My wife's boyfriend

First post here, though I've been reading for a while. My wife's boyfriend is actually her ex-boyfriend; the guy she was with before we met. In fact she often reminds of how they've been together for 11 tears when we've only been together for 9.
Anyone elses situation like this?

No, I wish though. That sounds kinda cool. Tell us more detals. I am assuming they have a sexual relationship. Did this start after you were married, or before? How often does she see him? Does she prefer him over you or is it just for added spice? How do you make it work in your marriage?

We were already married. But one night I was really horny and started asking her about their sexlife. I told her that she should fuck him again but it was pretty much just pillow talk. Then one night she was working late and called told me she wanted to stop by his place and see him. I told her that I wasn't sure it was really a good idea. She said "ok". Then I fell arelax, the next thing I knew it was 4 am and she crawled into bed smelling like his cologne.
I was upset for about 5 minutes but quickly got over it. She definitely prefers sex with him. She also has done plenty of experimenting with him. Just how it is I guess!

To be more specific, iwcwtcm, the two of them fuck like pornstars. Which means they use toys, he gets her ass and mouth, unloads on her face...one time I was worried about how long she had been gone so I sent her a text message. She of course didn't respond. When she finally came home at about 6 am she said she couldn't reply because she was sucking on his feet (this from a girl who could never understand foot fetishes)!