A word I didn't know...Compersion

Sort of "a positive jealousy"...

Should be interessintg to discuss a little further here on this site...anyone want to deliberate on this???

Here is some definitions....this article discuss polyamorous relations...but I guess this also have relavanse in cuckold relations???

Compersion is a state of empathetic happiness and joy experienced when an individual's romantic partner experiences happiness and joy through an outside source, including, but not limited to, another romantic interest. This can be experienced as any form of erotic or emotional empathy, depending on the permister experiencing the emotion.

The concept is now widespread within the polyamorous community, and was originally coined by the now defunct Kerista Commune in San Francisco.[1][2][3]

It is common for people within the polyamorous community to state that jealousy comes with the territory of open romantic relationships.[4] Compersion has often been referred to as "the opposite of jealousy"[2][5] and some advocates state that through time and experience, it becomes an efficient method for combating jealousy.

Polyamorous views on jealousy and compersionIn romantic relationships, jealousy refers to the negative thoughts and feelings of insecurity, fear, and/or anxiety over an anticipated loss of a partner or of that partner's attention, affection, or time. Because polyamorous relationships often exist within cultural frameworks of monogamy, where jealousy is understood as a natural reaction to perceived competition for a partner's attention, affection, or time, treatments of jealousy in polyamorous literature are quite extensive.

In her book Polyamory: The New Love Without Limits, Dr Deborah M. Anapol describes five different types of jealousy - possessive, exclusion, competition, ego, and fear - before discussing compersion.[2] The books The Ethical Slut and Opening Up also devote entire chapters to discussions of jealousy.

Investigative reporter and sex educator Eric Francis wrote on his Planet Waves website that an individual could look for their own compersion within jealousy itself: "Right inside the jealous episode is a fiery core of erotic passion. It may surprise you how good it feels, and if you get there, you can be sure you're stepping right into compersion."
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I have often thought that the word "compersion" didn't have a basis in how words get put together. I've always thought it was a strange word.

But I also think that the concept is great, and that it also has an application here in the cuck community. I would love for my girlfriend to meet someone and start dating again. (She has done that in the past, but isn't seeing anyone right now.) And to fall in love with him, if that is in the cards.

xoxoxo

Christine (a sissy m)

An interesting concept. must look in to it more.

Another word - same meaning?...

Related terms

The adjective frubbly and the noun frubbles are sometimes used, in the poly community in the United Kingdom and the United States, to describe the feeling of compersion.[7] These terms are more suited to cheerful, light-hearted conversation, and they are more grammatically versatile, for example: "I'm feeling all frubbly" and "Their relationship fills me with frubbles"

A little strange that these words are not more frequently used here. Compersion gives a lot of meaning, and describes for me some of the feelings that arise for a cuck...yes? Do I feel jealousy? Yes, but at the same time, a lot of good feelings and of course: the horneyness...as some cucks say: you have not felt a real hard-on if you havn't been cucked

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