first time big dildo

Hello you all,

This is not really cuckolding, I think, but I feel I need to shear this with people that might understand my feelings.

My beautiful 25 yo wife has never been with anyone but me. We've been married for 7 years and the topic of trying new things has risen many times. I get really horny when thinking her with some other guy. She like many other women gets turned on by the ida but doesn't like to do it for real. So, I've bougt her many dildos over the years but they have all been smaller than my inch cock. So far that is. Last week I went to this sex shop and saw this beautiful big realistic cock that was a replica of some pornstars. I was surprised to bet a huge boner by just looking at the thing! Wow, what a cock! I'm not gay but the idea of that in my wifes hand drove me over the edge and I manned up and bougt it.

I was so nervous thinking about ways to introduce that new big cock to my wife. Finally before love making I finally gave her the package with the pornstars details. Her face went totally red but I could see that it got her really aroused. I started to eat her pussy, like I always do before penetrating her,and to my surprice she was totally wet. She jst kept the big thing in her hands, feeling the oven 2 inch thich shaft, running her hand alond the beautiful as realistic as can be 8 inches of pornstar cock. When she got her first orgasm she couldn't help herself and starte to suck on that cock. Wooow, I've never seen her do anything lie that and I almost cane my self. Then slowly I started to fuck her while she preparc the new cock with lube. Then the big moment came - she said that she'd now like to have this big cock insid her. i came instantly. I watched in great facination how she started to push that cock inher tigt vagina. After a while the big head was in and she started to sig. She saind it felt so naughty yet natural. Then she came for the second time just like that. After that the thick shaft went in surprisingly easily and her smile was so beautiful when she realized that the cock had gone deeper into her than I ever had. Again she came and very intensly too! Then I took my cock to her mouth and took control of the dildo. I started to really fuck her with that pushing the thing all the way in, giving her the pounding of her life. She sucked on my cock moaning about tnis beeing the best sex ever. Then we both came hard! I never come twice and I was still hard. So, I moved down and pushed my cock inher pussy. Wooooow, what a feeling! It was so different and better than ever before, ot too loose, but certainly well fucked. Needles to say I came for the third time and surprisingly she came too.

I'm now really lookng forward to have this as a pemanent thing, since it was just soo good.

please comment on this great experience and I'd love to also hear what you think we should do next since now I really think the cat is out of tne bag..... Any similar experiences?

Careful, might turn her into a size queen

Great to hear that she is at least willing to play with the thought of a big cock fucking her. Give it some time and some gentle comments...she might actually want a real cock that big. Then what would you do?

Fucking my wife with a big dildo is actually one of the steps in my plan to get her to cuckold me.

You need to give it some time to get her thoroughly hooked on it. Tell her you love seeing her so satisfied. Tell her that her pleasure is the most important thing in the world to you. Make sure you give the dildo a male name and use that name as often as possible when you are using it to get her to associate another mans name with the feeling of a big cock.

After a couple of months you could begin having some serious talks about finding a real fat cock for her. The key is making her feel 100% certain that you will still love her.

i have had similar experiences several times. there is nothing else like it, except, i guess, for watching a real cock go into your wifes pussy.

my wife usually likes this kind of sex-play if she has recently met someone she wants to fuck. like one night she met a guy at a nightclub who really flirted with her and made it clear he wanted to fuck my wife. i wnated him to fuck her too. but wife wasnt ready. but when we got home she fucked that thick dildo like an natural in heat and called that guy at the nightclub by name to fuck her harder! made me come real good too.

I suspect a toy like this is very commonly found with couples where the husband is encouraging the wife to enjoy other lovers. Mine has an 8 inch, 1.5 inch diameter Caucasian toy and it is named. At first I had to suggest she use it when we make love. Now she asks for it about half the time. Needless to say, it fills her up VERY well. She humps it like a woman possessed and cums very hard.

Thank you for the comments!

It's good to know that I'm ot alone with this. Yesterday it happened again. It was just fantastic, maybe even beter than the first time. Now my wife openly stroked the dildo and sucked on it and fucked it like no tomorrow! Awesome And the sloppy seconds were just mind blwing. Incredible to think that her ones virgin pussy has now gotten a taste of a big cock. The tougt hounts me day and nigt.

I can now really see that size does matter and she for sure could be turned into a size queen, if that's not already happened. Really exiting yet a bit scarry i.e. to be honest I have no idea what to do next or if she really asks for the real thing. Could she really one day cuckold me for real? And if so, what then. I can't believe that this has happened after all this time...I'm hard even as I'm writing about this...brothers, advice is highly apreciated here. What would you do?

The biggest thing to keep in mind...REASSURANCE!!!!!

She needs to know at all times that you are here for her, and will love her no matter what happens. You are here for a reamister...you want to be a cuckold. You better make sure thats what you want, and when she (if she) cuckolds you...no getting mad or jealous. Also make sure that if she starts to feel guilty...love her like you have never loved her before.

Remember, this is all about her first...then you. She gets hers, then you get yours. Read (iwmwtcm's) post. It is very good and can provide a lot of insite into how to take things slow...and make it a loving cuckold relationship. Not a destructive one. Good luck, I will be following your post to catch the updates.

Many thanks for your comments. i suppose I do wanna be a cuckold, but it's just very painful to say it outloud. I think what adds my arrousal is that we were both virgins when we met i.e. My wife is only woman I've ever been with. So, the idea that she would experience other men let alone superior lover just makes me crazy. I think the next thing I'll do is rent a porn flick with some mmf scenes and big cocks. Then I'll try to get her to masturbate with our big dildo while watching the film. Let's see how it goes. I'll keep you posted.

Yes! Third time was again even better than last. I've honestly not ever seen my wife so horny. I mean we've seen porno befor, but now it wa just incredible. Sure I had picked a dvd devoted to mmf scenes (one with a big black cock!) but still. Shes before been quite conservative.

I sucked her big boobs and liked her clit while she watched the hot scenes. She held the big
dildo in her hands and ocationally sucked on it. She came the first time when a big black man fucke a white woman. After the dvd she just said she now needs cock "give me A big cock now". Wow, I almos came right there. I mean shes often said during sex that she wants my cock, but that she wanted a big cock was something new and smoking hot. Needles to say that we fucked lie crazy. Like before the ne dildo played a big part. It was just amazing to take turns with the big dildo. Her pussy felt so wet and horny (big). I even went down on her while she fucked her self with the dildo. Wooow, what a feeling! The thing seems to go in much easier now. I suppose shes getting used to it.

I've sometimes mentioned to her about other guys etc., but I haven't now even talked about that. What should I do, any suggestions? Your comments are highly appreciated.

Now that she's pretty hooked on the sensation of a big cock, perhaps next you could start encouraging her to visualize the kind of guy she'd want attached to it. Help her get started if needed, but then let her lead once she's into that--and don't ever judge her. Ladies who are interested in this are very receptive to encouragement (okay, persuasion) when a big dildo is in her pussy and your tongue is on her clit--or both!

Once she is comfortable visualizing the guy attached to the big cock, perhaps move on to fantasies about how you'd meet this guy. Pick-up at a bar while on vacation? Someone she knows at work? Meeting a stranger off a site? Let her tell you what turns her on...

Also, resist the temptation do this all the time. It is fun for you both, but she may start to think this is all that interests you now if you don't have a nice big-cock-free snog every once in a while.

Good luck!

First of all, let me say that I am following this thread very carefully. This is exactly what I am planning to do with my own wife. Please, please, please tell me the name of the video you bought.

I would caution you about moving too fast. I would not bring up the idea of adding another man until she is well accustomed to the dildo (couple of months at least). The MMF porno was a great idea, btw. She might be willing to discuss it, but then again she might not. And you dont want to turn her off to it by tipping your hand too early.

If I were you, I would monitor her activities carefully. Adjust the rotation of the dvd in the case so that you know if she is watching it on her own. If she is, then you know that she is intrigued by it. Monitor the placement of the dildo so that you know if it gets used during her solo masterbation periods. I know this seems like spying, but you need to understand where she is at so that your timing has the greatest degree of success.

Finally, I would like to ask some advice from you. Hopefully I will be in a similar situation as you soon. How do you plan on bringing up the idea of replacing the dildo with a real cock? How will you assure her that you really want her to do it and that your marriage will be safe?

Thanks for sharing your story.

Hi again,

It just gets better and better. It's almost physically painfully to little by little accept the fact that she's getting very used to having that much bigger and thicker cock stretch her out providing explosive orgasms every time! It's just incredible. The movie was a UK production called private peep show special. Actually it's a whole series. A good idea to start "spying" on her. I'll get rigt on it

I think I'm gonna get her get well accustomed to the feeling of beeing filled. In fact I was even thinking about upgrading the dildo after a while to an even thicker one. Then afeter that maybe it's time to bring up a real cock. At least then it would be clear that my little dick is just not enoug to give thet full sensation which she already seems to like so much. I do also get very exited about the tougt of eating a "cream pie" I think it's way too much at this point. We're afterall quite conservative people. I have though already liked her open pussy and clit while she masturbates with the big thing. I recommend that it's just great. I even tougt about cumming in her and then using the dildo and liking her out,but that too is yet a bit much.

I'll keep you posted as we go along, but already I highly recomment to all you wannabe cuckolds to buy a realistic as expensive as possible bigger than your own cock dildo so you can rigt away start to explore the wonders of sharing your wife. Will it ever lead to the real thing,I don't know, but it's sure worth every penny! Also it's the safe and easy way to go.

Please feel free to comment! I'll also try to take a pic of my wife with the dildo, she's just so hot in her white lingerie. It would be something to see some other guy(s) handle her big tits. I'm hard just thinking about that.! Let's see if I'll manage to convince her

I used one on my wife last week for the first time. It is black, about nine inches and one of my favorite ass toys. It is one of the softer real feeling ones and about three times the size of my sissy clit. I had talked her up to letting me use it on her. I was like you so fucking excited when I got permission I thought I would shoot my first load on the spot.

We started out with some casual foreplay and then I went down her to get her wet and horny for her black lover. While I was licking her I had the dildo under me to keep it at body temperature. After making her come the first time orally I pulled the dildo out and lubed it up with my mouth, she took a peek a couple times while I was going between licking her and sucking and slobbering all over the black dildo.

Finally the moment of truth, I slowly started sliding it in and out going a little further each time and at the same time lick the cock and her pussy. At one point she started rubbing her clit while I was fucking and licking her anywhere I could get my tongue. After a few minutes she came like I had never seen her come before. When she came down from her orgasm I slowly pulled it out, licked it clean of her juices (no man juice damn it) and gave her a few more licks. Then I climbed on her, stuck my little thing in her stretched hole and came in ten strokes. It was excellent and made me feel like there may be some room to expand in this area.

The disappointing part was when I asked her how she enjoyed it. she said she thought the dildo was to big and it hurt. She said she had to go somewhere else in her head to cum. I do not really believe that because she came like I have never seen her before. I am going to start the dialogue again and see where it goes. I want so bad to please her. That is what it is all about for me, doing anything I can to make her happy and cum like fireworks. I will let you know how it progresses for round two.

I like this site, I am learning from it as I get all worked up at the same time.
ShortSupply

I expect my wife to say the same sort of thing. She is so worried about wounding my male psyche. I used to use a penis entender on her (gave me 2 more inches and added girth). She enjoyed the deeper penetration and I enjoyed being able to fuck her longer because of the decreased sensitivity. And after I took it off and fucker her without it, I loved the feeling of her being stretched out!

Anyway, afterwards she would always downplay it because she thought it would hurt my feelings.

If the didlo is molded after a pornstar, why not just get a dvd featuring him in a role that would excite her and allow you to refer to him by name. Her transistion from "give me A big cock now", to "I want --------- to fuck me tonight", to "lick me while ---------fucks me", etc....should be a natural progression.
Maybe it ends there, maybe not, but the progression will make it quite easy for you to talk about the, "what if's", "and have your ever's".

Oh yeah, giving the dildo a male name is a must.

I think turning our wives into size-queens who need to find large cocks to fuck IS what people here are wishing for!

UpDate!

I tougt I should give an update on our situation. Honestly sex has never been better! I higly recommend buying a realistic large dildo for ones wife. just unbelieveble sex each time. Now my wife is well used to the dildo - stretched for good, no going back now!

We've given a name to the cock - Jeff for Mr Sryker - and it's just mind blowing when the wife asks for Jeffs big cock to fuck her. There's nothing better than taking turns with Jeff... Also now I've bougt some Jeff Stryker films and when we watch them my wife sometimes rides the dildo and sucks me off at the same time. Shes even said that she'd like to have the real thing someday, it feels that good.

Also I did like you guys suggested and started "spying" on her. As a result I've noticed that se does watch the dvd:s ocationally when I'm not at home and also uses the dildo. Actually one of my current favorites is to sms my wife before leaving from work saying that it wold be nice to have sloppy seconds from Jeff when I come home. It's just so damn exiting to arrive and see the wife masturbating with the dildo while watching the dvd. Then I'll just go down on her and fuck her like cracy

I wonder what would be the next thing to do? Any suggestions?

I would say to keep going slowly. It sounds like the both of you are having a lot of fun with this. Why risk that so soon? Remember, its not the destination, its the journey TO the destination that will set the foundation to a wonderfully satisfying cuckold relationship.

I would keep going slow and add more subtle aspects to the fun. The best thing to happen is to plant a seed and let it grow on its own inside her mind.

Ideas:
Let Jeff become a common name in your day-to-day communication. For example, over dinner you might mention that Jeff left a message on the answering machine. "He'd really like to see you on Friday". That will get her thinking! Or how about sending a bouquet of flowers to her with a note that says "Thanks for last night! -Jeff". Wow, that would blow her mind! Make sure you see her face light up when she first reads the note.

Encouarge her to use Jeffs name whenever you have sex. I am guessing that she will let you know when the time will be to talk about moving to a real one.

Great ideas!

I agree totally on taking it slow. The planted seed is thoug already growing rapidly. We haven't had sex without Jeff since I introduced him to my wife. In fact he's getting more than me. I think my wife is now use to the idea that it's not just me. During sex shes now continiously asking for big cocks and multiple cocks too. Also the strangest thing is that also I'm getting accustomed to her wanting and having other cocks in additionto mine. It's kinda starting to feel like a natural thing and not somethin perverted.

We never for example use to talk about masturbating etc. but now my wife is openly talkng about her fantasies and how shes enjouying sex nowadays. It's just the best!.

Thats it. Im ordering one too!

Hello again,

I feel that a dildo update is soon relevant. Thoug our current Jeff is already much larger than my dick my wife migt be ready to try something slightly bigger. I think it's important to explore further if it's the size that matters to her and not just all the naughtiness involve to "Jeff".

Do you guys have any suggestions on big but not huge realistic dildos? I was thinking about the kong from doc johnmister. It's 2 and 1/4 inches thick i.e. 1/4 inches mor than our Jeff. I think it migt be just a bit too big of a leap, but also I'm hard just thinking about the affects it migt have on my wife.... If she would love it, it would just blow my mind ;)

Wow, it seems like its a little soon to upgrade unless she's asking for it. Have you tried talking to her about trying something larger? If she's game, I'd take her to an adult toy store (some arent as sleazy as they used to be) and browse. Judge her reaction.
Me and my wife recently perused an adult toy store while looking for a strapon for her to use on me. When we were at the dildo section, we were looking at all the different sizes and materials, and I told her I wanted to get her one. Normally, if she was not interested, she would have no problem saying so. But this time she didnt say anything. Not a yes or a no. I am taking that as "ok, it sounds like fun, ut im embarressed to admit it". I'll be ordering one soon.

An interstesting point: a lot of these stores have monitors strategically placed around the store where they play various adult videos. No audio, just video. At the time we were there they happened to be playing a video of a cute blond relaxing on a couch while shoving the biggest dongs you can imagine into her. They were easily three or four inches in diameter! To tell you the truth, it was erotic but kind of disgusting at the same time. The wife was NOT impressed.

Final question: what is your goal? To see how big she can go? Or is it to get her receptive to finding another man with a big cock to fuck her? If so do you think that going bigger will help in achieving that goal?

Hi,

My goal is to share her with others and watch / join in. I want to eat her out after a superior cock has filled her up with cum

So, I'm trying to find only a slightly larger dildo than our current one. As realistic looking and feeling big cock as possible. Jeff already is very life like, but I'd love to see her reactions to a tiny bit larger cock. I think I'd like to show her that big cocks are totally normal and that I'm ok with her wanting to experiment. She's afterall never been with anyone else but me. Of course I also want to see her stretched and to see her really enjoy the feeling of beeing full, touched in places I can't reach, but fisting etc. is not very appealing to me.

The other day when we had sex she for the first time also said that she wants it deep in her i.e. So far it's been more about thickness. So very humiliating and exiting to hear something like that from the woman you love. Anyways, I moved to the side and Jeff mad her cum once again....

She said harder. I did that. She said faster. I did that. She said deeper! I philosophized.

tedsilver

I've been reading your thread so closely, and it just occurred to me that I have yet to comment. Perhaps that's because this is the first time I was able to read all the way to the end

Anyway, I'd love to hear where this leads you. Like many people here, I'm in the same (wannabe) situation as you.

About two years ago, I got really takes and told my then girlfriend all of my fantasies in great detail all at once. Needless to say she was completely overwhelmed.

Since then, I have made teeny-tiny hints and suggestions, but have overall backed off completely. I'm just now starting to see signs of progress. It helped that she's decided to work as a consultant for a well-known sex toy distributor. Anyway, here are some signs of progress:

-She recently tried a dildo a bit bigger than me and she liked it (it's probably no Jeff, though).

-She told me the other day that she had a "touch of Jungle Fever," although I had never mentioned any IR fantasies to her before.

-After telling me about the "Jungle Fever" she suggested naming her dildo after an African-American NFL player who has a show on the Travel Channel.

-Recently we did a role play where we had a pretend male "watcher." When I put her dildo in her pussy, she looked me in the eye and said "can that be 'the watcher.'"

-She just bought a new girth-enhancing sleeve that is going to make me bigger around than her dildo. We have yet to use it though.

Future plans:

-We haven't incorporated any "Jungle Fever" stuff into our bedroom play yet, but we will.

-I fully intend to eventually put the girth-enhancing sleeve on her dildo and use it on her while she is blind-folded. I know that sounds strange, but she goes crazy when she's got more than she realized inside of her (ie - "Do you KNOW how many fingers are in there?").

If anyone cares I can update on the occasion that things happen.

I had no intention of stealing thunder from the OP, I just didn't think my situation was enough to sustain it's own thread.

Any updates? Did you get a larger dildo for your wife? How did she respond?

Hi,

It's been just great though I didn't yet buy the larger dildo. I've noticed that her pussy has strethed some more even with "just" Jeff. Maybe it's because I love to spread her ass and pussy while she fucks the dildo. Anyway Jeff slides in and out now with ease. I suppose the slightly larger toy will come to the picture eventally,but not quite yet. I've slowed things just a littele bit sincd it's sooo good as it is already.

There was one new thing yesterday though that can be considere as new development. After having sex (naturally including Jeff) I went for a quick shover (I usually loose interest for a cople of minutes after cumming). When I came back to the bedroom my wife was watching porn (we have a big screen in the bedroom) and Jeff was going in and out her cum (my cum...) filled pussy. What a view! Then she just took cum covered Jeff out and started slurping on it. Her open pussy - a real cream pie - looked so sexy that I just had to do it. Yes, for the first time I tasted the sweet taste of the mix of cum and pussy juices. Wow, what a turn on for us both! My wife came almost instantly and I soon after I entered her.

The funiest thing though was that afterwards we just laughed about what happened and everything seemend quite normal i.e. she nor I felt disgusted and actually everything felt quite normal. We haven't yet had sex after that, but I think that it's not going to be an everyday thing but maybe not an isolated event aither. Honestly for the first time I actually think that this migt someday lead to actual threesomes and even cuckolding. For the whole day I've been thinking do I really want to proceed, since there might soon be no turning back. Shes's already expressed (while having sex) interst towards having more than one real cock fucking her. Since I'm the only one shes ever been with, this is mind blowing stuff for me ;)

Comments and suggestions, anybody?

Thats a great development! I have eaten my own creampie several times. I love the taste!

I would say keep going slow and keep it fun for her. Make sure she knows how happy it makes you to see her satisfied. Also, make sure she knows that you dont feel any jealousy the "Jeff" is bigger and makes her feel so good. Thats a big hangup with my wife. She is so concerned about hurting my psyche that she wont admit things like that.

Love your posts! Keep it up.

Thanks for the update! It doesn't make for the most exciting thread, but going slow is always a good thing. Keep posting!