Megan, I think you got it absolutely right. Let the men think about whether it's right or wrong for them, and you enjoy doing things with your lover that you haven't done with your husband. there is so much to discover really, and it's not just about the 'feel' of another man, but moreover a mix (right mix) of everything together! Good on you girl, enjoy! That's just my own permisteral feeling, although as
weslrobt rightly points out cucks have different feelings about things shared or shared with them.
S