Screwed up cuckold twice, now need expert CP help

Hi all!

Appreciate the website and stories. We're a married couple w/ kids and so must be discrete. I've tried to get my wife into swinging with a bull for years from leaving magazines out to finding guys online to set up meetings in permister. Let's just say that both attempts almost led to separation and divorce. She was actually up for meeting an assertive sexually dominant guy before the last failed try and is still willing to try again once we work on the marriage a little more.

My question for you experienced guys out there is how to get her past any remaining reservations or being scared about having sex with another guy and cuckolding me in the process? I know that she's finally come around after I caught her masturbating while looking at guys online. She's also come a long way from just talking about brining another guy into our marriage. She has begged me to be more assertive and on top but it's not in my nature and it's something my wife needs to have to fully enjoy sex and orgasm.

She's 36, 5'8", curvy MILF, blue eyes, shoulder length brown hair and loves to give oral to completion and be taken from behind by a dominant assertive guy (I am not that guy and want to be the passive cuckold and watch her w/ a Bull). However, I need the help of this community to make sure I don't chicken out and to help me convince my wife to become a submissive slut for her master. She hates condoms and so any bull(s) will have to be DDF. Drinking is more than okay, especially wine and beer.

You can reply online or via a private message. Thank you for helping me assume my role as a cuckold for a bull(s) that I should have been years ago. So long as she consents with a safe word, I am okay going as far into B and D as you and her agree to do.

One of my fantasies is for my wife to find a real B and D bull with a dungeon that has a swing, horse, table with cuffs or rope, nipple clamps, and to be used for the pleasure of the bull and his friends. But for now, I will settle for just having my wife fucked frequently by a very Dom bull.

Thanks for the advice.

I can understand your issues. The Great Love Story of my life has been destroyed when we tried cuckolding. I was the Alpha before, but was very intrigued and wanted to switch. I also needed this to alleviate life pressures, psychological problems that were crushing me.
We tried, on and off, for a year. Then she left. I was even glad when she left, fool that I was, so I could finally pursue my submissive dreams.

Then after some months it dawned on me. What I lost.

Regret has been *******ing me since. I would give everything, literally everything, to go back and have her again. After two years, I am still trying to get her back. I will probably keep trying for the rest of my life.

I now have all the women, BDSM and cuckolding I might want. Yet I want her and would gladly go vanilla forever if I could just see her smile to me in the mornings.
I have always been protective, yet I have now become much stronger, I literally rebuilt myself for her, to offer her a safe haven she might want to rest in.
To no avail, and each new day that comes by *******s me a little more.

Women don't come back.

Be careful. Be very careful.

While the thought of your wife getting screwed by someone else is hot and if all three people are on the same page it is erotic fun adult play. If your wife is the type that can't seperate sex from emotions then you shouldn't push her to find another man. If however the both of you can enjoy sex without all the Religious & social stigma placed on monogamy then fuck on. As soon as she seems to be getting emotionally attached to her fuck buddy she needs to stop seeing him or you too may find yourself in Possaroba's situation. As long as she wants him for a good time and not a long time the sex can be great. Also don't go for all that submissive cuckolds brownie. Alpha males can enjoy watching or letting their wives have some extramarital sex also.

My sweat thing getting some a couple days ago.

You've been given some really excellent advice here by both posarobba and i122, heed it! Having said that, an Alpha male can indeed enjoy the cuckold life. I am an active Bull, but I enjoy my wife being fucked by one of the numerous young black males she likes so much. We both get off on it, and it does no harm.

If you're still insistent on getting your wife fucked, then I would love to oblige you, the only problem being the distance between us!

Here is the best advice I can give you (next paragraph), but I doubt that you will heed it or will learn from it.....


Unfortunately, there is absolutely no better way to state this issue......
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