How did you get started ?

I'm always curious how people get started in a lifestyle like this. Ours was a very gradual one. I was a cuckold long before I had even heard there was such a thing.
My wife and I are in our 50's, been married over 30 years. The first 10 years were pretty "normal". My wife was very open minded and sexually liberal and had quite a number of adventures. After we were married a few years she would mention some of them in our "bedroom chat". Instead of being angry or jealous I found myself getting excited and wanting to hear more.
One night after we had been married a number of years and had 3 youngren we had a friend over for dinner. He was a former neighbor that we stayed friends with after we moved to our present house, He had split with his wife several months earlier. As the night went on we were sitting on our back porch chatting. it was warm and my wife had changed into a nightgown. As we chatted the conversation eventually came around to sex and he had admitted that he hadn't had any since well before his wife left. The night progressed and the converstion got steamier. I noticed the way my wife was sitting with her leg lifted up on a foot rest that the hem of her nightgown was slowly creeping up until eventually I could see her bush. From where our friend was sitting and the low light he couldn't tell if it was bush or panties. She then announced that she was going to get ready for bed and would come back out to say goodnight. When she returned she was naked, she leaned over and kissed me, then turned to him, kissed him, took his hand and led him into the house. I gave them several minutes then followed. As I entered our bedromm I could hear the sound of our bed squeaking and skin slapping. She was on all fours and he was fucking her doggy style. I couldn't believe my eyes or how excited I was getting.
A couple of years later she came home from work and told me that she was attracted to a coworker, they had been flirting at work and she wanted to take it further. I asked how much further and she said "all the way" She said the following Saturday they were scheduled to work together and would get off at the same time. She wanted to go back to his apartment and have him fuck her . That was the first time I sat at home knowing my wife was with another man and what she was doing.
I'd like to hear from others how they came about and would be willing to share more about us if anyone is interested.
Just a note, Don't ask for pics, we never take any,

Please tell us more. I'm more than certain I'm not the only one that's interested in hearing about your awesome wife.
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I guess I could start off by telling some of the adventures she had before we met when she was in her mid to late teens. One time she said she had gotten invloved in a game of strip poker with 3 guys. She was the first to loose all of her clothes and told me how erotic it was to be sitting there naked in front of three guys. She then agreed to play one more hand, if she won she would get her clothes back, if she lost she would give all three a blow job. She lost. But she also told me she was originally delt 2 jacks and 3 lower cards, she discarded the jacks and got another lower card and one more jack. If she had kept the jacks she would have had 3 of a kind and won.
Another time she did a threesome with her boyfriend and his best friend. She said in the course of the evening her boyfriend fucked her twice and his friend fucked her three times.
She did her first black guy when she was 19, he was 43. That was in the late 70's, pretty taboo then. She also said that he had cum inside her and she wasn't using any protection. Luckily she did not get pregnant.

I'd also like to hear form others with similar situations

Anyone else care to tell how they got started?

I'm curious about your first time! When she came out naked and took his hand, how did she know you wouldn't freak? Had you guys already discussed it enough that she knew you'd be into it? I like her attitude and confidence, that's for sure!

We got started as swingers. I enjoyed swinging, no doubt! But I did always get a big thrill out of watching her, however, she was always more jealous than me. She wouldn't let me play alone, but I would let her. Then one day I took a prescription for Cipro. All I can say is never take this antibiotic. It tears up your tendons and does a number on your nerves, too. Over 3 years later, I'm still pretty fucked up. Swinging is no longer an option for me, but it is for her. Luckily we're ok with that and making the best of this situation. I do think I'd have enjoyed it even if I did not get crippled.

As the night had progressed I mentioned the converstion had turned to sex and got steamier. She got the idea from some of the comments and the glances I had given her that I was all for it. We had in the past discussed playing with another guy but not that situation in particular. The situation was just an opportunity that presented itself and we carried it through.

When my wife and I were dating I used to be the jealous type. As time went on I learned to really like when she received attention from other men. I would encourage her to dress sexy, flirt, dance and sometimes flash other guys at bars or other places. Loved to drive around while she had her top (or bottoms) off, licking her tits or playing with herself while we passed truckers. There were a number of times guys at bars would ask if things could go further, but she would never go for that.

We discussed for a long while the idea of her fooling around or fucking another guy. She wanted it to be someone she knew and was really comfortable with. She had a job for a while working for a guy who was running for a low level elected government position. She flirted with him a lot and I had no problems with it and she did really like him. When the election was over, he lost, so I encouraged her to make him feel better about the loss which she gladly did. She ended up tit fucking him and let him eat her out. They never had sex, but did fool around a few more times.

A few years later she caught up with an old boyfriend on FB that was getting divorced. When the divorce was official she met him at his motel and fucked him. When she came home I ate her out and fucked her as soon as she walked through the door. Been a few years since anything else has happened, but those were a lot of fun.

Cuckwannabexx: I assume you knew where she was and what she was doing when she was meeting the old BF?You stay at home and wait for her?

Yup, she had my blessing from the beginning. With the old BF she needed a little push, but with her boss she needed no push at all. She was totally hot for him. Still surprised she never fucked him though.

I think its just as hot sitting at home knowing my wife is out getting fucked by another man as it is watching. I've even waited in one room as a guy took my wife to his bedroom.

I've never got to watch or be in the next room. That would be hot, but wife would never go for it. She did let the ex BF know that I was totally into the idea of her fucking her. Which of course he then did...

There are a lot of guys out there that do have a problem if the husband wants to watch but there are also a lot of guys that get an extra thrill knowing their fucking another mans wife. Some like to be watched and some like to send her home to hubby with her pussy full of their sperm

My wife sets the rules, so i'm not allowed any veiwing pleasure (not sure how i'd handle it, tbh). I love waiting at home (baby sitting) while she's out doing whatever she wants !
It all started for us when she mentioned she'd like me to 'hold her open' for other men. One thing led to another and she found herself at a works do with a colleague who ended up fucking her all night. She came home a bit upset (worrying about my reaction) but i soon calmed her fears. There's been no looking back for us since then, she fucks around but doesn't like to get too serious with any of her boyfriends. She has become very dominent with me and very submissive with her men.
I should mention that she was only 19 when she mentioned the 'holding her open' bit and started to be unfaithful about 6 months later.
Also, i've never 'held her open' for anyone LOL

I saw a woman wearing a T shirt once that had a sating on it, "Its not cheating if Husband approves"

I'd like to find a shirt for my wife like that but she could only wear it someplace where we know we won't be seen by anyone that knows us

And I've "held my wife open" for other men.

I guess nobody else wants to tell (brag) about how they got started.

dtp7158, great thread. I am still working on my wife, just a wanna be at this point. Love the the variety of stories so far. Be patient, people will respond.

ok, I just think it'd be fun to hear about how couples get into it. I'm sure its not like some morning a guy wakes up and says "Hey honey. I got an idea, how would you like to start having sex with others guys?" and she responded with "I think thats a great idea."
From what I understand Alfred Kinsey wrote in his findings in the 40's there was a high percentage of men that encouraged their wifes to have sex with other men or at least fantacized about the idea.

I started it with Mrs Took.

Mrs Took had always flirted with guys she found attractive, and because our relationship was so strong, it didn't bother me as I trusted her implicitly, even though I am normally quite a jealous permister. However I started to fantasize about the flirting going further, because she was so horny she couldn't stop herself. She comes across sweet and innocent and the idea that she wanted someone so bad to HAVE to fuck them, even though we were married, turned me on like hell. This fostered itself for about a year before I told her. She was surprised, but the fantasy made her quite horny as well (there was no suggestion of a reality at this time). Over the next year or so we used this idea in hour sex life a lot, she told me of a couple of guys she knew who she had found really sexy and we kind of 'role played' the situation for a while.

Then one day she came back from work really horny and excited. She had been out at lunch time in the town, sorting out some household stuff and had started flirting with the guy who she had the appointment with. They had texted all afternoon, mainly just rude innuendo, but she had hinted I had fantasised about watching her with someone else. She was fucking horny and we fucked all evening. Over the next few months the texting got more regular and nude pics and videos were frequently exchanged. He even made a dildo replica of his cock for her, which we used a lot! The idea was that it was only flirting, but whilst using this fantasy as part of our sex life, we used to suggest that it might happen. The trouble was I would blow hot and cold about it actually happening. In the height of sexual excitement I would be really up for it, but as soon as I had blown my load, the idea scared the cuckolds brownie out of me.

After a couple of years of this we got to the point again where we both really wanted more than just the fantasy to happen. Mrs Took was very patient and was sensitive to my feelings but I think was getting a bit frustrated by the build up of the idea of something happening and then the let down as I lost my nerve. We decided to invite her friend around to see our new house, and to see where things led from there (small steps).

When her friend AJ came round, it soon became obvious it was going to happen. I have written a separate account of this day here if anyone is interested and uploaded some anonymous videos, here
https://www.cuckoldplace.com/6_75024_3.html

Since that day, we haven’t looked back. Mrs Took and AJ have hooked up four times in total now, the last was without me there. We don't do it really often, and we enjoy our own sex life around the times they do get together. But when they do she fucking loves it.

I'm hoping it might happen again before too long, but only time will tell....

Wish Mrs Took was in the US. Been watching her, she looks like a great fuck

I just came right out and told her I was bisexual and she asked me how much and I told her just orally. She then replied she would like to watch that. So I called a friend up (black guy) and he came over. Next thing I know she is asking me if she can have some. That was how it started and she now loves to play. It has been 10 years now. I know my place.

With my wife and I it started quite by accident at a party at a huge penthouse where everybody was pretty high. People were disappearing into bedrooms for a while at a time...I had gone outside and when I returned couldn't find my wife. When I had left her two young guys were involved in conversation with her. I figure I wil find it sooner or later so I went into a bedroom to use the adjacent bathroom since the door was unlocked. I could see a couple on the bed fucking their brains out. She was moaning loudly like a bitch in heat. I did not even realize in was my wife until I was coming out of the bathroom. The guy had cummed and was getting off her and asked me if I wanted some pussy because he was exhausted and she was still very horny (he did not know it was my wife). I suddenly realized that my dick was the hardest it had ever been! It was like an enlightening moment!! My wife was somewhat worried that I'd be mad but instead I seized the opportunity to shower her with affection and tell her what a terrific turn-on the experience had been. Once she woke up the cuckold which had been lying dormant in me for so long it was time to run with it. I started finding dates and hook ups for my wife, and the rest is history. I just love seeing her getting fucked by other men...for me it is the absolute highest turn-on there can be and I cherrish every moment of it. And to think I had to find out almost by accident...if my wife had not been unfaithful that night I may have never thought of it!

Good thread!

I think its a good thread but pretty disappointed about the lack of responses. I'd like to hear more and I'd like to think there are a number of people that would like to hear about how others got into it.

Keep this thread going, one of my favorite topics

This is a reply I posted a year or so so ago on another topic, but it fits here fairly well and I don't feel like retyping the whole thing. Enjoy.

The very first thing that started me on this was a magazine article on outlaw motorcycle clubs. It was a men's magazine from the early 60's that had risque photos of women with lots of cleavage showing I picked up in a barber shop when I was about 12. There were descriptions of the biker women being gang-banged, and I, of course, had never heard of such a thing. The concept of a woman having more than one man really caught my imagination. Thoughts of many men fucking a woman at once became my main fantasy.

Fast forward about 5 years, and I had a girlfriend who let everyone that would listen know she had a preference for black men. Her brother and his friends teased me mercilessly that she was fucking a black guy behind my back. There I was, with my steady girl wanting sex with someone besides me, and I wasn't getting any pussy from her. We eventually broke up after dating for 18 months, and went our separate ways for about 4 months, when I ran into her again. I had rid myself of my virginity by then and the first thing out of her mouth is "Guess what I did?"

I knew instantly what she meant, and grabbed her hand, led her to my car, and then took her home where we had about 3 hours to play. I asked about birth control before we started, and she said "Don't worry." We fucked three times and then got dressed since my parents were coming home. I asked her who took her virginity, and she tells me it was a guy she knew for about 2 days before she got laid. I was floored! Two days and she gives it up! "What are you using for birth control?" She coolly replies "Nothing, I'm pregnant."

My head was spinning out of control, but strangely there were no feelings of jealousy, and I was as hard as a diamond. My ex gets fucked by a guy after knowing him 2 days and he knocks her up in about a month! I was crushed, filled with adrenaline, and turned on like never before all at once. My head was spinning and my vision was actually blurry! She was still seeing the guy, pregnant, and fucking me all at the same time, and still looking for a black man to fill her up. That was a very overwhelming day for a naive 19 year-old, but the tone for the game was set forever.
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I'd really like to keep this thread going. I would like to think there are couples out there that are honestly in this lifestyle ( We have seen quite a number of them just locally at some of the clubs) and a lot of people that would like to hear their stories.I'm just not sure what else we can do to encourage others to share their experiences

Me and the wife had always kinda fantasized and role played about having a threesome. When we were in the heat of the moment, she'd start asking me things like "you really want to see me suck another cock" or "you want to watch another man fuck me don't you"...she would even grab my hand a few moments after we'd finished and tell me to feel her pussy, which I did, she'd ask me, "you know why it's so wet", I would play along and say "no, why honey". she'd tell me her boyfriend just filled it up with cum, or her boyfriend was over and fucked her really good and she had a surprise for me as she would push my head down to her pussy and ask me how he taste's. She would really get off when I started fucking her and she'd jam her finger in my mouth and fuck my mouth with it and tell me how good i looked sucking his cock. Well, after years of this, and playing with a realistic dildo, out for dinner one night and after a few cocktails we started talking about it. She asked me if I really wanted to see her get fucked. I said yes, it would be the hottest thing ever for me. We went over jealousy and all the boundaries and I asked her if she could do it, just fuck and not get attached. She assured me she was capable of fucking someone just to fuck and could wake up the next day like nothing ever happened. So, I made her make me a pinky promise that night that we would do it. Within 2 weeks, we met a guy for takes at a bar, it worked out, we went and had an awesome time at a hotel. We did it again about 3 weeks later, we've had a lull for the time being but plan to meet with our new friend again this coming friday night for an all nighter and then us three are making a trip to vegas soon, it's already been booked. so far, it has been absolutely worth it, I love watching her from start to finish with another guy, she did talk me into helping her suck his cock, which was ok but way more work than I ever thought-but it was fun licking and sucking on it together. I've watched them fuck and seen him pull out and shoot a massive load all over her face-i got on top and was fucking her as her head was hanging off the bed and he was jacking off all over it. She grabbed me and kissed me after he finished then moved her face around so I could lick it all up. i will say it was way better than I imagined and now I crave it, it's very addictive. I've watched them fuck for what seems like hours and after us all getting tested let him cum in her pussy and had her sit on my face so I could clean it up, again super addictive. once, I was fucking her missionary and he was straddling her face getting his balls sucked and ass licked by her while I sucked his cock. She was telling me to keep sucking, he was about to cum, she could tell I guess because his balls starting tightening up, he grunted and she grabbed the back of my head so he came all in my mouth. she told me not to swallow it, we kissed and shared it as i came in her pussy. all of this is so super addictive, I crave it. She doesn't tease me as far as being a sissy or any offense, I told her point blank I'm not into that. I will honestly say, it has been and is being even better than what I fantasized about it to be for me. as I've mentioned several times, it's like my have and I'm hooked! We talked about it last night and she told me as long as I'm in and want to do it she's game but will stop at a moments notice if I don't want to do it anymore. she claims what gets her so horny and worked up wanting to do this for me is how horny it makes me which makes her horny. come on Friday!