manray:
In summary, it's good enough for her just to know you want her and she may even take this energy and use it to heighten sex with her husband. Bitch.
Exactly right. I have known a couple girls like this in years past, they would not give me the time of day. Now that they have matured a little, I am a stable guy, married...etc. They still want to talk and I won't give them the time of day. Feels good.
Keep playing these games with your ex, and your current gf finds out, she might leave you. Be the alpha male in this situation. I like "manray's" adive here.