last summer my wife started getting much more interrested in sex. Our frequency went from once every 2 months to 1-2 times a week. I LOVED IT... however it made me curious.... I installed some spyware on our PC (Without her knowing) and after a couple of weeks checked back. It became clear that she was at the very least having phone sex with a guy from another state. I WAS REALLY UPSET.... AND TURNED ON? When I confronted her about it she came clean and sincerely begged forgiveness. I have forgiven her and things are good. I realize that I wasn't upset that she had done it, but that she had done it behind my back. Now I think about it ALOT. We have talked about sharing her with another man (it turns us both on), but we really don't want to risk destroying our marriage. I am tempted to see if she is willing to do it while I'm there either watching or helping. What do you think??