Sexless *********

This past weekend, I spent Saturday night at a boyfriends house but didn't have sex. My husband and I have been discussing whether that is a sign that my relationship with the boyfriend has become too familiar. My husband thinks I should reduce how often I get together with that boyfriend. (Although it is my decision how often to see a boyfriend, I genuinely value my husband's input.) What do others think about this? Is being content not to fuck a sign that a relationship has gotten too marriage-like?

Sounds like that may very well be the situation. The bf may be becoming content with everything. Or he was just having an off night. If it is a pattern, or becomes one, distance or limited time may restart things.

from my point of view, yes it is time to move on. In my own marriage, things went stale and we were content to just be together, which is why we opened our marriage to other people, especially for my wife. If you are just content to be with this guy, time to find someone new and exciting. Move on and make your husband happy by knowing you are happily getting your brains fucked out.

If you were living with your boyfriend, you wouldn't have sex with him every night. What's wrong with spending the night ******** next to a man you love and just enjoying being there with him?

xoxoxo

Christine