How did it start

Hi There
Im Andy and firstly let me say i am just a wannabe cuckat the moment.
I have the gretest admiration and respect for all you guys and girls out there that have had the balls to live out your life the way you want.
I hope one day i can.
I have loved threesomes for as long as i can remember, be it porn or the odd one i have had myself.
I then met my lovely gf and still enjoyed watching 3some porn, but it took ages b4 i suddenly thought "hang on what if she was the one being fucked by more than 1 guy"!
Well that was it i cant think of a day or even hour that it hasnt been out of my head.
I have decided i am going to pursue the idea, and would welcome any tips from cucks or hotwives.

here is how I did it:
Step 1- opening the door:
For her the first step isn't sucking a room full of dick. She NEEDS to start with a lesser form of swinging.
The answer:
Bedroom talk is step one, and you are already there. Once her juices are flowing because a stranger is mentioned- your good.
Now, step 2:
She needs to SEE the "fantasy man" that you are talking about mid-fuck.
Take her to the clubs. Take her to the bar. Take her to the bookstore. Take her to the restaraunts. Ask her what she likes to see- long haired "Fabio" types- or the short military type. does she like a specific actor- what does he look like- hair style, eye color, body style? No matter what she likes- you APROVE OF IT. You WANT to see her fuck a long or short haired guy with whatever body type she prefers! SHE NEEDS THIS!
Next you need to be watching porn over her shoulder as she watches a video of a guy who looks like her perfect "type" (look around- you will find a porn actor that looks "right" for her). If she has a group of girlfriends- pay to send them to the strip club. Make sure there is enough for takes, and at least one lapdance with a male stripper that looks "perfect" for her. Often, on these Girls' nights out- you can get pics of her sucking dick- tell her it is okay, but DON'T DEMAND one. ANY pressure will cause this to fail...


I copied this from the "slow progress" thread"
I felt the same way, and this is how I got it going.....

Thanks very much Johnny
I look forward to some success
I had already started to encourage her to tell me about her types, so not a million miles from the mark.
Cheers

Let her get comfortable with the idea that looking at/scoping out other men will not offend you.
After this, the sex talk can include mentioning that it was a specific man (someone she saw at the restaraunt, for example.) is the one she is enjoying, etc.
Next step, let her be free to start fantasizing, thinking about men she would normally feel guilty or disloyal to you for thinking about. Encourage her- ask her to tell you about what she is dreaming about, and use the excitement to enjoy a night together talking and fucking.
Pressure, or over-suggesting this is the EASIEST way to ******* it!
she is taking "first steps" sexully- so she needs to be supported and encouraged- not shoved.

from someone basically in the same situation as you
the advice johnny posted is the way to go
slowly and for goodness sake dont forget the most important thing
communication communication communication
otherwise it wont happen
good luck
"men in general judge more from appearances than from reality.All men have eyes,but few have the gift of penetration." Niccolo Machiavelli