Being Caught

Hi

Interested to know how many couples have been caught or nearly caught playing with a bull by their family or friends. Or if you caught your parents playing.

Never had the experience myself but love to hear those that have.

Thanks

Always have been afraid of running into a family member or friend who doesn't know and being discovered. For that very reamister most times we go out to play with a bull we do so in a city at least 50 miles from our own. Less chance of running into someone from our family. Interesting topic...wonder how many couples have been caught with their bull in tow and how they may have explained it away!!

We have never been caught "in the act" so to speak. At least that we know of. There is a local strip club that has a section with a dance floor for couples and they encourge couples to play. We used to go there when we first got in the lifestyle but soon realized that there were probably many people that went there that we'd prefer not know about us so we quit going there.
One night we were there with a couple that we knew who were interested in trying the lifestyle and wanted to see what goes on but were uncomfortable going alone the first time. So we went with them and dressed "normal". We ran into a family member. My wife has always wondered how many time we were there playing and there was someone we knew there that saw us and we didn't see them. The place can get pretty crouded and something like that couls easily happen.
Another time we were at a swinger party that a couple used to have at a local motel. They quit having the parties and we haven't heard from them in a number of years and the motel has since closed and torn down. But one night we were there, My wife was wearing a short tight dress, garter belt and thigh hi stocking and nothing else as most women there were. She was sitting the lap of a black guy we know. Her skirt had worked up enough that you could see the tops of her stockings and some bare white thigh when a coworker of hers walked in. It was a little awkward at first but they soon both realized that this was a situation like Vegas. What happens here, stays here. Besides, He was there without his wife (who also worked at the same place as her him and my wife) and she would not have approved of him being there so he had more to loose then we did if word got out.
My wife and her didn't get along at work and I thought it would have been ok if she ended up fucking him but it never happened.

Actually, a key moment in my experience was when an old school friend (female) who knows my wife and I and lives in the neighborhood saw my wife saying goodbye (full, tight embrace and deep long kissing) to her then boyfriend by the subway entrance. Tom (the boyfriend) left unaware, but Janet approached my wife immediately after. My wife was flustered and a bit panicky and the very shocked Janet asked straight-up what is going on. My wife felt caught and embarrassed and was so worried about Janet thinking bad of her, that she blurted out the best excuse she could think of:

She told Janet that I was gay, which wasn’t true, and that I was in the closet for professional reamisters and begged Janet to keep “our” secret. She assured Janet that I was fully aware and she wasn’t cheating, which was true, hurriedly parted claiming she was late for an appointment, which also wasn’t true – she just wanted to get away as fast as she could. She promised to explain all in more detail soon, and again begged Janet to keep what she had seen to herself until then. Then she came home.

My wife was almost beside herself with guilt, dread, regret and fear when she got back. She felt fairly certain she had just ruined both our lives as well as our marriage. I got the story out of her (with many tears) and comforted her. I reminded her that public exposure and offense had always been a big part of my fantasy. (We hadn’t pursued it much because of my wife’s discomfort of that side of things.) I reminded her that she had told a couple of her close friends already about both my submissiveness and her seeing other men. They had been people she was close enough with to be vulnerable and had been her friends. Janet wasn’t as close and was someone I had known much longer, but I encouraged her to think positively – that there was no reamister Janet shouldn’t be as trustworthy as Roz and Linda. I reminded her also that she had been pining for a confidant (Roz lived far and Linda had moved away) and bursting with the desire to be open about Tom with people anyway.

As she calmed it became clear that the biggest problem was that, feeling cornered, she had told a foolish lie – that I was gay – and she felt ashamed and down on herself for lying (which she doesn’t do lightly) as well as guilty for the damage she may have done to me and my reputation. She was filled with self-recrimination. We both knew as we talked, however, why that particular story had jumped to her mind. It was not just because “reprogramming me” was her favorite dominance/offense game, it was because we had previously toyed with precisely the idea of telling people that when we discussed managing the fallout from being public about her dating around. The shock of it suddenly being real had overwhelmed her. But I soothed her and suggested (despite my own deep stomach misgivings) that we should run with it. The truth is, the idea that Janet knew my wife was relaxing around and thought I was a poof turned me on a lot. We were soon making plans about what to do next and then before I knew it, I was on my knees stroking off and begging my wife to “out” me.

To shorten what has already been a too long reply: I called Janet and verified what my wife had said. I told her I knew all about Tom. That I was fine with it, in fact supportive; that I was a cross dresser and a submissive and was turned on by men. Janet is a psychologist by training, although not in private practice and she was fascinated. She agreed to keep quiet and I ended up inviting her come to dinner later in the week. When she arrived I answer the door in full maid’s uniform. We had a delightful evening that included a great deal of frank quizzing by Janet. I was required to be very convincing about my desire for cock and my lack of interest in sex with women. This was challenging since it wasn’t true at the time, but the effort was amply rewarded by my wife after Janet left.

This turned out to be a turning point for my life in a number of ways. After that we bit-by-bit opened up about our lifestyle to friends and, eventually, family. Each time, the pattern we used involved “outing” me to help people accept that my wife wasn’t a “bitch,” or a “cheater,” and I wasn’t a “victim.” (In fact, it made her a sympathetic figure to most people who proved more likely to censure me for being closeted and/or perverse and deceiving my wife into marrying me.) Janet became the first permister my wife loaned me out to as a maid. Actually, it was “hired” since Janet, who was determined to help me get over my “baggage” and embrace both my homosexuality and desire to be transgendered, gave us free counseling in return. Janet’s advice also led my wife to explore psychological techniques for altering my orientation (which Janet would not have approved of) and what had been an ongoing sexual game became a more earnest project.

Sorry to hold forth so long, but the incident was one that impacted my life so deeply that it is hard not to muse endlessly when I look back on it.
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Well my wife went on a double date with my sister, both had black guys for dates...not sure if that counts as getting caught but it is hot!! Also wife has gone on a double date with my secretary with black guys..in fact my wife introduced my secretary to BBC

I can tell you about two time. The first was when I came home early from school as a teen ager and catching my lady with her female lover. The second time was with my wife when at a job xmas party, she got takes enough to let me fuck her over the trunk of our car. We got caught by two guys from the party who took their turns with my wife. We both loved it.

Another twist to this is have you ever wanted to get caught or staged it so you were caught by someone? I might see something like this for someone that would want to perhaps shock a particular permister or maybe try to introduce someone to the lifestyle.
A permisteral situation that comes to mind is I have several brothers but one in particular that my wife and I think him and his wife are very sexually open minded and progressive. We have sometimes wondered just how much so and what would happen if they found out some of the things we've done. I'd be curious of what they have done. And there have been a few people that I'd like to see their reaction if they ever caught us.

I would also like to add that one of my longest and unfulfilled fantacies is to walk in and catch my wife with another man.
I don't mean just with a guy in the house or a situation where it just obvious but I want to catch them in the act with his hard dick pumping into her pussy.

Thanks for the replies guys, I'm sure that there are many stories of a wife cumming home with cum running down her legs looking totally disheveled and a kid coming out to ask what shes doing up at this time.

Hi guys

This was about members getting caught, but had a sneeky thought the otherday about catching out your neighbours having a party or having bull like men come around at night and the bedroom light goes on. anyone. I'd love to catch out someone.

I caught my wife bringing a guy to our house when she thought I was out of town. When she opened the door and saw me, she sent him on his way. I don't think he knew what was going on, and I didn't make a scene. She conveniently has no memory of it now.
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