crispin:
Others finding out here at home
Yes, discretion can be a problem, especially if you have youngren or live in a small, close-knit community. Your wife might feel more at ease and more receptive to another man's advances when she's away on vacation.
Do you roleplay and use the fantasy in bed together? I used to use a realistic looking dildo on my wife in bed and we'd pretend I had caught her in bed with another guy. I'd tell her not to stop on my account and say how good it was watching a different cock going in and out of her cunt. She enjoyed that image of me letting her be "naughty". Eventually the fantasy became real and she has since had 4 other men fuck her with my full knowledge and approval.
Good luck Crispin. Your wife has a lovely slim body - I like her little tits, her belly, those strong looking thighs and that inviting looking tight, hairy cunt. Tell her I'd fuck her anytime.
Peter C