been permitted penetration sex with a woman for 10 years. So I guess the answer is yes. The only exception is giving oral sex and the occasional superior male who feels he has to sodomize me to degrade me.
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I still fuck my girlfriend all the time. Cuckolding is something that adds to our sex life, not something that takes away from it.

I am never allowed inside of my beautiful sexy wife again, nor am I ever allowed blow jobs anymore. She has other men whenever she wishesn and I accept that.
My only "sex" is to be used by other men for their pleasure, and while my sexy wife watches.
I am allowed to play with myself when she allows it. Sometimes she will do it for me...but it is usually a "ruined orgasm".

I love my wife dearly and love our cuckolding marriage. I love being a wittol

when she started cucking me she made it very clear to me that i would never have sex with her again. the only sex i have with her is when i lick her pussy. at first she still gave me a handjob every week, but she stopped doing that aswell.
my clit is locked up in a cb 3000 alot of the time, and when its not locked up can only masturbate when she gives me permission, wich doesn't happen alot.
so basicly the only sex i have is when i lick he pussy or when i take cock up my ass or in my mouth

My wife says her lover's too damn jealous ... so she's promissed him not to have sex with any other man, including myself. He's a very endowed black and gives her incredible sex, with such a regularity that makes me amazed (in other words, she doesn't need any from me, except money).

By the way, some people in this site have told me I should not allow her to go on treating me like that, but I still get off a lot watching them fuck.

My wife doesn't like be in a sexual relationship with more than one man at a time, so when she has a boyfriend, she is sexually exclusive to him. Usually, she has a boyfriend for 3-7 months until the relationship runs it's course. Then, we go back to having a re-charged sex life together--- until she has another boyfriend.

Right now, she is involved with Ramiro, who she has been seeing for the past 3 months.

I have a thread on our unique arrangement here.

Rick

my wife says she will unlock me and have me whenever she wants. For the last several months, though, she has called her lover when she's horny and he's taken care of her. I guess when he doesn't come through, she will use 'her' cock. For now, I'm happy being locked up and chaste. He is going on a solo vacation in October; maybe then she'll unlock my 'treasure.'

Kali:

I'm with you 100% on this. This is the "spice" that keeps things interesting for both of us. We have love and respect for each other, and playing the cuckold game is just an added bonus to our already great sex life.

So no.... being a cuckold should NOT remove your own sexual enjoyment. But, hey... to each their own.
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I agree with cuckold4fun.
It could be really dangerous if the cucki is completly cut of sex.
Maybe this is the beginning of the end.
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I am not cut off completely, but am nearly so. Up until two weeks ago, I had sex twice this year. Two weeks ago I finally broke down and begged and had sex again. However this past weekend, my wife was allowing me to use my 'fleshlight' device for relief and abruptly said "I will allow you inside me for one minute". I was shocked and excited at the same time! She had never put a time limit on me before but also, it had only been two weeks since we last had sex!

Sure enough, after one minute, she announced "Ok, time's up. I'm done, get out." Needless to say, I had not yet cum.

Generally speaking, a resounding NO. My wife has never cut me off. Being a submissive female who learned at an early age that pleasing men (starting with foster boys that lived with her family) sexually was a proxy for scarce parental affection/attention, she became s*******ed at being a ‘good girl’ publicly and a slut behind closed doors. Discretion and not getting caught by her parents was always a must, especially since some instances were, technically/legally statutory r*pe since she was no age sixteen.

Brought up in a dysfunctional codependent family by parents using emotional use and a sadistic guilt-as-control Catholic manner was an emotional conundrum. Sex was, of course, a sin. But it was also acceptance, sex was being wanted (at least physically), sex was pleasure, and sex was a relief valve, escapism and covert rebellion.

When we did our first threesomes in college with my roommate, she had no qualms with me watching another guy give it to her. When she moved on to screwing other guys while we were dating, she got a little funny about it. She sorta felt like she cheating on me if she fucked my roommate or someone else, while I was at class. She KNEW I was okay with it and it turned me on, but me not being there made it, in her eyes, different. Oh, she liked doing it, cuz she loved a good fucking, but she was afraid I would start considering her TOO slutty, too disrespectful and too indifferent to our relationship. So she got very ‘not in your face’ about it. She would not lie, but the topic became very unspecified.

After we got married she confided that although she coveted the casual sex with other men, she wanted to be a good wife and not risk our marriage. I had seen this brewing since we got engaged. Also, my parents and friends adored her, and she was terrified of in any way messing this up. To make a long story short, within a couple years she was fucking an old and trusted best friend, and she preferred I not be around when they had sex. They spent time together and during these times she became a little more comfortable with me seeing the PDA, but she was still very discreet. He would spend the weekend and I would volunteer to take the spare bedroom, stuff like that. Eventually he moved in for a few years and that is a whole another story. But in due course she got comfortable with the fact that she loves to fuck and will never stop doing other guys and that I accept her, but she treasures our marriage and is just as kinky and sleazy with me as she is any other guy. We occasionally go through periods of playing denial games (my idea, not hers), especially when she is hot and heavy with a new boyfriend, but inevitably she has to have my cock in her. While other people have their own kinks, and she has read posts on here a few times, she just cannot imagine not ‘reconnecting’ with me on a regular basis.

Short answer: She could not handle not having sex with me. It’s the pleasure and emotional connection she craves.

Sex has slowed down as she is not impressed by me after all the lovers she has had through the years.

Oh yes, i do continue to have wonderful sex with my wife. Sometimes, she wants just me, and sometimes she prefers talking about her lover...

No, cucky doesn't have sex with me anymore. Our bull does not allow it, and in any case, cucky does not get very good erections anymore, and with his small size, it's virtually impossible for him to achieve penetration without a decent erection. Oh well, we tried, really we did.

My 2 cents:

There are as many opinions on this subject as couples who are in the lifestyle. So there are a lot of variations of no/yes/maybe-sometimes as you can imagine. When it comes to my cucky and I - it all depends on my mood, the level of my horniness, and there is always a bull's availability question. He gets some 'jobs' here and there, but that again depends. But cutting him off completely is not something I'd do. HTH
If You Don't Believe In Oral Sex, Keep Your Mouth Shut.

Our situation is a bit different. We began our relationship as a cuckold couple many years ago. I suspect this will happen to more couples because of internet dating where men and women can meet each other more honestly.

My wife is a "size queen" with no interest in sex with little dicks. We were both at a lonely point in our lives when we met. When I confessed to having a small penis she made it clear to me she would have no interest in fucking me. But, I lusted for her greatly. I am very submissive to women and began dating her anyway. There was lots of chemistry and attraction and she let me orally pleasure her. She had sex with a couple of men while we were dating and let me listen on the phone.

We moved in together but my sex life with her was limited to orally pleasuring her. She would let me sniff her panties and jerk off afterwards. A few years ago we met a very handsome black man who has become her exclusive lover. She was married once to a well endowed black man and so I knew she had this attraction.

Yes, I have not had penetration sex or blow jobs with her almost from the beginning. She did try it a couple of times (mercy fucks) early on which were humiliating experiences for both of us. She just can't deal with sex with a small penis. I knew it was a mercy fuck and she was powering herself to do it.

Her lover is at our home all the time now. I have my own room. Oddly enough, after all these years, I still get aroused listening (or watching) them have sex. I go to my room, snff her panties and jerk off. I wish it were more but that will never happen.

marcus

I'm only allowed a release on the 1st of each month, how it's done is down to my wife.
She goes out regularly on a friday night and often comes back really late and on 2 occasions hasnt come back till next morning.
She tells me what she's been up to, but i dont know whether it's fantasy or real, it does sound very real, and i have checked her panties and found what looks to be like proper evidence, so i assume she tells the truth.
I,m ok with that, i'm locked 24/7 and have no chance of release until the 1st of the month and am always super horny after the middle of the month she knows this because my attitude and affection change towards her, i become more submissive and eager to please her, but she never releases me early , no matter what.

When your wife is comfortable openly taking lovers before your face, you no longer have any sexual relevance to her. The very thought of whatever masturbatory exuberance you enjoy as we tryst is buzz ******* for both her and me. A eunuch is better hubby than you because he is clean, behaves like a gentleman, understands her needs and has a well balanced view of things. She does not need an obsessed masturbator constantly spewing goo all over or vicariously prying into her sex life. Like watching an aircraft taking off or a ship leaving port, your wife's sex sails away once she openly supplants your "monkey business" with a real man. Should such a cuckold be denied sex by his wife? Of course! The real question here is: when will he realize his marital sex life died long ago? P(ie OR ea)ce
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At first, we still had sex. Then it became sex only after she had been with her lovers. Then she started adding games to it, like time limits and using chance (coin flips, dice, cards) to decide if I got to have sex or not. Now, actual sex is non-existent to very rare. I get a hand job every couple of weeks, but only to orgasm about 1/3 of the time. I get a blow job on my birthday.

lovely boobs Linda - would look gorgeous dripped in your lovers cum xxx
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I have sex with my husband every day even though we do the cuckold thing. He wishes I would go out every single night and get stretched and fucked and satisfied. After every single time I go out, I come home and almost immediately have sex with him. It is what gets him off.

He knows I get less or little pleasure from him, but he still needs to get off every night, one way or the other. This means for me, I sometimes have sex 2 or 3 times a day! But hey, IM NOT COMPLAINING!

If I was successfull in leading my wife into being fucked by other men who are 6 plus inches and last a whole hour fucking her without loosing hardness, use her the whole night till she is exhausted with orgasms, I would still wanna fuck the cuckolds brownie out of her, cos no matter what my fetishes I need pussy, if my wife stopped giving me pussy I would show her the door quick time, damn theres no way in hell a man can survive without regular pussy!

I think having a great lover who satisfy you there are no need to have sex at all with the cuck.
Monica

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You mentioned that your wife's lover moved in with you at one point...could you tell us more about that? My wife and I considered doing that before but never did...the guy backed out.

Hey pirate,

I have some experience with this. My former gf's lover, a good friend of mine, stayed in with us for nine months during weekdays after he got a job near our town which was still a little far from his own place. We were happy to have him stay over, just for friends, but since we had a couple of threesomes with him before, it didn't take long before my girlfriend was commuting between our bedroom and the spare bedroom. We used to joke that she came along with the rent. She never had so much sex! Over time, we progressed into selective denial, whereby she had sex with him more often than with me. What a ride!