fantasy

i would like to see my wife being seduced be an other man at a bar. The way i see it, is that i make an appointment with the man without my wife knowing it. That I ask him to seduce/flirt with her, dance with her and see from there....

It would be our first experience into this and i don't know what my wife her reaction will be.

Anybody ever did something like this, any suggestions,....

Thanks

For a long time Wannebe cuck

My wife always enjoyed male company and with me working shifts of one week early, one week late, she developed her own social life quite often without me. She'd happily go alone to our work's social club bar where colleagues of mine, some male, some female, would keep her company or just out with the girls, either dr1nking or playing darts for a ladies team in local pubs and clubs.

She'd often be bought dr1nks and be chatted up by men hopeful of some fun and sometimes she'd come home and tell me bits and pieces about her evening, maybe having kissed a guy or let him have a feel of her arse or even her tits. I knew the temptation was there and that really started to arouse me. I also realised that there was every chance very soon of her giving in to that temptation and having sex if the right guy caught her in the right mood at the right time.

I decided if she was going to do it - and I quite expected it to happen sooner or later - that I'd much rather know she's doing it, so plucked up the courage to tell her that I would be okay with her having sex with someone else as long as she came home and told me all about it. Her first reaction was, "Yeah, right!", but gradually as we talked about it and role-played with a toy in the bedroom, she actually warmed to the idea and, long story short, she ended up enjoying sex with several other men during our marriage.

It wasn't all plain sailing I admit, the cuckold angst kicked in big-time after her first extra-marital encounter, and she quickly ditched the only 2 ground rules we'd agreed to - not to do it with anyone I knew and to always use condoms. These went out the window the same Sunday afternoon when she went to the home of an ex-colleague of mine (who'd admittedly been after her pussy for years) and let him fuck her bareback. Surprisingly to both of us I guess, I didn't have a problem with that, proving it by licking her out and enjoying her clearly well used pussy when she got home. Later though, she became very secretive and some things I only found out about after we'd split up and divorced. I'll never know if she perhaps grew feelings for one of her lovers or whether it just became more enjoyable doing it behind my back and not having to give me a blow-by-blow account.

In short, discuss it with your wife rather than try and set her up with some guy. It took me over 2 years to persuade my wife I was serious, that I still loved her and wasn't looking for an excuse to have an affair myself, but she got there eventually and I don't regret it at all. There was something very exciting knowing my wife was getting extra cock elsewhere and if my current girlfriend would do it, I'd encourage her to get more cock too.
Peter C