bolt3043
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Since I was younger I always fantasized about the Hotwife lifestyle and having a wife that would be into that also. I had never brought it up to anybody, including the various girlfriends I had, until I was in a very solid marriage with my wife and that was about a month ago. The question is should I be concerned that my wife accepted to give it a try with virtually no hesitation. I've read that most wifes are reluctant at first then slowly give in, but my wife put up virtually no fight. We've been together for about ten years and have been married four, we have a family, and are very happy together. That was the only reamister I was O.K. bringing this up to her or willing to try this it just threw me off a bit that she accepted so easily. Advice???? |
Scarf
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Deep down you probably knew she has a wild side, that she has wanted to be with other men - maybe little hints like the way she might dress or present herself to other men, enjoying their attention. Do you want to be their or just have her go out without you
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bolt3043
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She actually only dresses up for me, she never flirts dresses very normal never really skimpy, only for me, thats what struck me as a bit weird. I thought she only did it for my pleasure. I'm sure you're proably thinking the opposite by the pics. but they're only from our private moments. She actually said she wanted me to be their, which I'm excited about either way or a little of both would be fine with me but I do like the fact that she wanted me to be their the first time(s). |
Scarf
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has she expressed interest in Black men?
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bolt3043
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No she's said she only wants to try white and hispanic. I guess that might change as time goes on...
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blackside999
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Nice!
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Carvin
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I think you are in a very enviable position. A lot of would be cucks find it very difficult to convince their wives or girlfriends to take lovers, that she's so keen to try, and to please you doing so, is a very positive start.
She's a very beautiful woman and to see her taken by other men will be a wonderful and sensual experience for you both. I hope you will be sharing your adventures here with us. Be very proud of her, you are a lucky man.
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tinylittlegirl
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Sounds to me like she has already done it and this gives her a way to justify her doing it!
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brainbox1
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Hi and welcome. You have a very beautiful wife and from what you are saying it appears that she is open to being a hotwife to please you. This is something to be proud of and not annoyed with. I think you should go for it (maybe for her to go black?) and enjoy it. Discuss the pros and cons of being a cuckold with her and what is acceptable behaviour for both of you. Good luck  |
cuck_boy66
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wow - what a beautiful wife you have, man. good luck to you!
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sensual4wife
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You have a very beautiful wife that would also make an exceptional hotwife. From looks alone she will have no issue finding lovers/bfs. She also has a hubby that is accepting of this lifestyle and it appears at least intially she wants to share all with you. Remember this is for her and once she becomes more comfortable and involved she will enjoy it even more. Keep us posted on the progression
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fukinwives
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Damn, I wanna be her first bull. I'd love to teach her to be my private fuck doll and show you how to be a real cuck.
The best pussy is always married pussy
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aceone
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Keep us posted. She is very hot and your story sounds very interesting.
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Master_4_yourwife
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Very nice!! Whereabouts in the world are you
guys from?
Do you need to be concerned? Do you have a
good sex life? Does she think you have a good
sex life?
Maybe she accepted so readily because she has
a previously untapped submissive side to her
nature?
If you want to talk with an experienced Dominant
type then feel free to PM me.
Intelligent articulate man seeks people who need to be "used, abused & humiliated!"
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randy71_19
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She's a perfect 10 !!! wowzers!! Let me know where the line starts My wife and I have been together since high school. I've tried a few different tactics to see if she's be interested, and all met a quick brick wall. She's having her breasts done 2 months from now, and I'm curious if it'll change her or not... guess I'll see. Good luck to you!! and I'd love to see more pics on the thread or private ( [email protected]). - randy |
bigjoecook
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My wife and I started swinging after we got marrried. It was always me cheating before that. Once we got married she opened up to the idea of multiple partners. I don't think you have anything to worry about because she wasn't resistant to the idea. She is probably just secure in your marriage now and figures it is just for fun as we were. Most people I have found that are resistant to it at first are for religious or social norm ideals. If you are both comfortable with it and don't feel guilty about it then there won't be a problem with it. If you do it together then no one is being decieved so it will work out fine. Let's face most people want to try new sexual experiences and explore. that is just human nature!
by the way she is HOT! and think you guys will have some serious fun once you start. once we started there is not one sexual fantasy we haven't done. Not many people can say that in this world! So we say go for it!
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fredsthe1
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Wow! You my friend are on lucky man. Your wife clearly has no problems getting just about any man to bed her and she knows it. I would have no problems letting her do as she sees fit, being her cuckold would truly be a priviledge. The fact that she was quick to grasp this "offer" from you tells me that she needs satisfaction outside the maritial bed. You're the one that brought this on - don't screw it up by showing signs of jealously and anger if she decides to do it. That's only gonna cause her to resent you. Have some self confidence and enjoy it!
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bolt3043
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Thanx for the comments/advice. I am very secure in our marriage its just that this is a first, so I am being overly cautious the last thing I want is to open pandoras box with negative results. She is a great wife/friend, we have great realtionship, both happy, and I am exicted to start this new chapter in our life. Please keep the comments/advice going, its great insight. |
Rainbow64
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no you should not be worred.
you need to tell her that nothing would make you more happy than for her to be with other men openly.
Good Luck
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bremenpetite
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Damn she's hot. You will really enjoy watching her fuck.
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Master_4_yourwife
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You never did tell us where you and your beautiful wife are from. I am sure any guys that read this and are local to you will start to form a queue Intelligent articulate man seeks people who need to be "used, abused & humiliated!" |
francis
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Dude from what I see YOU ALREADY HAVE A HOT WIFE. She is stunning.
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Smoothlegs
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Would gladly trade positions with you!!
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wifedateshubwaits
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Quoting: bolt3043 She is a great wife/friend, we have great realtionship, both happy, and I am exicted to start this new chapter in our life. This says it all. If you have a good marriage and communicate, this can be a very exciting lifestyle. You may have more jealousy than you think (I know I did!), but if the two of you are in love you can work through that. Good luck! |
PeterInCA
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She's beautiful, bolt3043. And it sounds like you two are really in love. All the best to you both, I hope things turn out even better than you imagine they could.
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panos_yogi
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She is very beautiful indeed, bolt. Just a word of caution: could she be testing you for your committment to her? I'm asking because she does not look the luscious type to me (appearances may deceive and we can't really see her face).
So I think you are right to be cautious about this. My idea is to talk to her about it when u fuck; then you can really feel if she likes it! A dipstick of her deepest senses, if you like, lol
Thank you for sharing the pics of her
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norwegian
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She is really stunning. BUT
There are four kinds of women in this situation;
1) she is really totaly in love with you. You are too pushy, and she think....ok...if this is the only way to keep him. (I can just see the act; a 'bull' on top of her...she lying stiff and cold looking at the roof...noot even moaning....you sitting in a chair beside the bed...jercking as hell...screaming 'like it baby...show me that you like it baby'....and cumming when she feels like saying 'upppsss')
2) she is already fucking around and just want this 'approval' from you to hide her bad consious
3) she is a whore (soory...really hornay woman) who like to fuck lots of men...not to your benefit....you will loose her soon...if you are not a total stud yuorself
4) She is totallynot in love with you, and is just looking for a way out
Be careful
I know
BUT; she is absolutely stunning...very sex...good luck
A cuck to my GF - A bull to all other women
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bigjoecook
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That may be your experience, but I think you are wrong, my wife and I did the mmf, ffm, ff an every other experience you can do. After doing it for 3 years it was her that said she wanted to quit not me. So, I think that every realationship is different and as long as you both are honest with each other the relationship will stay intact if not get stronger!
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married couple
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Hi Bolt3043. Any news about your situation? Please keep us informed.
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XtasyEric
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#30 · Edited by: XtasyEric
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