I WANT HER TO TAKE A REAL BLACK COCK how am a goin to do it? ______________________
SMLDICK:
After 15 years of marriage, and being introduced to large endowed black men about 12 years ago, and never looking back, I can tell you that your wife is already thinking
big and black. She is no idiot. She knows what is hidden away in your drawers, after all, she most likely puts your socks and BVDs away each week.
You have to remember that white girls are raised to be Barbie Doll wives. Everything from playing house to the pretending to get married when you are a little girl, all lends itself to the perfect picket fence marriage, with the fairy tale story attached.
I can assure you that your wife fantasizes about being fucked, rather than being made love to. The dildo that you used, brought the mental and physical together, and the only thing that will keep her from going
black is her fears of social acceptance.
Work on your approval, based on the fact that you are aware that you can not be everything to her! Especially in the sex area! My husband, a cream pie eating, standing at the foot of the bed watching, cuckold, is the air in my lungs in all of the areas of my life. He is an adoring and devoted husband, a man, provider and as important, my best friend. He also knows that his 6" is what I need, and it (his penis) is asociated with all the things that I mention above. Now, what I
want is another issue.
Explain the differences to her about
need and
want. Explain to her that you know that in comparimister, you can not give her what she could get,
better sex, pure physical enjoyment; And that she can have that without the mental anguish of feeling that she is betraying you. If that was the case, then the female purchasing market of vibrators and dildos would be non existant.
Think about it! That market is driven by the
wants of females, and paid for by adoring men, for those women. Yes, I am sure as one of the other people stated in this thread that some of the toys bought are tossed because the woman rejects its usage, but that is because that individual female can not let go and accept the fact that she can actually step outside the Barbie thing and welcome more intense pleasure being given to her.
Keep in mind that in the 50s and 60s, women (wives) used to fuck to get a new stove, or a refrigerator. Things have changed greatly over the years and women now are realizing that we can have sex, wild and crazy sex, with whom we want, when we want, and sometimes when we can convince our husbands that we love them and that we realize that their equipment is not large enough for maximum pleasure, we can have that once in a while black guy that will tap into the slut in us, use us, allow us to use him, and everyone walks away happy in a mutual usery situation.
Yes, mutual usury. It boils down to that. The imposition of one's will on another permister, mutually, where neither permister walks away in a lesser positon than when they started.
Wild concept for mental midgets, but that is the bottom line. As a women, yes, I become friends with my lovers, there is a mutual bond, an association per say. But when it is all said, it is
mutual usery. I use my black lovers so that I can get what I
want, not what I need. A lover uses me to get what he
wants, and a sort of community is established between us.
Men have been ripping off sex, with no strings attached, just some pussy and ass, and move on, since the beginning of time. No one criticizes them for that, it is expected of men. Now,
women are doing it! And society puts stupid labels on them like
slut,
whore and even that most stupid one,
hot wife.
We are sexually realizing beings that are now in a stage of life and in history, that can say, "Yes, I CHOOSE to fuck that well endowed black man while my husband watches! For no other reamister that to get a great piece of ass! Every man in the world has hit the Coyote Ugly chick at closing/last call .... just to get a piece of ass.
It is just our turn! Just my opinion here, and I am sure that the NET IDIOTS that like to perpetuate the male based BS that you see about cuckolding and interracial extra-marital things will rise up and attack, but hey, I guess the NET IDIOTS have to protect their male based stupidity. For me, I would welcome men to become intellignet about women's wants and needs, be able to differentiate them, and accept the reality of the differences.
Take care everyone,
Carmen
