Hi everyone,
We're a genuine long-term UK couple — Jason and Lisa — together close to 30 years and based in Cornwall. We wanted to write a clear, open post that honestly reflects our background, our dynamic, and what we're looking to explore next.
We have real history in the cuckold and power-exchange space — not just talk or fantasy. Our first real-world experience was about 15 years ago, before we had ********, when Lisa dressed in a maid role and enjoyed attention and experiences with a bull while the cuck observed in a submissive role. It was consensual, positive, and helped define the foundations of our dynamic.
Life paused that side of things while raising ********, but in recent years — as they've grown older — we've returned to it together with maturity and intention.
For the past three to four years we've maintained a long-term online bull dynamic that has been structured, psychological, and very confidence-building for Lisa. Through that, she has grown more confident, flirtatious, and comfortable being admired and desired. Outfit play, presentation, and attention have been a big part of that journey — including regular toy-based play introduced by our bull. Boundaries and consent are always clear.
Within our relationship dynamic, Jay has embraced a more submissive and feminised role. We now have several sissy outfits, and it is understood that he supports the dynamic and contributes to the bull's requests willingly and gratefully. There has been structured training and role development, with emphasis on discipline, appreciation, and emotional control.
Jay (sometimes called Jasmine in sissy role) accepts restriction and presentation rules within the dynamic. Chastity and power-exchange are established parts of our relationship structure, although at times we allow flexibility and keep a sense of humour about it. Emotions are part of the journey and handled with trust and communication.
Lisa enjoys the contrast — being admired and wooed — while the cuck takes the restricted, supporting role. It strengthens rather than weakens our bond. Elements such as restriction gear or ********* play are part of the private dynamic and handled consensually.
What we're looking for now is to bring the fantasy into a real social setting.
The fantasy for us is strongly centred around a club environment where:
cuckold dynamics are understood
bulls are confident and socially skilled
flirting and wooing happen naturally
the energy is adult, respectful, and controlled
Lisa loves dressing up — from elegant dresses to more daring looks like leather, latex, or uniform styling — and wants to go somewhere she can feel stunning, admired, and approached properly. She wants to be chatted with, danced with, and flirted with in a confident, intelligent way — not crude or pushy behaviour.
She enjoys the idea of dancing closely, being the focus of attention, and creating that charged, jealous tension between us. That emotional energy is a core part of the experience for both of us. Where things lead, if anywhere, would always be mutual and ********.
We are especially interested in meeting a bull-type personality who understands cuckold relationship structure — someone confident, respectful of boundaries, experienced in the dynamic, intellectually grounded, and ideally appreciative of leather/latex/PVC aesthetics and roleplay culture. The mentality matters more than bravado.
Because we're based in Cornwall, we know we're far from major scene locations, so we're specifically asking for:
UK club recommendations
lifestyle events worth travelling for
cuckold-aware venues
organisers or communities that understand this dynamic properly
honest experiences — good or bad
Clubs would be our preferred way to meet people, but we are also open to respectful direct contact. We're happy to talk, build rapport, and share appropriate photos once mutual understanding is established.
We're not promising outcomes.
We're not rushing anything.
We are experienced, genuine, and exploring the next chapter together.
The cuck is very excited, as always.
Replies on the thread or private messages are welcome.
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or teams Cuck Ja or
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Jason & Lisa
lisajay xxxx
