My wife's interesting remark

My wife has decided to have some plastic surgery to fix her nose and increase her breast size. We had a longer conversation about it and she ended by saying "I'll be ready to date again!" She seemed so excited when she said it. I had an instant hard on!

We have been together for 14 years and she is very sexually conservative. She never talks about fantasies or anything. It's probably nothing, but I just can't stop thinking about it!

Encourage her! Say to her that she looks beautiful, and could give the young girls a run for there money. Tell her how the young guys will be eyeing her up and wanting to get her into bed. Say that they would have big cocks and lots of stamina, and tease her by saying that she probably would not be able to keep up with them in bed!

My feeling is that it was just a joke. But you never know. I have a plan of attack. I bought her a PVC dress about 12 months ago which she has never worn. We have also incorporated using toys in our sexual encounters. I bought a feeldoe type of dildo which inserts into her on one end and acts like a strapless strapon. I have not shown it to her yet.

So here's the plan after her surgery is completed and healed. Loosen her up with 2-3 glasses of wine and ask her to join me upstairs. Ask her to wear the vinyl dress and show her the dildo. I'm hoping the combo of the dominatrix-type clothing, using the strapon, and wine flowing will open her up to discussing her fantasies. I'm going to tell her that she is fulfilling my fantasy and I want to now what her's is. I think it will take some prodding on my part, but I'm hoping she'll feel 'dominant' in her position at the time to tell me what she really likes.

If she doesn't open up, I will change the subject to how hot she looks after her surgery and how the guys would be all over her at the bar. Kind of use open remarks that she could use as a way into her with other men.

I don't think talking to her directly about it will work. Mentioning other guys cocks and stuff may be too much at the beginning.

Heck, I haven't even been sure that this is what I really want, but it's all I can think about after one little comment.

My guess is that she meant to say that her breasts will look like they did when she was younger and still in her "dating" period of life. I may be wrong but I doubt that she hasnt even considered dating other men.
I would take a less agressive approach. After she has healed from her surgery, I would start taking her out more often. Have her buy some new outfits for when you go out that accentuates her new assets. She will probably be eager to show them off and your encouragement would be helpful for her. While you are out, be aware of others and let her know when you see someone checking her out. Wait a few weeks and then confide in her that it makes you feel good when other men check her out. Maybe tell her this right after you have made love and are talking intimately. I find that this is when my wife is most open about things. Dont go too fast. Wait a few more weeks and then start teasing her that she could probably have any man she wanted. If she is as conservative as you say, she will probably say "No I couldnt" and tell you that you are the only one for her. Challenge her with a bet. Take her to a bar or club (I dont know what you guys like to do when you go out) and have her go in to the bar by herself. Make her a bet about how fast it would take for someone to approach her. She doesnt have to do anything, just talk with the guy and accept a take if he offers. Later, you guys can talk about it. You should tell her at this time that watching her flirt with the guy was really exciting to you.

You will have to play it by ear about how to bring up her actually being with another man. Remember, most women have NO IDEA that some men want to have their wives fuck other men. When you first bring it up she will most likely be shocked. Reinpower that it pleases you when she is satisfied and that it would be really exciting to you.

I hope it works out for you. With any luck men will be admiring her new tits as she bounces up and down on their big hard cocks!

I'm sure it was just a joke. But she has made other comments over the years where I've wondered what she's talking about. Literally only about 3-4 comments over 11 years. Little jokes each time with a little sass to them.

I talked to her once about a comment she made and said she was just joking.

I highly doubt she has ever cheated on me. She never goes out on girl's night out and is never alone. We have 3 young youngren so I don't know when she would have the opportunity.

I am very witty and very good at getting girls to talk about sex, but my wife always seems to catch me off guard and I just stand there like an idiot!

lidman I have to agree with iwmwtcm. If he hadn't written already, I may have posted almost the exact same response. Your wife sounds a lot like mine. Very conservative upbringing and quite sexual repressed. You are will probably have to take the very slow approach (or in my case the "snail's" approach - ughh!). I point out guys checking her out or mentioned when some guy says something to hear with an obvious double meaning (which usually goes over head). I haven't been able to unlock her dark side yet (20 years and counting) but I haven't given up yet.

Good luck and keep us updated. Hope one of the methods works for you.

iwmtcm I think gives very good advise...the pointing out to her about other men checking her out really worked for me...particularly at lounges, nighclubs, etc. where a lot of single men were hanging out...also about letting her know I was enjoying it...eventually she picked up on it and started to (slowly at first) flirt with them through eye contact, exposing lots of leg to them when she knew they were watching, and even (after asking me) accepting their invitation to dance while I went to the men's room, etc. She was at first very cautious and constantly asking me if I was upset, to which I told her just the opposite, that it excited me very much. Next thing I knew she went to one of those all-girl sex toy parties and presented me with a very life-like 10" dildo which she said reminded her of the boyfriend that had broke up with her just before we were married, and who used to bring her to mind blowing orgasms...I took that to be the 'hint' I needed and things went very nicely from there towards her cuckolding me, which I love! The dildo became her 'pretend' ex-boyfriend and eventually I told her that I wanted the real thing for her...she was by then happy to grant me my wish and started going on 'dates' with guys! Of course the entire process took several years, but once I arrived it was like I had finally found my true sexual happiness.
I believe even conservative women have the cuckoldress potential in them, and we have to (sometimes at snail pace) wake it up in them!

Thanks everyone. I do believe it will be a slow process if it does happen, but I am very excited!

This is all really crazy. I can't believe that imagining and wanting my wife to be with other men is what I desire. I feel like something is truly wrong with me because I was always the total opposite!

lidman, I just wanted to reassure you that it's okay. Yes, it feels "wrong" or perhaps a better word is "different."

Good luck and let us know how it goes. It may take a long time, but you know what? It took a long time for you to reach this point too. So it's okay, it'll all work out fine.

xoxoxo

Christine

LIDMAN: You don't know the half of it...for years I didn't know there was such thing as cuckolding, much less any husband who would enjoy such a thing!..I really felt that I was some kind of sick weird-o...talk about something feeling 'wrong', imagine me secretly pushing my wife into it little by little, thinking I must be the only insane maniac that wants to see his wife perform with another male! I definitely thought something must have been wrong with me, and I wouldn't have blamed my wife if she had left me. Picking up a stranger at a bar and taking him to a hotel room to fuck my wife felt as the dirtiest thing ever!!...yet I did it because my urges were so strong!! I thought I should have been seeing a psychiatrist, much less pursuing the cuckold lifestyle, which was at that time unknown to me...imagine my relief when I later learned there were many other husbands like me...WHAT A RELIEF!!!!...not only did it start feeling RIGHT, but I was finally able to look at myself in the mirror without feeling disgusted. Many times we have to act on our gut instinct...I too was the jealous type before all this, until I discovered this side of me...I'm forever glad that I did...I know my wife is too!!

Well, fellas, my wife's consult is coming up in a couple of weeks and we've been discussing size. She mentions that she nows guys will be looking and I tell her 'that's all right'. I'm trying to let her know that I am OK with guys checking her out.

On a side note, my wife is out of town and I took it upon myself to purchase a CB3000. I am trying it out now. I will hide it when she gets back and wait for the right time to introduce it to her.

I love it! I dream of my large breasted wife controlling my key someday....

My wife and I decided to get frisky last night. The first time in almost a year! I bought her a small prostate massager to use as a vibrator a few years ago, but she said it was too small. So now she has a large one we use now and then. I told her to bring out the prostate massager for myself. She gave me a little look, but brought it out anyway.

We have never used anything on me before. She orgasmed after a few minutes and then asked me if I wanted her to get a condom or take care of myself. I told her I would take care of myself and headed to the bathroom.

Trying to get her used to her getting off without me doing the same.