CuckWannaBexx
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Over the years I've got my wife to cuck me or flirt heavily on a couple of occasions. She's admitted in the past that she's enjoyed the attention from both her bf's and myself, but anytime anything has happened its always required a lot of begging on my part. Anyhow, she now says that she's discusted by the idea of doing anyone else again and seems to have really put her foot down. She really seems to want nothing to do with cuckolding, She doesn't even want to talk about any of our past adventures or even talk dirty just to play out my fantasies. I'm not sure what to do at this point, but its looking like my days of having a hot wife may be over.
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Allen
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Just back off of her. She might be having feelings of guilt...or she just might be done with the whole thing. What you need to do is go to her, thank her for everything, and now just be with your wife. You are lucky she has cuckolded you, you enjoyed it, she enjoyed it...count yourself lucky. So many that have the cuckold fantasy only get just that...fantasy.
Good luck, and hopefully, maybe your wife will do it again someday.
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man_in_dam
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Quoting: Allen Author Message CuckWannaBexx Member 44 # Posted: 27 Apr 2010 07:31:35 Reply Quote Report Over the years I've got my wife to cuck me or flirt heavily on a couple of occasions. She's admitted in the past that she's enjoyed the attention from both her bf's and myself, but anytime anything has happened its always required a lot of begging on my part. Anyhow, she now says that she's discusted by the idea of doing anyone else again and seems to have really put her foot down. She really seems to want nothing to do with cuckolding, She doesn't even want to talk about any of our past adventures or even talk dirty just to play out my fantasies. I'm not sure what to do at this point, but its looking like my days of having a hot wife may be over. Allen Member 1147 # Posted: 27 Apr 2010 13:22:21 Reply Quote Report Just back off of her. She might be having feelings of guilt...or she just might be done with the whole thing. What you need to do is go to her, thank her for everything, and now just be with your wife. You are lucky she has cuckolded you, you enjoyed it, she enjoyed it...count yourself lucky. So many that have the cuckold fantasy only get just that...fantasy. Good luck, and hopefully, maybe your wife will do it again someday. That really is good advice. |
redimac
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Or, she has found something she likes better....
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mace43uk
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no I think you should back off just like allen says and give her time, either way she will decide your future, but at least you have the few times she did to reflect on.
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orban victoria
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I think a wife who tasted this lifestyle can take a pause but leave it totally - well it's impossible. My wife tried to stop that three times but always finished with another man's dick in her pussy.
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bpop
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Patience, patience. Lots of people have guilt attacks from time to time.
Let time be your ally. When she gets more interested in getting laid, those "disgusted" feelings will lighten up.
Be especially nice to her, even "wussy" nice, if you know what I mean. That will help reduce any sexual attraction she has toward you, so she'll be more inclined to get her needs met elsewhere.
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CuckWannaBexx
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I'm pretty certain the reamister she is saying she is done is because she's never been comfortable with the whole scene to begin with. Its took years of coaxing between different encounters. I don't think there is any chance she's cheating without me knowing about it. We're pretty up from with where we both stand in our relationship.
As far as going the "wussy nice" route, thats not really my style. I am the dominante one and I need to get laid pretty often. I just like her to be a little outside of her shell every now and then. I definitely get a rise out of seeing her get a little wild.
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bpop
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Okay. Dominant or not, you can have some influence on whether she does it again.
Just keep in mind that "never" may not mean it will not actually happen again. In fact, you might get somewhere by encouraging her to use the "never" word. You know what they say, "Never save 'never'."
Obviously you can't push her into doing it. But I wouldn't say it won't ever happen again.
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JUANITO
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You may try thinking real hard if there have been any life changing events in hers (or both of your) lives that would cause her some psychological change of heart. If she was enjoying in the past, I believe she would enjoy it again, if only she would allow herself to try. Again not knowing anything about your private lives it's hard to say, but maybe some event has caused undue stress, tension, hardship or the like...enough to make her reflect on the cuckold experience not being right all of a sudden. Try to get to the bottom of what caused the change and you may be able to influence her in the direction you want again.
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CuckWannaBexx
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She has said at times she felt like she was getting pimped out. I don't think she was ever totally comfortable with relaxing with someone else. I think its also partially that the last guy she was with a little disappointing. She said he was "small" and called him her gay boyfriend. I think she'd also like it if I was a little jealous instead of chearing her on.
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Allen
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I think all you need to do is still constantly reassure her how much you love her, and that no matter what she decides...you will back her 100%.
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Southbeachitalianbull
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You need to leave her alone. Its obvious she never wanted to do it from the beginning. She basically gave in to please your fantasies. If you keep mentioning the cuckolding thing to her, I bet you she will file for divorce. Just bcuz a woman does something in the beginning just to pleez her man doesnt mean she going to keep doing it. Let her be and enjoy the wife that you have. There are many men out there who have no one in their life. Dont blow it.
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